Random Thoughts.....What Are You Thinking?

lol it works for a lot of people, nothing depressing about it

the vaporeon card collection has begun ohohoho

It wasn't the part that might work for some people, it was you implying that anyone it doesn't work for is lying to themselves. If it works for people, awesome. It's insane to say anyone outside of those people are lying to themselves. Like who hurt you? I'll have been in my relationship for 15 years tomorrow and we're both happy. But I guess that's just me lying to myself lol

It was in context of failing marriages and how people handle them. If its working for a couple to be monogamous then clearly its working. Why would I suggest every functioning and happy married couple do something they dont need? .

Clearly they werent as happy as your relationship and I was giving my opinion like anyone else.



370 watching, at least the JP support retail lol

It's ironic that multi-partner is the most optimal config, because no one person can give you everything you need. And it's foolish to limit your life to one other.

But of course humans have to human so they come up with reasons why that's not the way it's supposed to be.

(In what should be no surprise, it's mostly money ((insurance, weddings, houses)) and largely stupidity ((religion, faux "morality", brain chemistry)))
Plus of course women are ***. irritating. Who in their right mind wants more of them around!

Somehow I believe that Radial, while he might know a bit about human neurochemistry, knows little about human relationships.

Every relationship has missing things, thats why you have dogs and cats and plants and video games and alcohol and drugs

They replace and attempt to disguise the gaps.

Instead of accepting that it takes multiple persons to give everything, and having all those things be optional instead of crutches.

And like I said, the inability to overcome your own destructive chemistry.

Lot on incels in here today

What in the dysfunctional *** *** kind of takes are going on in here? There's never a need to cheat. If a relationship is that bad break up. Holy ***what is wrong with you people.

If you can't stop yourself from cheating, you shouldn't ever be in any relationship, jesus *** wept

Okay there's a whole lot of real emotional damage on the last two pages, but this point in particular sticks out.

You aren't supposed to get everything you need from anyone. A healthy relationship is one in which both partners (or all of them, if that's your thing) are fully developed people FIRST, and the relationship(s) add to your life in any number of happy and special ways. They are not "filling in gaps".

If your goal in a relationship is for someone else to fix some piece of you or fulfill some emotional need, you probably aren't emotionally healthy enough for one. Fix yourself first.

No one said fix. lol

I did, because you people are *** damaged.




Like, I have genuine concerns for y'all. Love yourselves, and be happy, and you'll find something out there if you want it. The notion that we're all just libidos with debit cards is horrifying and bleak.

"And the Lord said, 'Thou art maidenless. Thou shalt remain maidenless.' as the pile of microwaved onaholes attack you from the darkness."

Oh it's boredom all right just not of the sexual kind. The Grass is Greener mentality is what causes so many folks to file in the first place thinking they can easily replace the spouse with "something better" or to "live their best lives".

Everyone cheats, humans are not designed for monogamy.

They may not do it literally (physically), but every one does it. Of course, unless you accept that it's fact and don't simply go with it because you're "supposed to".

Depends, male or female? Lets just say the numbers are atrocious and not what most people think they are.

Also while this is Undead Random, Rooks might start curb stomping if this thread goes on much longer.

lets see him curb stomp this

Actually, other way around.

Men may want to cheat, but most lack the option to cheat. Women on the other hand have unlimited options to cheat and merely only need the desire. Sex is a single phone call away from her to any number of ex's, coworkers or guys she just knows.

Or to put it another way, 80% of men are completely invisible to most women. The top 1~5% of men get almost all the sexual attention, with the other ~15% getting whatever the top dudes don't get. Bottom 80% of largely invisible, I believe you just referenced them earlier with your derogatory term "incel". More women cheat, but they are all cheating with the same dude.