Ifrit.Bloodbathboy said:
Ok I will be honest with you guys. If I really am into a chick I will try to. I look at any relationship as an investment. Does not matter what kind it is. I put my time, money, and feelings into it so I want it to grow. If both parties work hard for it, it can turn out great. If not, or just one person is working it is doomed to fail. At that point I cut my losses and bale. make sense folks??
That's how half the people look at it. I kinda take some points from that way too, but the way I personally see it, is like a party.(lol) If I'm having fun I'm gonna stay, I don't want to make them be who they aren't I'll stay with them and have fun, and hope for the best, if it doesn't work out though you just gotta cut your losses and go home like you said.
When you meet someone you are both flexible. As time goes by you get more comfortable and lose your flexibility. If by the point where you both no longer try to impress each other, you aren't still flexible enough for both of you to be happy, that relationship just won't work and that's the point where you tell her you're sorry and part ways.