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 Odin.Eikechi
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By Odin.Eikechi 2012-12-22 02:29:28
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Josiahkf said: »
But I see what you're trying to say and it's true that there are women out there that just want to be taken, want a man to dominate them etc just like there are men desiring the same

99.9% of the time, this refers to a sexual fantasy and has no bearing on a woman's want for respect as a human being though.

edit: Even in a dom/sub relationship there is a mutual respect/trust, and those typically come with rules/guidelines.
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2012-12-22 02:30:59
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Bismarck.Lillica said: »
Chuuuu obviously doesn't want to be trained. She won't even get in her flippin pokeball.
I dont want to be molded, i wanted to be liked for the way I am. Not going to stand for a guy trying to change how I am. Ive already had that ***before lol
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By Siren.Kalilla 2012-12-22 02:36:44
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narshee how you doing in hell?
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By Odin.Eikechi 2012-12-22 02:37:11
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I'm sure there are SOME really timid people who just want a mother or father figure in their lives Jos, but I'd say that's the vast minority. In most cases of a guy or girl just wanting "to be taken", I would think that is a mere sexual fantasy reference.
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By Bismarck.Narshee 2012-12-22 02:37:56
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I keep dying before I can get to the bonfire :| 3 times so far.. ;;
 
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By Lakshmi.Aelius 2012-12-22 02:41:28
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-Climbs out from under a rock-

...is... the world still here?
 
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By Odin.Eikechi 2012-12-22 02:42:05
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Josiahkf said: »
again, I can't respond with stats to that type of stuff. But I know a large number of people with submissive tendencies that do end up being dominated at times in day to day life. It has nothing to do with sexual situations and can just be what a person finds most comfortable. Like you mentioned it can be perfectly healthy as well if respect is there.

But it was like skull believed that was the right place for all of a sex to reside so I wanted to explain why in today's society that's offensive

Oh I agree it's pretty damn offensive. I definitely see skull in a completely different light now, and it isn't pretty atm. Sorry Skull, that's just how it is, when you say some completely misogynistic stuff like that >_<.
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By Siren.Kalilla 2012-12-22 02:43:14
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Lakshmi.Aelius said: »
-Climbs out from under a rock-

...is... the world still here?
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By SSJAV 2012-12-22 02:44:10
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Lakshmi.Aelius said: »
-Climbs out from under a rock-

...is... the world still here?
Sadly. :| ~_~ Have to visit family tomorrow. Why couldn't the world have endeddddddddddd?!
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By Bismarck.Narshee 2012-12-22 02:45:34
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FINALLY *** BONFIRED

Bring it on ***~ Now I wont have to run back from the Depths >:D
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By Carbuncle.Skulloneix 2012-12-22 02:45:51
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Odin.Eikechi said: »
I think you have a seriously skewed point of view man.
kk
Siren.Kalilla said: »
please tell me more
I won't.
Asura.Chuuuuu said: »
yeah i dont think so skull
That's k.
Josiahkf said: »
it's a pretty sexist point of view skull.
I know =/
Josiahkf said: »
Like me saying "well all men just need a woman to submit to them, like women should really. Men are the leaders and women are inferior: they should support the men and it's their place really. they all want to, at the end of the day"
Well there is more to it. The man is incomplete without the good woman. I was describing the male POV due to the circumstance given and being asked if I was serious. I believe that in a relationship, a healthy one, both push and pull the other in balance, sort of like the YingYang. Men and women are not the same and when it comes down to it, are stronger and weaker in their own different aspects. And to be perfectly honest, the woman is the stronger one over all. I am not trying to appease the females in this thread atm, just admitting how I believe.

My mother is a strong woman and raised her kids well enough. By strong I mean smart, independent, brace, and proud. She of course would be appalled to hear me speak so frankly about how you can treat a woman, but of course, I will shut up about this all to appease the masses.

Your rancor was not what I intended. Plus, I WAS asked to elaborate and I did. Any further will just make things worse.

Josiahkf said: »
I know a few women and men that believe in treating each other with respect as equals, not the ancient traditions of men above women with them having less rights or just being objects etc
I like to believe I respect the majority of women in practice, but not usually with my words to those around me. /shrug I am pretty sure at this point no one would believe me about me being respectful but ok.

Josiahkf said: »
But I see what you're trying to say and it's true that there are women out there that just want to be taken, want a man to dominate them etc just like there are men desiring the same
That was more of what I was getting at then the typical wife beatin, down talking, arrogant, thoughtless, disrespectful, abusive men. That I do not condone. I did say tame her heart and her mind, or mind and heart, whichever, but not physically tame/beat her. Nor abuse mentally. Thats some really *** up ***I have seen happen to cousins and aunts and it sucks >_<

Not checking for errors or to see if I made sense with my rant, going back to anime with combining mecha. Why you ask? Cause I can't sleep, cause I failed to tame the heart of a woman and my mind and heart are paying for it atm.
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By Siren.Kalilla 2012-12-22 02:46:16
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Bismarck.Narshee said: »
FINALLY *** BONFIRED

Bring it on ***~ Now I wont have to run back from the Depths >:D
sounds like you skipped one if you reached the swamp, congrats regardless!
 
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By Bismarck.Narshee 2012-12-22 02:49:10
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oh no I meant the first one xD

I suck :I
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By Siren.Kalilla 2012-12-22 02:51:17
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did you open the shortcut in the depths?
 
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By Bismarck.Narshee 2012-12-22 02:54:00
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Siren.Kalilla said: »
did you open the shortcut in the depths?
Yeah the big door? That's the only way I know of :x Holytentaclemonster thing on the wall >.>
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By Siren.Kalilla 2012-12-22 02:54:33
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yea.... that leech is crazy nasty
 
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By Odin.Eikechi 2012-12-22 02:56:23
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Josiahkf said: »
If you view situations you come across with a certain mindset of course you're going to affirm yourself though senor.

I could easily look back at my ex fiancée and say I failed to tame her, chuuu would probably say she was untameable (for argument sake that we both continued that line of thought). But it's not like that really, if I back up enough and look at the big picture neutrally.

Tame... Tame. This word. It implies almost an ownership though. To tame a person, to make them "less savage". It all comes back to superiority/inferiority. It's misogyny no matter how you slice it really, if you continue to use that word. OK, I'm really bowing out now, as I'm actually getting a little uncomfortable that people still think this way, and are defending themselves on this viewpoint. It's just terrible >_<.
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By Bismarck.Narshee 2012-12-22 02:56:50
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Why didn't you tell me sooner?! It OHK'd me D:

I should try to summon someone lol
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By Siren.Kalilla 2012-12-22 03:01:23
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Narshee, you should do some exploring by the leech area. There is a shield that you 'may' enjoy called the Eagle Shield. It is the lightest lowest requirement great shield in the game, only requiring 16 STR to use.

You'll find a ladder going down, where you'll then kill a blowdart guy. To the left is some crazy ugly dude you've fought before, and you walk down this concrete pillar to a body with the shield. It has very high stability and will help you early on in the game.
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