Romantically Frustrated?
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Romantically frustrated?
-.- starbucks coffee girl...is dating some guy...but this person she's been talking to on chatango for 2 years asked her to marry him. And they havn't visit in person before, seen each other on webcam, or talked on the phone. And she said yes. wtf
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: -.- starbucks coffee girl...is dating some guy...but this person she's been talking to on chatango for 2 years asked her to marry him. And they havn't visit in person before, seen each other on webcam, or talked on the phone. And she said yes. wtf sounds like a big mistake to me Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: -.- starbucks coffee girl...is dating some guy...but this person she's been talking to on chatango for 2 years asked her to marry him. And they havn't visit in person before, seen each other on webcam, or talked on the phone. And she said yes. wtf Bahamut.Lolserj said: Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: -.- starbucks coffee girl...is dating some guy...but this person she's been talking to on chatango for 2 years asked her to marry him. And they havn't visit in person before, seen each other on webcam, or talked on the phone. And she said yes. wtf sounds like a big mistake to me I guess she will learn the hard way.
some people need to make their own mistakes and learn :P
Asura.Chuuuuu said: some people need to make their own mistakes and learn :P  Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: some people need to make their own mistakes and learn :P Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: -.- starbucks coffee girl...is dating some guy...but this person she's been talking to on chatango for 2 years asked her to marry him. And they havn't visit in person before, seen each other on webcam, or talked on the phone. And she said yes. wtf You never truly know someone; even in person. It takes living together for a least several months before you can even remotely fathom or get a general idea, let alone determine whether or not you can stay together without wanting to eviscerate each other. To jump into a marriage without meeting first is just social and emotional suicide. I feel bad for you few who are having a tough time. Just keep trying guys. Please have faith in things.
Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: -.- starbucks coffee girl...is dating some guy...but this person she's been talking to on chatango for 2 years asked her to marry him. And they havn't visit in person before, seen each other on webcam, or talked on the phone. And she said yes. wtf Really?!? She said "yes"? WTH? My personal problem is that I don't even begin to like someone until I'm way past the point of friend zone.
I usually have to know someone for a while before I start to like them. I've never just liked a random girl because I thought she was pretty, for example. Lol, though, I've come to terms with the issue a long time ago and accepted it for what it is. Sylph.Tigerwoods said: My personal problem is that I don't even begin to like someone until I'm way past the point of friend zone. I usually have to know someone for a while before I start to like them. I've never just liked a random girl because I thought she was pretty, for example. Lol, though, I've come to terms with the issue a long time ago and accepted it for what it is. but your brack...
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Fairy.Ghaleon said: Sylph.Tigerwoods said: My personal problem is that I don't even begin to like someone until I'm way past the point of friend zone. I usually have to know someone for a while before I start to like them. I've never just liked a random girl because I thought she was pretty, for example. Lol, though, I've come to terms with the issue a long time ago and accepted it for what it is. but your brack... Sylph.Tigerwoods said: Fairy.Ghaleon said: Sylph.Tigerwoods said: My personal problem is that I don't even begin to like someone until I'm way past the point of friend zone. I usually have to know someone for a while before I start to like them. I've never just liked a random girl because I thought she was pretty, for example. Lol, though, I've come to terms with the issue a long time ago and accepted it for what it is. but your brack... lol w Also, I wish the spareribs were the on the lunch special like the boneless. They're the same price when no lunch specials are going.
its a worse feeling when you dont KNOW how you feel
you think you like soemone, they like you but you're not sure if you should go further. I'm in that predicament now. Previous ex's and experience from them says dont bother you enjoy as you are. But the heart in me says go for it else you'll end up a dithering old man. eh i dunno I see the love line is still going. Hope you gents are doing well.
Well, the one girl I had the guts to ask out for the big event in Chicago turned out rather awkward.
Turns out she was going to the same event to begin with and already had a date. Which is fair and to be expected, because it is even more awkward coming out of the blue with "Hey, wanna come to Chicago with me for a concert? :D" Oh well, the hunt continues for a date~ At least she still wants to have dinner and go drinking after the show and all that. Quetzalcoatl.Volkom said: -.- starbucks coffee girl...is dating some guy...but this person she's been talking to on chatango for 2 years asked her to marry him. And they havn't visit in person before, seen each other on webcam, or talked on the phone. And she said yes. wtf Just hang in there bro!!
Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Which one is she a part of man the Rammstein or the orchestra? The Distant Worlds concert in Chicago. It's difficult finding a girl willing to go to Chicago with me, let alone one that is into heavy metal industrial pyromaniac Germans lol Besides, I think the orchestrated FF music and the formality of it plus dinner afterwards would simply be more romantic and suitable for a date more so than being slammed in a pit of thousands of people with fire blasting in your face. How do you guys deal with the depression that comes along with the man you love leaving you? Do you hold out hope they'll come back or just try to forget them all together? Any good suggestions for distractions will be appreciated.
Caitsith.Zefiris said: How do you guys deal with the depression that comes along with someone leaving you? Do you hold out hope they'll come back or just try to forget them all together? Any good suggestions for distractions will be appreciated. Take time to reflect on what happened and what each person did to warrant the situation including yourself. Take as much perspective on it as possible. Once you've done that, give a heartfelt explanation on how you feel and how you wish things could be to them. Knowing you did the right thing and took the time and emotional effort to do the right thing can leave you with your head held high even if they disregard it. Lessons learned in emotional and sentimental loss are seldom forgotten. Take this bad experience and use it to better yourself as a person. Perhaps in time you will see them again, and you will be ready.
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I don't know how it is for you women, but ever time I try to 'fix' it or make it better, I make it 10 times worse.
Edit - I find this to be the case for most guys After having done that and feeling like he didn't read it makes me feel a million times worse. Getting no response cements it in my mind that he doesn't care. I guess I just can't deal with the truth. I can't change how he feels about me now, but at least I apologized sincerely for what I did. I wish I could talk to him.
Caitsith.Zefiris said: How do you guys deal with the depression that comes along with the one you love leaving you? Do you hold out hope they'll come back or just try to forget them all together? Any good suggestions for distractions will be appreciated. "hope for the best, expect the worse" thats what ive learned from expieriance.
Caitsith.Zefiris said: After having done that and feeling like he didn't read it makes me feel a million times worse. Getting no response cements it in my mind that he doesn't care. I guess I just can't deal with the truth. I can't change how he feels about me now, but at least I apologized sincerely for what I did. I wish I could talk to him. Keep your chin up; you did the right thing and you went out of your way to make amends. Whether or not they're accepted, the best thing from here on out is to learn from your mistakes and move on with life. As noted previously, trying too hard to "fix" things do indeed make things worse. Wounds are still fresh, judgment and rational thought/reasoning are clouded and emotionally compromised. You gave your piece and now it's his choice whether or not to act upon it. Perhaps after both of you recover, however long it may be, you can try again with a better perspective and attitude about your relationship.
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