Romantically Frustrated?
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Romantically frustrated?
hmmm so whats happening exactly in this here thread? im to lazy to read right now
Actually, sometimes people need to hear the obvious. ANY advice is useless if it's not put to use. Whether it's a cliche bit or not.
Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha said: ANY advice is useless if it's not put to use. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ;_; Main issue I ever have with relationships is that damn friend zone >.> apparently I'm so "nice and sweet" but that just gets me in the friend zone rather than being a guy good enough for a relationship, sweet.
I don't even make it to the friend zone.
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Valefor.Leith said: Main issue I ever have with relationships is that damn friend zone >.> apparently I'm so "nice and sweet" but that just gets me in the friend zone rather than being a guy good enough for a relationship, sweet.
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Valefor.Leith said: Main issue I ever have with relationships is that damn friend zone >.> apparently I'm so "nice and sweet" but that just gets me in the friend zone rather than being a guy good enough for a relationship, sweet. Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Bismarck.Xdudemanx said: hmmm so whats happening exactly in this here thread? im to lazy to read right now but you back in ffxi yet? If you don't command respect, *** won't give you any, and that's fair. Do many people want to have a relationship with someone who'll just roll over and take it in the shitpipe all their life? (Figuratively)
Odin.Zicdeh said: If you don't command respect, *** won't give you any, and that's fair. Do many people want to have a relationship with someone who'll just roll over and take it in the shitpipe all their life? (Figuratively) Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Valefor.Leith said: Main issue I ever have with relationships is that damn friend zone >.> apparently I'm so "nice and sweet" but that just gets me in the friend zone rather than being a guy good enough for a relationship, sweet. But how old are the women you're after? maturity level seems to play a large part for this which is partly why I'm drawn to older women usually. 25-40 year old women are usually more mature and would go for something they need (like kind and sweet) more than a 20 year old purely drawn to a bad boy for some fun that'd most likely hurt her (I'm saying this as what I've found but I'm sure a bunch of guys here have found immature 30 year old crazy women etc) it comes down to my original question Yeah, I'm sure I've friend zoned really nice girls so I don't really have room to talk Generally (atm, in a few years it will changed for obvious reasons) I go 1-2 years younger to about 4 years older, so 17-22 generally, and with that kind of age group, it's like you said with maturity. I'm drawn to my older sister's friends who are 23-27ish, because they actually turn around and return my feelings, but feel awkward with someone so young Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Valefor.Leith said: Main issue I ever have with relationships is that damn friend zone >.> apparently I'm so "nice and sweet" but that just gets me in the friend zone rather than being a guy good enough for a relationship, sweet. But how old are the women you're after? maturity level seems to play a large part for this which is partly why I'm drawn to older women usually. 25-40 year old women are usually more mature and would go for something they need (like kind and sweet) more than a 20 year old purely drawn to a bad boy for some fun that'd most likely hurt her (I'm saying this as what I've found but I'm sure a bunch of guys here have found immature 30 year old crazy women etc) it comes down to my original question I think it has more to do with personality type than age. Guys friendzone their shy nerdy female friends all the time, when all they want is a nice, sweet guy--unfortunately, boys "always" go for the "hot" girls. The same amount of guys go for "hot girls" as girls go for "bad boys" I think. It kinda sucks how in almost every sort of love story out there the guy instantly falls in love with the girl because of her looks, and he has some sort of personality flaw that she looks past because he's a good guy. It's barely ever the other way around, where the "ugly but nice girl" gets the hot guy. Shrek ftw for breaking the mold, lol. Valefor.Leith said: Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Valefor.Leith said: Main issue I ever have with relationships is that damn friend zone >.> apparently I'm so "nice and sweet" but that just gets me in the friend zone rather than being a guy good enough for a relationship, sweet. But how old are the women you're after? maturity level seems to play a large part for this which is partly why I'm drawn to older women usually. 25-40 year old women are usually more mature and would go for something they need (like kind and sweet) more than a 20 year old purely drawn to a bad boy for some fun that'd most likely hurt her (I'm saying this as what I've found but I'm sure a bunch of guys here have found immature 30 year old crazy women etc) it comes down to my original question Yeah, I'm sure I've friend zoned really nice girls so I don't really have room to talk Generally (atm, in a few years it will changed for obvious reasons) I go 1-2 years younger to about 4 years older, so 17-22 generally, and with that kind of age group, it's like you said with maturity. I'm drawn to my older sister's friends who are 23-27ish, because they actually turn around and return my feelings, but feel awkward with someone so young Bismarck.Josiahfk said: yeah understandable plus it would make things awkward for the sister. I have an older sister as well and in highschool had a crush on her best friend. it killed my sister when she found out lol I can't recall ever friend zoning anyone, but then again, I've only been on the receiving end of asking someone out once, lol and I got stood up on that one lulz
the friendzone is pure evil.
and from what everyone else is saying about people having a crush on a sibling's friend or something like that...from time to time I have to pick up my sister from her basketball games or attend the games. and its really awkward for a bunch of girls staring me and having them come over 1 by 1 and ask me some random question and they all huddle around giggling. and when I have to drive them to the away games sometimes...its nonstop asking me stuff. that one festival that has the fireworks going off in the towns
this thread is still around? :o
im impressed Hmmm... I do believe this thread has earned Undead status.
To the men who get friend-zoned:
I wish I knew why I friend-zone people. Most commonly it's because I'm in a relationship, and that's my default mode. Granted, I'm not sure if that's actual friend-zone though? My only advice I can give you is this: girls like having guy friends. They like talking to Friend-Zoned guys because the platonic chemistry between men and women is a bit different than woman+woman. A lot of men won't submit themselves into being a friend-zoned buddy, so finding a good one is useful! Anyway, I suppose what I'm saying is don't make yourself out to be that super awesome 'gay-boyfriend' that the girl needs if you don't want to be friend-zoned. How you do that? Idkman. Quote: default mode. oh and before the end of my last semester i tried talking a girl into getting a cup of coffee with me and got shot down >_>
damn If you're packing, next time, try asking in a speedo.
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said: oh and before the end of my last semester i tried talking a girl into getting a cup of coffee with me and got shot down >_> damn lolserj let's do woe runs Sylph.Tigerwoods said: Quote: default mode. Or a banana hammock
Carbuncle.Lolserj said: oh and before the end of my last semester i tried talking a girl into getting a cup of coffee with me and got shot down >_> damn Some people(college students) drink coffee like it's water, so asking for a coffee date may seem like it's a good idea, but in reality it's a very cheap date. Carbuncle.Sevourn said: Carbuncle.Lolserj said: oh and before the end of my last semester i tried talking a girl into getting a cup of coffee with me and got shot down >_> damn lolserj let's do woe runs after i kill this NM one more time gawd |
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