Lakshmi.Mabrook said:
Same here, but like Mr. House tells us: people never change, so just accept that individual as weak minded and carry on; if anything, change is self-reliant and isn't helped from a partnership.
People CAN change, You just cannot force that change upon them. It has to come within. WHat you CAN do is change YOUR reaction to how a person is, and try to lead by example. For example, we have a bully at work who is very mean to everyone, and in fact enjoys making the girls cry.
He was singing "if I had a million dollars" at my counter space. I said I wouldn't work here with a big grin. He goes I would but I would be MORE miserable. I looked at him, sincerely with a smile and said I don't think that would be quite possible. You already aimed to give that 100%!"
Smiled, walked away. Bully ignores me now..lol
I don't understand why people choose to live their 1 go around so pessimistic and angry :(