Leviathan.Novax said:
I tried to be the best bf i could, random nice things, compliments when she looked nice/hair smelled good, canceled XI or irl plans w/e she wanted to do something/see me. Then bam out of nowhere my feelings are too strong for you and it's happened so fast I want to end this before one of us gets hurt. Commitment issues hai2u
Girlfriend 2 of 3 (the one i wanted to marry and spend the rest of my life with) did something like that.
The week before her best friend said to me that all she talks about is how wonderful i am and how well i treat her and care for her... and then 6 days before my birthday she decides never talk to me again. No "I'm breaking up with you" No "Good-bye" or anything like that.
This was back in 2007, and i havent heard from her since. Though a year later i dropped by her moms house and her mom told me that she didnt love me like i did her, and didnt know how to tell me... so she just didnt. Then she met someone on the internet and moved with him to Missouri. Last i heard from her mom she broke up with the guy.
I never was as happy as i was then when i went out with her, and i havent been that happy since. People would tell me i was glowing while we were dating. Friends would also say we looked so perfect together, a lot of common interests... etc. I had one girlfriend since but it wasnt the same, or anywhere close... and the relationship didnt work.
I had some kind of abandonment complex for about a year or so, and kept fantasizing about driving into oncoming traffic. But in the words of monty python "I got better."
Things heal and pain lessens in time.