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 Asura.Chuuuuu
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-25 22:05:10
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i should go back on okcupid and get free dinner dates /trollface
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:07:07
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Asura.Chuuuuu said:
i should go back on okcupid and get free dinner dates /trollface

lololol
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By Asura.Ebry 2011-04-25 22:13:09
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Ramuh.Urial said:
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I spoil more than I ask to be spoiled. I make my own money so i'd rather a guy spend it on himself then on me. :3 But then I see some girls who refuse to pay for anything o.O; Meh... who knows :3
some people like getting everything for nothing idk @_@ for me i just dont like spending money at all though lol on myself or anyone >.>
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa wait what? lol I think it's time to compromise
Who wha? o.O;;;
if he wants to ask her out, I think he should be willing to pay if she's got that mindset that's all. And definitely pay for yourself lol

Maybe for all you know she would want to keep you both paying for yourselves and it could be a signal of not wanting to date or just her asserting herself. Need to see gestures and behavior to tell which

But good luck man I think this is a great idea
I have to agree about paying. I personally feel if I ask a girl out I should at least pay since she wasn't going out of her way to do said activity. Then again I just see it to bee the gentleman's thing to do so even if I go to dinner with female friends I insist on buying even if there is no romantic attraction.

Yeah it's the nice thing to do but sometimes it becomes expected and I don't think it should. With the last relationship I was in we took turns and such.
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:15:44
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idk if i was in a relationship i'd most likely always pay depending on how often i would need to do such a thing, and i hate it when people spend money on me or give me anything

i hate it more than spending my own money

so i'd end up spending just because i cant stand free stuff

<.<

yes i know im weird
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-25 22:16:23
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Asura.Ebry said:
Ramuh.Urial said:
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Asura.Ebry said:
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Asura.Ebry said:
I spoil more than I ask to be spoiled. I make my own money so i'd rather a guy spend it on himself then on me. :3 But then I see some girls who refuse to pay for anything o.O; Meh... who knows :3
some people like getting everything for nothing idk @_@ for me i just dont like spending money at all though lol on myself or anyone >.>
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa wait what? lol I think it's time to compromise
Who wha? o.O;;;
if he wants to ask her out, I think he should be willing to pay if she's got that mindset that's all. And definitely pay for yourself lol

Maybe for all you know she would want to keep you both paying for yourselves and it could be a signal of not wanting to date or just her asserting herself. Need to see gestures and behavior to tell which

But good luck man I think this is a great idea
I have to agree about paying. I personally feel if I ask a girl out I should at least pay since she wasn't going out of her way to do said activity. Then again I just see it to bee the gentleman's thing to do so even if I go to dinner with female friends I insist on buying even if there is no romantic attraction.

Yeah it's the nice thing to do but sometimes it becomes expected and I don't think it should. With the last relationship I was in we took turns and such.
Oh no it shouldn't be expected. It's rather fun to play that game where you fight over who gets the check or where you slip the server your card while she is in the restroom. I don't want a girl to expect me to pay but I will insist that I pay. The thing that bugs me is when a girl insist on going to do something that I frankly have no interest in doing and insisting I pay. Why would I want to go pay to go see blooming orchids when pollen makes me eyes burn like hell! As you could guess that ex didn't last to long.
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By Asura.Ebry 2011-04-25 22:21:19
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Ramuh.Urial said:
Asura.Ebry said:
Ramuh.Urial said:
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Asura.Ebry said:
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Asura.Ebry said:
I spoil more than I ask to be spoiled. I make my own money so i'd rather a guy spend it on himself then on me. :3 But then I see some girls who refuse to pay for anything o.O; Meh... who knows :3
some people like getting everything for nothing idk @_@ for me i just dont like spending money at all though lol on myself or anyone >.>
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa wait what? lol I think it's time to compromise
Who wha? o.O;;;
if he wants to ask her out, I think he should be willing to pay if she's got that mindset that's all. And definitely pay for yourself lol

Maybe for all you know she would want to keep you both paying for yourselves and it could be a signal of not wanting to date or just her asserting herself. Need to see gestures and behavior to tell which

But good luck man I think this is a great idea
I have to agree about paying. I personally feel if I ask a girl out I should at least pay since she wasn't going out of her way to do said activity. Then again I just see it to bee the gentleman's thing to do so even if I go to dinner with female friends I insist on buying even if there is no romantic attraction.

Yeah it's the nice thing to do but sometimes it becomes expected and I don't think it should. With the last relationship I was in we took turns and such.
Oh no it shouldn't be expected. It's rather fun to play that game where you fight over who gets the check or where you slip the server your card while she is in the restroom. I don't want a girl to expect me to pay but I will insist that I pay. The thing that bugs me is when a girl insist on going to do something that I frankly have no interest in doing and insisting I pay. Why would I want to go pay to go see blooming orchids when pollen makes me eyes burn like hell! As you could guess that ex didn't last to long.

hahaha my brother's wife just did that ***to him. :3
 
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-25 22:23:51
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Asura.Ebry said:

hahaha my brother's wife just did that ***to him. :3
Stuff like that drives me up the wall. Also anything I enjoyed wasn't an option and anything she wanted was what we did or I had to head about it for weeks. Horrible investment of close to a year.
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By Asura.Ebry 2011-04-25 22:26:37
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hahaha my brother's wife just did that ***to him. :3
Stuff like that drives me up the wall. Also anything I enjoyed wasn't an option and anything she wanted was what we did or I had to head about it for weeks. Horrible investment of close to a year.

:( That's never good. It's about compromise :3 Plus it helps when you really like a lot of the same things. /sighhhhhhhh :|
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-25 22:28:50
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hahaha my brother's wife just did that ***to him. :3
Stuff like that drives me up the wall. Also anything I enjoyed wasn't an option and anything she wanted was what we did or I had to head about it for weeks. Horrible investment of close to a year.

:( That's never good. It's about compromise :3 Plus it helps when you really like a lot of the same things. /sighhhhhhhh :|
It's much easier in theory than in reality XD
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-25 22:29:10
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Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Asura.Chuuuuu said:
i should go back on okcupid and get free dinner dates /trollface
Is the friend guy that said they'd never ditch still steadfast?

Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
never said i wouldn't pay for things -_- just said i dont like spending money on myself or other people
yeah in general it makes sense. I don't like bringing money into friendships or relationships when it's not needed as well
hes still my friend like he said :P
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By Asura.Ebry 2011-04-25 22:30:19
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Ramuh.Urial said:
Asura.Ebry said:
Ramuh.Urial said:
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hahaha my brother's wife just did that ***to him. :3
Stuff like that drives me up the wall. Also anything I enjoyed wasn't an option and anything she wanted was what we did or I had to head about it for weeks. Horrible investment of close to a year.

:( That's never good. It's about compromise :3 Plus it helps when you really like a lot of the same things. /sighhhhhhhh :|
It's much easier in theory than in reality XD

I suppose :3 It's what I miss the most about what I had. Just being able to have so much in common :3 .... Annnnnnnnd i'm shutting up before I become emokid D;
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 22:34:57
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I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:36:24
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Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 22:37:25
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I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:38:17
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Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
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I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 22:41:07
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
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I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
iono what the catch is. I've got like...20 people from my current area added me as a friend. I was like O_o. I did sent messages to them, 0 response. So... iono
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:41:36
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Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
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I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
iono what the catch is. I've got like...20 people from my current area added me as a friend. I was like O_o. I did sent messages to them, 0 response. So... iono

they didnt wanna sex you? :O iono
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 22:42:21
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
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Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
iono what the catch is. I've got like...20 people from my current area added me as a friend. I was like O_o. I did sent messages to them, 0 response. So... iono

they didnt wanna sex you? :O iono
lol maybe it was that I wasn't looking for sex xD
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:43:44
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Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
iono what the catch is. I've got like...20 people from my current area added me as a friend. I was like O_o. I did sent messages to them, 0 response. So... iono

they didnt wanna sex you? :O iono
lol maybe it was that I wasn't looking for sex xD

thought that the site was a sexin site :O
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 22:45:42
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
iono what the catch is. I've got like...20 people from my current area added me as a friend. I was like O_o. I did sent messages to them, 0 response. So... iono

they didnt wanna sex you? :O iono
lol maybe it was that I wasn't looking for sex xD

thought that the site was a sexin site :O
the focus is sex, but theres people there looking for relationships too lol
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:47:24
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Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
iono what the catch is. I've got like...20 people from my current area added me as a friend. I was like O_o. I did sent messages to them, 0 response. So... iono

they didnt wanna sex you? :O iono
lol maybe it was that I wasn't looking for sex xD

thought that the site was a sexin site :O
the focus is sex, but theres people there looking for relationships too lol

seems like the wrong type of site to look in for something like that >.>
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 22:51:28
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Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
Carbuncle.Lolserj said:
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said:
I havn't logged onto okcupid for a while...but i got an email of someone adding me to their favorites....

what about that sexing site you paid to join? lol
its meh~ i unsubscribed a week later. no one is willing to meet up or response to messages

well a site based on sex has to have some sort of catch
iono what the catch is. I've got like...20 people from my current area added me as a friend. I was like O_o. I did sent messages to them, 0 response. So... iono

they didnt wanna sex you? :O iono
lol maybe it was that I wasn't looking for sex xD

thought that the site was a sexin site :O
the focus is sex, but theres people there looking for relationships too lol

seems like the wrong type of site to look in for something like that >.>
lol just trying anywhere I can lol
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:55:22
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do what i do and pussy out before talking to girls irl

ftw >.>
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 22:57:41
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lol thats what happens to me ><
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 22:58:13
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dont you hate it :O
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 23:01:09
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very much. You're like, man...i really want to get her number or atleast say hi to her....you get like 20 feet away... and you're like .................................... i got stuff to go do >_> *walks away*
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By Carbuncle.Lolserj 2011-04-25 23:02:59
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exactly :O

then *** to yourself about how you should have done it

and you pretty much spend the rest of the day hating yourself for not being able to act in those situations <.<
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By Artemicion 2011-04-25 23:04:22
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Most women aren't worth the trouble.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Volkom 2011-04-25 23:04:43
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Mhmmm.. low self confidence D: >< I'm sure it would be just fine if a conversation started up but...its those first few words thats hard to get out
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