Lakshmi.Flavin said:
I think shes engaged now too so idk why she still bothers contacting me... its not like we were really close or anything after either. Idk though I just thought I would share lol... as I am bored on my lunch break..
I am also bored, so if you care, this is the psychotic process that accompanies that kind of behavior (as it was explained to me by a pycho-girl insider):
Psycho breaks up with a guy--in her mind, the relationship isn't "over" it's suspended in a state of her permanently maintaining the upper-hand. That is, she feels like he wants her, but she is too good for him (massive ego boost... if you're insane).
So, she's winning. And he's losing, but only in her crazy fantasy where he spends every moment wishing he was good enough for her. In reality, he thinks she's a psycho and has moved on in hopes of finding someone better.
Then, after some time goes by, something or someone reminds her of him. Now she is thinking about him, but the rational dot in her brain is telling her that there is no way he is still thinking about her.
Unless, of course, she gets in touch and reminds him (and more importantly, her ego) that she is still too good for him. After doing so, she goes back to being queen of her fantasy world, alongside getting a major boost to her superficial self-esteem.