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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
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By Asura.Yomisha 2013-08-11 11:25:04
I think we're just too old for this ***yomi x3 Definitely! XD inb4 Uri... <.<....
>.>...
*runs off* You better run! /throws a loafer at him
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2013-08-11 11:25:55
*gets hit and falls flat on his face*
._. Ouch.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-08-11 11:26:10
Also, not to be devil's advocate, but it looks like here it's made to be that it's always the one being love the bad guy, when actually most of the time the greatest selfishness comes from the one in love.
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2013-08-11 11:27:21
On top of what Headstrong said, sometimes females are afraid to be upfront because they'll lose a friend over it. The whole "a guy isn't talking to you because he wants to be your friend, he just wants to bang/be with you". If a guy is like that they probably aren't worth the time. But, yeah, there's that. It can be done, you can make a friend out of them, but it's less hurtful to actually be upfront about it than to destroy someone when they've probably done alot of thinking and confidence building, after they tell you. You can't /make/ someone a friend if their intentions are different. Just like you can't make them be romantically involved with you. I'm not trying to say it's right to string someone along. It's just one reason why it happens, if the girl even realizes it's happening. It's not always the case, which sucks.
Also, hints are not always to obvious to everyone. "It's obvious I want more." Communicate! Only real way to be obvious. If you can't for whatever reason, well that's a whole different subject. >.> ._. It pains me to admit it, but.. You're right.
I definitely have a strong mistrust of people on top of a sever difficulty to decypher their behavioural patterns, however I cannot possibly imagine that there are people that are just evil for pure sadistic pleasure. At least not on a large scale. Same here...we should friendzone each other~ ♥ (But yes, they do exist.)
By Quiznor 2013-08-11 11:30:16
Jude,y u imply i whack it at the gym q_q
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By Bismarck.Leonkasai 2013-08-11 11:30:51
Holy shiiiit, this match is way better than the ones last night. @_@
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2013-08-11 11:30:54
Also, not to be devil's advocate, but it looks like here it's made to be that it's always the one being love the bad guy, when actually most of the time the greatest selfishness comes from the one in love. For whatever reason it happens, it's neither person that's really a bad guy unless they are just tormenting the other. It just seems like a mistake to not be upfront. It also seems like a mistake to instantly meet someone and assume right off the bat that you will be dating in a few months. Though I can't say much...
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2013-08-11 11:34:30
Jude,y u imply i whack it at the gym q_q Because my name isn't Jude. :<
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By Odin.Headstrong 2013-08-11 11:35:36
Meh! Really want a cupcake now.. stupid sunday ._.
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By Asura.Yomisha 2013-08-11 11:35:51
The worst is when having a boyfriend isn't enough for them to back down. I'm sure guys feel the same when it happens to them. Makes you feel like an *** having to remind them it's not going to happen. x.o "I've been friendzoned, haven't I?" Really dude? .-.
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By Shiva.Azraelina 2013-08-11 11:36:04
People aren't good at communicating naturally. I don't think many families emphasize that/have that in being brought up. I know I certainly wasn't taught to communicate well.
It's an important aspect in friendships and relationships. Particularly in the instance of you feeling something, and maybe the other doesn't. Dealing with men personally from college, I've had to be very upfront once that behavior is shown or friends have told me "I have a crush on you." It's hard to communicate, but "friendzoning" doesn't have to be harsh.
Besides, I've never made a habit of keeping friends that get hurt over friendzoning or expecting anything unrealistic of me. I tend to keep a small friend base anyway and don't put up with such selfish shenanigans.
The only thing I've had friends *** about to me is when girls perceive their kindness as flirtation. A lot of my guy friends feel like they can't even be NICE to women because women have a tendency (for good reason) to suspect niceness = seduction.
:D Getting stuff together to go to airport... Tomorrow is the day Uri is permanently mine...
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By Asura.Yomisha 2013-08-11 11:36:13
Meh! Really want a cupcake now.. stupid sunday ._. Cupcake stores are closed on Sunday?
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2013-08-11 11:36:48
Meh! Really want a cupcake now.. stupid sunday ._. I'll buy you one...if you'll friendzone me.. :D
By Quiznor 2013-08-11 11:38:20
Meh! Really want a cupcake now.. stupid sunday ._. Cupcake stores are closed on Sunday?
I'd say make some,but she's uber lazy :p
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By Odin.Headstrong 2013-08-11 11:40:41
Meh! Really want a cupcake now.. stupid sunday ._. Cupcake stores are closed on Sunday? Almost everything is closed on sunday >: Not like i know where to buy decent cupcakes here anyway ._. we seem to not have them..
Meh! Really want a cupcake now.. stupid sunday ._. I'll buy you one...if you'll friendzone me.. :D I don't know you .-. i dun wanna friendzone you
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By Asura.Yomisha 2013-08-11 11:42:04
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!?
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2013-08-11 11:42:09
Meh! Really want a cupcake now.. stupid sunday ._. I'll buy you one...if you'll friendzone me.. :D I don't know you .-. i dun wanna friendzone you Well, someone isn't getting a cupcake! *eats cupcake*
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-08-11 11:45:17
people can't handle the truth. You want to know the truth?!? You can't handle the truth! *slaps*
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By Odin.Headstrong 2013-08-11 11:48:25
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!? Iunno, i just like the way they look i guess x3 Never really had one!
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2013-08-11 11:49:35
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!? Iunno, i just like the way they look i guess x3 Never really had one! Wait, you've never had a cupcake?!
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By Bismarck.Magnuss 2013-08-11 11:50:47
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!? Iunno, i just like the way they look i guess x3 Never really had one! Wait, you've never had a cupcake?!
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-08-11 11:50:56
Last time I told someone that honestly we weren't going to be friends out of the work place, they said, "That's *** up". Oh, done that. Saying someone is an acquaintance rather than a friend apparently causes a lot of harsh feelings. I don't know though, maybe it's cause I put too much value in the definition of friend itself that I don't like using it the way it is in social networks.
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By Asura.Yomisha 2013-08-11 11:52:20
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!? Iunno, i just like the way they look i guess x3 Never really had one! Oh what, really? I know you love cake, you'd definitely like cupcakes, lol. Whatever your favorite cake is can be put into cupcake form!
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2013-08-11 11:52:45
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!? Iunno, i just like the way they look i guess x3 Never really had one! Wait, you've never had a cupcake?!  THIS IS NOT RIGHT! CUPCAKES FOR EVERYONE, DAMN IT!
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By Odin.Headstrong 2013-08-11 11:53:06
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!? Iunno, i just like the way they look i guess x3 Never really had one! Wait, you've never had a cupcake?! Nup >: not the pretty stuffs!
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By Bismarck.Magnuss 2013-08-11 11:54:43
:( People get all excited for a comicon, then they find out tickets are $50+ dollars and then all bail on the idea of going.
That was my morning.
Going to go out for a bit, hit a dollar store for cleaning supplies and the asian mart for their bakery. Oh that sucks. Sorry, man.
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2013-08-11 11:55:03
I would make you cupcakes if you weren't so far, Heado. What kind!? Iunno, i just like the way they look i guess x3 Never really had one! Wait, you've never had a cupcake?! Nup >: not the pretty stuffs! :< This is a sad sad day.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-08-11 11:55:08
50$ sounds too high just to enter the fair, it's usually something like 12-14€ a day here.
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.
Inb4thisthreadgetsreallywtf
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