Phoenix.Amandarius said:
»They call people bigots to hide the fact that people like you and all other hypocrites sat silently not giving a ***about gay marriage for the last twenty years of your life until it picked up steam a few years ago and you try to absolve yourself of your guilty past of soft bigotry. You point at the people yet to come around to your newfound crusade to act like you've been here all along.
As for intolerance, look at the horrible intolerance shown towards those that believe killing a child before it breathes on its own is wrong.
You act as if changing your mind on a topic is cardinal sin. Do you really expect everyone to be uniform on a topic at any point in time? Your world really is black 'n white isn't it. We're all capable of changing and there is nothing to be ashamed of by making course corrections based on new data.
Some people are going to behind an issue at its genesis, often because they're directly impacted by it. See black people during civil rights, the first wave of gay activists or environmentalists. Others will join through being convinced that the status quo needs to be changed after reading something like Uncle Tom's Cabin, The Jungle or Silent Spring.
Others won't change until the public opinion sways in favor of the motion like politicians and sheep lack of a better term. We're all 'sheep' on one topic or another so I don't feel a way about using the term. How many people realized bigotry against black people was wrong through watching
All in the Family? More than you'd think.
Others will fence sit because of personal indecision or split emotions on the issue. Many of these people are the ones that'll hold onto a Biblical passage until the bastion falls and another Biblical passage is used to create yet another bulwark.
Still more will defend the status quo till the very end because their worldview is so entwined with a certain way of life. These be the types that have spent so much time hating others that they can't see reality without a group to kick around.
Others won't change until the issue becomes personal. You know, like when your daughter is the one carrying the child of a one night stand or drops being gay on you.
For the record I didn't really start thinking much of the LBGT issue until I made friends with a gay dude who turned out to be as normal as the next geeky introvert. Cool guy, likes dudes, was my personal BLM, trusted him with my XI account (life). It was then that I realized that what I had been taught was *** and that all of this manufactured hatred was no better than any other ethnic disputes.