Ramuh.Lorzy said:
Bahamut.Dasva said:
Harbor said:
My GF insists shes more important then this game, what should i do?
Romantically Frustrated?
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Romantically frustrated?
She is. But just cause one thing is more important doesn't mean you can't have both. Water is more important than food or shelter... still kinda need both. If she insists it's one or the other... tell her to get back to the kitchen zahrah said: Bismarck.Xdudemanx said: no but i know two of them really like me and im not sure about the other one so dating all three at once would probably be out of the question...cool thing is they all know my situation Go with your gut feeling. Which one do you think is more compatible for the long-term. I'm assuming you want long-term, right? Bismarck.Xdudemanx said: zahrah said: Bismarck.Xdudemanx said: no but i know two of them really like me and im not sure about the other one so dating all three at once would probably be out of the question...cool thing is they all know my situation Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: Harbor said: My GF insists shes more important then this game, what should i do?  ??? Psbly the most relevant thing said in this forum. Harbor said: Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: Harbor said: My GF insists shes more important then this game, what should i do? ??? Psbly the most relevant thing said in this forum. it's hard to pause a game when it's online though Asura.Xenophire said: Bahamut.Dasva said: Asura.Xenophire said: Yeap. Not being a Debbie Downer here, but, being gay has it's set backs. Finding someone. Haha. I can't remember where it was, maybe it was here, but I remember the topic about how girls tend to like ***. Maybe it's the same with the gay community, too! >.<; Logging off until this passes. Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Harbor said: My GF insists shes more important then this game, what should i do? If you care for her more than the game, you just need to convey that properly taking into consideration her needs/desires and you're set. Think you are, but seeing as how you're getting quite a few serious responses I'm starting to have my doubts. If trollin' - O, U. If not trollin' - Josiah is exactly right. She feels neglected, do you guys live far away from eachother? Because that's when girls feel it the most. Because they can't spend as much time with you as couples that live near one another, it feels shitty to be ignored over a game when they do visit you or chat to you. So: 1) Either find a healthy balance between games and your girl 2) Play games WITH her :D Let's be honest, sitting there while your partner plays a game solo is just shitty as hell (when it happens very often). Ramuh.Rowland said: Back to the topic of long distance relationships, I tried it for a couple years. Met with her once when she came for a college visit. She ended up cheating on me a couple times after that. Half was her being so guilty that she told me and begged forgiveness, the other half was her friends confirming. Even if it was a lie, it did its job by making me dislike her and possibly ruining my personal thoughts on long distance dating. As much as I love having someone to talk to online almost every day while still doing everything I like, I'd rather be doing things with them in person. I don't think poorly of people who long distance dating or meeting on the internet, but I just don't think it's for me anymore. /jaded yeah i wouldn't want a long distance relationship seems like there could be a lot of things that could happen Bahamut.Lolserj said: Ramuh.Rowland said: Back to the topic of long distance relationships, I tried it for a couple years. Met with her once when she came for a college visit. She ended up cheating on me a couple times after that. Half was her being so guilty that she told me and begged forgiveness, the other half was her friends confirming. Even if it was a lie, it did its job by making me dislike her and possibly ruining my personal thoughts on long distance dating. As much as I love having someone to talk to online almost every day while still doing everything I like, I'd rather be doing things with them in person. I don't think poorly of people who long distance dating or meeting on the internet, but I just don't think it's for me anymore. /jaded yeah i wouldn't want a long distance relationship seems like there could be a lot of things that could happen Like, if I'd been with a girl for 6 months+ and she had to move away for work or school. I know that I'll have enough cash to join her in a few months and there's a promising job market for me where she's going... or something like that.
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Wombat said: Bahamut.Lolserj said: Ramuh.Rowland said: Back to the topic of long distance relationships, I tried it for a couple years. Met with her once when she came for a college visit. She ended up cheating on me a couple times after that. Half was her being so guilty that she told me and begged forgiveness, the other half was her friends confirming. Even if it was a lie, it did its job by making me dislike her and possibly ruining my personal thoughts on long distance dating. As much as I love having someone to talk to online almost every day while still doing everything I like, I'd rather be doing things with them in person. I don't think poorly of people who long distance dating or meeting on the internet, but I just don't think it's for me anymore. /jaded yeah i wouldn't want a long distance relationship seems like there could be a lot of things that could happen Like, if I'd been with a girl for 6 months+ and she had to move away for work or school. I know that I'll have enough cash to join her in a few months and there's a promising job market for me where she's going... or something like that. oh yea i meant with someone you never met Ramuh.Rowland said: Wombat said: Like, if I'd been with a girl for 6 months+ and she had to move away for work or school. I know that I'll have enough cash to join her in a few months and there's a promising job market for me where she's going... or something like that. wat if you're in looooooooooove Ramuh.Rowland said: Bahamut.Lolserj said: Ramuh.Rowland said: Wombat said: Like, if I'd been with a girl for 6 months+ and she had to move away for work or school. I know that I'll have enough cash to join her in a few months and there's a promising job market for me where she's going... or something like that. wat if you're in looooooooooove I'm sure I can find someone to love that doesn't ruin my career and comfort of a decent job :P oh now that you put it that way Ramuh.Rowland said: Bahamut.Lolserj said: Ramuh.Rowland said: Wombat said: Like, if I'd been with a girl for 6 months+ and she had to move away for work or school. I know that I'll have enough cash to join her in a few months and there's a promising job market for me where she's going... or something like that. wat if you're in looooooooooove I'm sure I can find someone to love that doesn't ruin my career and comfort of a decent job :P Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said: I would have to be with her for more than a year if I'm even willing to either relocate for her or have her relocate for me. Before I met her, I broke up with a girl I had been with for two years because she had to move away and I wasn't willing to relocate. So... it's kinda situational.
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Ramuh.Rowland said: You sir are a better man than I. I barely like to even drive across town (15-20mins). I don't like being out of my comfort zone :< I also drive a PoS car and bought my wife a pretty decent one, so I could trick her into driving when we go places. Ramuh.Rowland said: I just don't feel very productive when I'm driving. And I'd like spending a lot of time at my destination, I don't want to be there for like a couple hours then drive all the way back. I used to stay with my friends in their apartment and sleep on the couch all the time because they lived on the other side of town and I didn't wanna go home at like 3am. Also it was closer to school when I was actually going. I can't count how many times I had to drive to school just to go to one class (2.5 total hours in the car, for ~1 hour in class). So many times I would arrive at my one class, only to discover a note on the door saying it was cancelled (RA~GE!). I did have a couple buddies I would crash with out there, but not very often since I hate not having access to my bed/shower and I also hate to impose--comfort zone. The one thing I worry about when that I may be somewhat interested in a person online is if they are who they say they are.
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: The one thing I worry about when that I may be somewhat interested in a person online is if they are who they say they are. I'd think that would pretty much guarantee you're going to get a crowd of people who are a little more mature and serious about the whole thing. Wombat said: Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: The one thing I worry about when that I may be somewhat interested in a person online is if they are who they say they are. I'd think that would pretty much guarantee you're going to get a crowd of people who are a little more mature and serious about the whole thing. Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: Wombat said: Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: The one thing I worry about when that I may be somewhat interested in a person online is if they are who they say they are. I'd think that would pretty much guarantee you're going to get a crowd of people who are a little more mature and serious about the whole thing. It's not a good thing to get hung up about, because you can only be so skeptical before you're putting up blocks that make your attitude the problem, instead of theirs... if that makes sense? Ramuh.Rowland said: Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: Wombat said: Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: The one thing I worry about when that I may be somewhat interested in a person online is if they are who they say they are. I'd think that would pretty much guarantee you're going to get a crowd of people who are a little more mature and serious about the whole thing. |
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