Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
»If you convey you are lonely and single for an extended period of time, friends are going to assume you can't fend for yourself and try to help you involuntarily I think.
That'd be fine if I hadn't told them over and over again that I'm fine where I am now. As long as I don't have people constantly reminding me of the status, I don't think about it too much.
Am I still playing with the idea of it? Sure.
Do I want help? Not really, or at least not in this form.
Have I told them this? Yes.
I understand that I moped around a lot more than I should have, and even here I still feel like constantly apologizing to you guys for how much I know I've done it.
But I like to think I've finally moved to a point where I'm confident enough in myself to not care about it as much or at the very least am too focused on other things most of the time to have it be the first thing on my mind.
Now that I've mumbled about nothing for a bit. How about some tea?!