So how should I go about seeking a date when it comes to traveling to a different city out of state? I mean I know they need common interest in what the event revolves around, but it just seems like a social faux pas to come out of the blue with "Hey, wanna come to Chicago with me for a concert? :D" I rather not resort to craigslist, and my options are also limited in the most lame and superficial city known to man: Las Vegas.
hmmm... I might have a solution for you.. I'll get back to you...
I think some of you guys set your standards too high and thats why you cant find anyone...
What's the point being with someone who sucks...? If it doesn't have the chance of lasting why bother. I'd rather be single than date a retard who can't even have a basic conversation with me.
I think some of you guys set your standards too high and thats why you cant find anyone...
What's the point being with someone who sucks...? If it doesn't have the chance of lasting why bother. I'd rather be single than date a retard who can't even have a basic conversation with me.
By this I meant it seems some of them concentrate more on the physical aspect and not much else...
By this I meant it seems some of them concentrate more on the physical aspect and not much else...
I understand, but you have to understand that if say you lower your standards to the point where you probably couldn't be brought to have physical interactions with said person(or even if you could you're lacking the *spark*)... you're just going to make them depressed. I'd rather be alone then put someone through the suffering that is feeling unloved and unwanted.
I think some of you guys set your standards too high and thats why you cant find anyone...
What's the point being with someone who sucks...? If it doesn't have the chance of lasting why bother. I'd rather be single than date a retard who can't even have a basic conversation with me.
By this I meant it seems some of them concentrate more on the physical aspect and not much else...
There has to be at least some sort of physical attraction. It is definitely not everything, but it makes everything else so much easier. Especially if you're shallow like that. No fat chicks!
lol not saying there shouldn't be but if your only physically attracted to girls that are not physically attracted to you either go hit the gym/run/etc.. or get used to /foreveralone... I know a bunch of girls who tell me the same thing that no one wants to be with them and then i'll watch someone ask em out and her turn em down or just completely pass people over.. same with some guys I've known too... thing I'm getting at here is its probably partly your own fault that you can't find people too...
lol not saying there shouldn't be but if your only physically attracted to girls that are not physically attracted to you either go hit the gym/run/etc.. or get used to /foreveralone... I know a bunch of girls who tell me the same thing that no one wants to be with them and then i'll watch someone ask em out and her turn em down or just completely pass people over.. same with some guys I've known too... thing I'm getting at here is its probably partly your own fault that you can't find people too...
I'll agree on the Gym statement. I still don't think lowering your standards is an acceptable practice though. You either need to make yourself better or deal with it.
By this I meant it seems some of them concentrate more on the physical aspect and not much else...
I understand, but you have to understand that if say you lower your standards to the point where you probably couldn't be brought to have physical interactions with said person(or even if you could you're lacking the *spark*)... you're just going to make them depressed. I'd rather be alone then put someone through the suffering that is feeling unloved and unwanted.
See I was thinking more along the lines of finding someone that maybe your moderately attracted to or wouldn't normally go for and getting to know them and seeing if its worthwhile... I'm not saying find the person your least attracted to in the world be with them from the first day on even if your disgusted with every facet of them lol...
lol not saying there shouldn't be but if your only physically attracted to girls that are not physically attracted to you either go hit the gym/run/etc.. or get used to /foreveralone... I know a bunch of girls who tell me the same thing that no one wants to be with them and then i'll watch someone ask em out and her turn em down or just completely pass people over.. same with some guys I've known too... thing I'm getting at here is its probably partly your own fault that you can't find people too...
I'll agree on the Gym statement. I still don't think lowering your standards is an acceptable practice though. You either need to make yourself better or deal with it.
Pretty much... just expecting someone to like you because you like them isn't always practical or realistic....