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 Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-03-24 11:59:48
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
So where else do I meet non-fat girls the other 362 days of the year?
Outside of your house, usually public areas. Sometimes local watering holes work well....yes...humans are like zebras.
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By Ramuh.Zaknafein 2011-03-24 12:06:38
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Ever since myspace came out I continued to get a steady supply. Nowadays Facebook/Doyoulike provides more than enough for me personally. At least to the point where I don't have to go looking for it. I doubt I would ever go back to random pick ups in clubs/bars etc. Had a lot better luck with online girls. You get to see something about them at least vs. the whole beer goggles route!
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 12:12:08
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Ramuh.Urial said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
So where else do I meet non-fat girls the other 362 days of the year?
Outside of your house, usually public areas. Sometimes local watering holes work well....yes...humans are like zebras.

we're black and white?

and get eaten by lions O_O
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By Asura.Tot 2011-03-24 12:35:07
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"hai gurrrl, you ever had oral and anal at the same time? ehhh"
is this offensive?
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2011-03-24 12:39:45
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Asura.Tot said:
"hai gurrrl, you ever had oral and anal at the same time? ehhh"
is this offensive?
That's a great pick up line, you should try it sometime.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 12:44:05
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Leviathan.Chaosx said:
Asura.Tot said:
"hai gurrrl, you ever had oral and anal at the same time? ehhh"
is this offensive?
That's a great pick up line, you should try it sometime.

i'd trust him

he's winning
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-03-24 12:58:14
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
So where else do I meet non-fat girls the other 362 days of the year?
Social events outside of just going to anime conventions...or go to lots of anime conventions.
:D

I got to live shows(comedy, music...etc) all the time and that fits it...but I don't really have much of a problem meeting ladies...new ladies maybe so...but I've met a lot of ladies in my day, now it's time for the reaper to come out and see if my seed planting works out.
Or it's nothing like that and I don't really go through it all planned out and just go with the flow..whichever seems more likely.

as for romantic frustration..meh you'll get it...but when your darks are dark that just means that you're brights are gonna be brighter i'd say lol.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-24 13:00:47
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Fun times.....
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By Wombat 2011-03-24 13:24:07
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Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
So where else do I meet non-fat girls the other 362 days of the year?
Social events outside of just going to anime conventions...or go to lots of anime conventions.
:D

I got to live shows(comedy, music...etc) all the time and that fits it...but I don't really have much of a problem meeting ladies...new ladies maybe so...but I've met a lot of ladies in my day, now it's time for the reaper to come out and see if my seed planting works out.
Or it's nothing like that and I don't really go through it all planned out and just go with the flow..whichever seems more likely.
The closer to desperate you are, the less likely you are to have any success with women.

Girls don't like *** because they're ***. They like them because *** don't care. The *** knows that if this girl turns him down, there are five other girls in the room who might not. And if they all turn him down, he can go across the street.

Girls will say, "I like confident guys." They're lying. They go with the *** because even though he's approaching her, his "I don't care" attitude makes her feel like she has to prove herself to him, instead of the other way around.

You don't have to be an *** to achieve this, you just have to be willing to pretend like you don't care. Of course, it's best if you can convince yourself that you don't, or if you can even begin to actually not care--that's when you'll be able to do very well.

BTW, not disagreeing with ya, vv; just trying to emphasize the effectiveness of the bolded.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-03-24 13:43:51
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I dunno.
Sometimes I care, sometimes I don't.
I'm not ever the same person twice lol.
:D
I think girls still want you to "care", they just don't want you to care "too much" or something to that extent lol.

essentially i see it as a balance sort of affair.
being dependable and someone to rely on without smothering or boring someone to death lol.

But you see people saying there is only one right way to be in a relationship...that it will only work with certain types of people, albeit those things do help(holding the same interests and all that), but really i believe it's on a deeper level than just the simple likes and dislikes and matters more in the personality..which is a hard thing to quantify.
but we always want to quantify stuff like this lol.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 13:55:22
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vinvv is a lady killer
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By Wombat 2011-03-24 14:03:19
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Ramuh.Vinvv said:
I dunno.
Sometimes I care, sometimes I don't.
I'm not ever the same person twice lol.
:D
I think girls still want you to "care", they just don't want you to care "too much" or something to that extent lol.

essentially i see it as a balance sort of affair.
being dependable and someone to rely on without smothering or boring someone to death lol.

But you see people saying there is only one right way to be in a relationship...that it will only work with certain types of people, albeit those things do help(holding the same interests and all that), but really i believe it's on a deeper level than just the simple likes and dislikes and matters more in the personality..which is a hard thing to quantify.
but we always want to quantify stuff like this lol.
Yeah, I'm oversimplifying. But I'm just trying to give a decent starting point for overcoming nerves and awkwardness. Once you've moved past all that, things become more complicated (er... human) and everyone is different.

Like you said, not every girl responds the same to the "I don't care" attitude, but it's generally a pretty good rule when ice-breaking--at least in my experience.
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 14:08:02
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Let's try an online scenario.

You find this girl, you think she's cute and you see you have similar interests. What do you say to her?

Do you go the cliche route and be like "hey what's up? You're cute, let's hang out"?

Just a short little message or a paragraph? What is going to help make her respond and actually want to know more about you?

send her a picture of your ***
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 14:08:25
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as in chicken
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By Bahamut.Lolserj 2011-03-24 14:09:54
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in all honesty i have no clue :(
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By Asura.Ashleh 2011-03-24 14:11:15
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Can I legally throw my ex's ***away if it's been in my house for more than a year? We just had a shitty break up and I don't want to see it anymore and she says she's not coming to get it anytime soon.

Serious question.
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By Shiva.Flionheart 2011-03-24 14:11:42
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Can I legally throw my ex's ***away if it's been in my house for more than a year? We just had a shitty break up and I don't want to see it anymore and she says she's not coming to get it anytime soon.

Serious question.

Sell it.
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By Asura.Ashleh 2011-03-24 14:12:08
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Asura.Ashleh said:
Can I legally throw my ex's ***away if it's been in my house for more than a year? We just had a shitty break up and I don't want to see it anymore and she says she's not coming to get it anytime soon.

Serious question.

Sell it.

So it is legal for me to do whatever the *** I want with it?

I might just cave and box it all up and leave it all on my driveway.
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By Shiva.Flionheart 2011-03-24 14:13:12
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Should be. It's not theft if it was left with her free will. If you chucked her out and didn't let her retrieve it even though she wanted to, then it would probably be termed as theft.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-03-24 14:13:31
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Shiva.Flionheart said:
Asura.Ashleh said:
Can I legally throw my ex's ***away if it's been in my house for more than a year? We just had a shitty break up and I don't want to see it anymore and she says she's not coming to get it anytime soon.

Serious question.
Sell it.
I would. A roomate did a similar thing though not for as long. When I told him I was going to he finally came by for his xbox but that was about it. I used the lure of free stuff to help get help cleaning it up and moving out.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2011-03-24 14:14:33
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Asura.Ashleh said:
Can I legally throw my ex's ***away if it's been in my house for more than a year? We just had a shitty break up and I don't want to see it anymore and she says she's not coming to get it anytime soon.

Serious question.
Do you have mutual friends? If you do just pawn it off to them.
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By Asura.Ashleh 2011-03-24 14:15:27
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Shiva.Flionheart said:
Should be. It's not theft if it was left with her free will. If you chucked her out and didn't let her retrieve it even though she wanted to, then it would probably be termed as theft.

I've given her ample time and I told her just a few minutes ago to come get all of it or I was throwing it away. She refuses.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Soube 2011-03-24 14:18:47
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Once it's been left more than a certain amount of time (it depends on the state you live in, but usually a year is more than enough) and she hasn't come to pick it up it's legally considered abandoned property and you have the right to do with it whatever the *** you please.

Unless she's been paying you to store it there. If not it's all yours.
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By Asura.Ashleh 2011-03-24 14:26:04
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Well, she just called and said she'd pick it up around 6pm.

Should I still throw it away for lulz? Or is this not a good RL situation to troll?
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-03-24 14:26:20
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Asura.Ashleh said:
Can I legally throw my ex's ***away if it's been in my house for more than a year? We just had a shitty break up and I don't want to see it anymore and she says she's not coming to get it anytime soon. Serious question.

Depends on where you live.
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