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 Sylph.Anuu
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By Sylph.Anuu 2011-06-26 21:52:21
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Bismarck.Xdudemanx said:
wow only 17? i wouldn't even be worrying about this mumbo jumbo right now lol
lol well i do as i have many problems xD
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 22:06:38
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Plenty of time to deal with em! Just don't let em bog you down.

Anuu seems to be similar to me: it's hard not to think about/be bothered by relationship troubles. :<
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By Bahamut.Serj 2011-06-26 22:08:02
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Leviathan.Niniann said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Plenty of time to deal with em! Just don't let em bog you down.

Anuu seems to be similar to me: it's hard not to think about/be bothered by relationship troubles. :<

I don't think that trait is so rare. >_>
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 22:11:17
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@Serj: Probably not... I have met people who seemingly don't care though. And I almost feel like I care *too* much. @@;
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:13:13
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Leviathan.Niniann said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Plenty of time to deal with em! Just don't let em bog you down.

Anuu seems to be similar to me: it's hard not to think about/be bothered by relationship troubles. :<

if someone tells you to just shake off or ignore relationship troubles like they're that easy to forget

it's kinda hard to believe they've been in a serious relationship

if you really love someone, and it seems to be going wrong, there's no way to just throw it off or automatically stop worrying about it
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:16:34
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Leviathan.Niniann said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Plenty of time to deal with em! Just don't let em bog you down.

Anuu seems to be similar to me: it's hard not to think about/be bothered by relationship troubles. :<
It's one thing to be bothered by them but its another to let them bog you down and kind of rule over your life. I just wanted to try and convey a sense of concern and encouragement to not let it get to em too much.

Relationships are important in our lives and sadly we have to realize that any long lasting relationship will have issues. WE try to work through them if we care about someone but in the end we have to realize that nothing can be forced and such. Sometimes we do have to let people we care about go and it sucks. The upside is that there is a lot of life left to live and more people out there to meet and such.

also, just stay positive, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and if she didn't love you, she wasn't good enough for you!

those help too, right?
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:18:19
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Sometimes no matter how hard it is you have to let someone go.

how many more cliches can you toss out, i'm starting to get curious

you sound like a cross between a bad self-help book and a fortune cookie
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-06-26 22:19:25
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:20:50
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Leviathan.Niniann said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Plenty of time to deal with em! Just don't let em bog you down.

Anuu seems to be similar to me: it's hard not to think about/be bothered by relationship troubles. :<
It's one thing to be bothered by them but its another to let them bog you down and kind of rule over your life. I just wanted to try and convey a sense of concern and encouragement to not let it get to em too much.

Relationships are important in our lives and sadly we have to realize that any long lasting relationship will have issues. WE try to work through them if we care about someone but in the end we have to realize that nothing can be forced and such. Sometimes we do have to let people we care about go and it sucks. The upside is that there is a lot of life left to live and more people out there to meet and such.

also, just stay positive, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and if she didn't love you, she wasn't good enough for you!

those help too, right?
You are bitter lol...

am i bitter right this second? no.

have i been bitter? yes. anyone with a decent amount of relationships to their name has probably been burned at least once.

do i understand that when someone is genuinely hurt over or preoccupied with a relationship, throwing out bad cliches isn't going to help a bit? also yes.
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:22:57
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Sometimes no matter how hard it is you have to let someone go.

how many more cliches can you toss out, i'm starting to get curious

you sound like a cross between a bad self-help book and a fortune cookie
Thanks. You sound kind of angry for some reason. Did I do somethign to offend you?

i am positively raging

spittle on keyboard etc
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By Ramuh.Krizz 2011-06-26 22:24:00
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Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Sometimes no matter how hard it is you have to let someone go.

how many more cliches can you toss out, i'm starting to get curious

you sound like a cross between a bad self-help book and a fortune cookie
Thanks. You sound kind of angry for some reason. Did I do somethign to offend you?

i am positively raging

spittle on keyboard etc
/hands tissue
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:24:35
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thanks bro i needed that
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 22:27:20
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WAS GONNA SAY SOMETHING BUT /DORI.

Posting on a phone sucks. Also I love Sev.
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By Sylph.Tigerwoods 2011-06-26 22:30:47
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-06-26 22:32:26
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Sylph.Tigerwoods said:
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By Ramuh.Krizz 2011-06-26 22:32:27
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Sylph.Tigerwoods said:
That's right, jump anyway, and hope you land on a hidden platform. Too bad you're more likely to hit a hidden block with your head and fall to your death.
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:38:40
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:


no one's arguing what the optimal course of action would be if you could take all emotion out of the equation.

everyone knows that moving on would be the best thing to do, just like we know we should be studying for that test getting that project done eating salad instead of burger etc

you are saying really obvious ***that everyone already knows and it's about as effective as moms telling their kids that they should eat their vegetables

if yeah you know all of this and you're still spouting the same cliches that everyone's heard a thousand times before, you're either trivializing their feelings or insulting their intelligence
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:42:36
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Carbuncle.Sevourn said:
Lakshmi.Flavin said:


no one's arguing what the optimal course of action would be if you could take all emotion out of the equation.

everyone knows that moving on would be the best thing to do, just like we know we should be studying for that test getting that project done eating salad instead of burger etc

you are saying really obvious ***that everyone already knows and it's about as effective as moms telling their kids that they should eat their vegetables

if yeah you know all of this and you're still spouting the same cliches that everyone's heard a thousand times before, you're either trivializing their feelings or insulting their intelligence
Why do you take such offense to what I'm saying? Even in the other thread.

have you read any of my posts ever

since when do i have to be angry at/offended by someone to point out that what they're saying is misguided/silly/flat-out wrong
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 22:43:33
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Lakshmi.Flavin said:
constructive

hahahahahahhahahahaha
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By Bismarck.Xdudemanx 2011-06-26 22:45:14
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i almost got married once..was with this girl for 3+ years but long story short i ended up dumping her..i may have the experiences but i try not to influence people in their relationship unless they really need the help...also considering im not in a relationship right now..i know for a fact i give different advice depending on if im in one or not
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-06-26 22:45:53
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Gonna let it die... Peace.
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