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 Pandemonium.Machiaveli
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By Pandemonium.Machiaveli 2011-06-21 07:58:44
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-06-21 08:08:02
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Odin.Blazza said:
Not gonna read 13 pages, did we find out whether or not Jetacku was spanked as a child?

I know I was, I turned out ok (I guess that's open to debate). I don't have any strong memories of being spanked, although I know I was, so I guess I must have deserved every single one of them.

I got a vague answer from him once.
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-06-21 08:23:29
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Ramuh.Urial said:
Odin.Blazza said:
Not gonna read 13 pages, did we find out whether or not Jetacku was spanked as a child?

I know I was, I turned out ok (I guess that's open to debate). I don't have any strong memories of being spanked, although I know I was, so I guess I must have deserved every single one of them.

I got a vague answer from him once.
In another thread about the same issue, we got a more clear answer about that. Yes he was. Not even sure if that thread exists anymore.
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By Ifrit.Daemun 2011-06-21 08:24:50
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Bahamut.Jetackuu said:
spank
1   /spæŋk/ Show Spelled[spangk] Show IPA
–verb (used with object)
1.
to strike (a person, usually a child) with the open hand, a slipper, etc., especially on the buttocks, as in punishment.
–noun
2.
a blow given in spanking; a smart or resounding slap.

World English Dictionary
violence (ˈvaɪələns) [Click for IPA pronunciation guide]

—n
1. the exercise or an instance of physical force, usually effecting or intended to effect injuries, destruction, etc

(in before somebody tries to call into the italicized.

spanking is violence,
violence (ˈvaɪələns) [Click for IPA pronunciation guide]

— n
1. the exercise or an instance of physical force, usually effecting or intended to effect injuries, destruction, etc
2. powerful, untamed, or devastating force: the violence of the sea
3. great strength of feeling, as in language, etc; fervour
4. an unjust, unwarranted, or unlawful display of force, esp such as tends to overawe or intimidate
5. do violence to
a. to inflict harm upon; damage or violate: they did violence to the prisoners
b. to distort or twist the sense or intention of: the reporters did violence to my speech



In summation: you are wrong
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-06-21 08:28:17
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No point in replying to him, he's been topic banned from this thread.
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2011-06-27 13:39:57
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Leviathan.Angelskiss said:
I have to disagree with the use of food as a punishment or reward, it has the potential to create very unhealthy eating patterns through out life.

You can rule out every form of punishment using that arguement. Everything has the potential to harm a child later in life.

Food is too high on the "hierarchy of needs" not to use it to your advantage. Here's an example I have given before of a Ninja mind control statement usefull when training children.

A family friend complained that he can't get his kids to clean up their rooms. They go up there but then they get distracted and start playing and never get the cleaning done. "Watch this" I tell him then peek my head in their room and shout.

"Hurry kids!!! We can't go get ice cream until after you finished cleaning your room!!!" <insert sounds of kids breaking their necks getting their room cleaned here> and if they start slowing down a simple "ice cream!" will get them to pick up the pace.

So what this statement does it implants a desire for a reward (they didn't know they wanted), a sense of urgency (that doesn't really exist), and a clear, simple goal for them to obtain the reward.

If you had instead just said something like "Hey, If you kids clean your room some time today maybe I will take you out for some ice cream later" they have time while they are cleaning to weigh the reward against the effort they are putting in and decide it's not worth it and then just quit working or worse, start negotiating...

And if you are some kind of ice cream hating nazi like angelskiss you can replace ice cream with "go to the park/lake/beach/video game or toy store etc." I guess... Do they still have putt-putt golf courses anymore?

Anyway, the important part is the element of suprise.
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