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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:46:32 |
don't fault someone else for having a different opinion on how much commitment is required for their marriage
the problem is almost nobody thinks it through first. what marraige is, what it means to them, what it means to their partner etc.
like making a pact with the devil and then acting suprised when he gets your soul at the end.
Kelsy Grammer, great example, if he asked you to marry him would you believe it was going to last forever?
I think he is on wife number eight now I lost count...
Who is dumber? his fourth wife or his third? Or is he just an ***? |
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got this yesterday
marriage?
that would mean making an effort to meet soemone who wouldnt set my things on fire |
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Testing
Spath
Edit:
Still works. I am pleased.
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By Asura. Lolserj on 2017-03-23 14:38:37 |
I should get married. >_>
I'm sure we can have that... Arranged |
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Ni has to get deep every so often, helps keep the balance. Just like sometimes(most times) I need to come in here and be ridiculous and stupid. Balance.
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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:30:50 |
Niko's a good guy deep down.
No I'm both a good and evil guy... In the... there is no way to have one without the other... this is getting pretty deep for NI... kind of way |
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I should get married. >_> Gonna have to give up the waifus first.
edit: Reading back through everything, I'm reminded Nik is one of those people who makes me feel like I'd be perfectly okay sitting near a fire drinking scotch talking ***with him. |
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I should get married. >_>
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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:28:35 |
Marriage is just an enigma to me for weird reasons.
no I get it. It's confusing as ***out there in the real world.
I made up my mind a long time ago to live like a warrior. In the I'm already dead and they just haven't filled the hole in with dirt yet...
kind of thing.... that doesn't make sense to a lot of people |
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I have a new found respect for Niko and I'm not sure how I feel about this. Niko's a good guy deep down. He's just also a *** coated *** with *** filling who likes to *** with people.
He's relatable. |
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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:23:37 |
Again, this really depends on a person's definition of marriage
mine's a little more psychotic in the pathalogical devotion department... perhaps.....
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So what you're saying is it's not a shared contract, each person within the marriage makes their own and their only requirement is to uphold the one they made, they are not to care about their partners?
I told my wife that even if she kicks me out of the house, divorces me (which anyone can legally do) and marries another guy, (which don't even get me started on second marraiges) and/or tries to kill me for the insurance money.
I still wont ever take my ring off.
My side of the agreement isn't dependant on anyone else's actions or inactions. She could fall into a coma ans stay there forty years, die in childbirth, IT DOESN"T MATTER
you can't figure a way out of it. I already thought of every concievable possibility. I'd rather not figure a way out of it. I just want to understand the entire thing. It doesn't feel as clear cut to me as so many others have tried to make it in the past, but I know most of that comes from my need to overthink every last tiny detail and make things as precise as possible for myself.
Marriage is just an enigma to me for weird reasons. |
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By Asura. Lolserj on 2017-03-23 14:22:36 |
So what you're saying is it's not a shared contract, each person within the marriage makes their own and their only requirement is to uphold the one they made, they are not to care about their partners?
I told my wife that even if she kicks me out of the house, divorces me (which anyone can legally do) and marries another guy, (which don't even get me started on second marraiges) and/or tries to kill me for the insurance money.
I still wont ever take my ring off.
My side of the agreement isn't dependant on anyone else's actions or inactions. She could fall into a coma ans stay there forty years, die in childbirth, IT DOESN"T MATTER
you can't figure a way out of it. I already thought of every concievable possibility.
And that is completely fine, but don't fault someone else for having a different opinion on how much commitment is required for their marriage |
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By Ragnarok. Hevans on 2017-03-23 14:21:33 |
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*walks in to thread*
*reads one sentence*
nope
*walks out*
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By Asura. Lolserj on 2017-03-23 14:19:57 |
correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand
I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean
Including a fair number of married people, really
hey some people get married because they need a new toaster, and I couldn't be forced to give a ***at gunpoint.
all I'm saying is KNOW WHAT YOU ARE AGREEING TO
Again, this really depends on a person's definition of marriage |
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I have a new found respect for Niko and I'm not sure how I feel about this.
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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:17:11 |
So what you're saying is it's not a shared contract, each person within the marriage makes their own and their only requirement is to uphold the one they made, they are not to care about their partners?
I told my wife that even if she kicks me out of the house, divorces me (which anyone can legally do) and marries another guy, (which don't even get me started on second marraiges) and/or tries to kill me for the insurance money.
I still wont ever take my ring off.
My side of the agreement isn't dependant on anyone else's actions or inactions. She could fall into a coma ans stay there forty years, die in childbirth, IT DOESN"T MATTER
you can't figure a way out of it. I already thought of every concievable possibility. |
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Teach me what love means, Uncle Rooks.
No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again...
We aren't talking about love
We are talking about marriage
Do try to keep up, your Majesty *sits down while releasing a long, drawn out sigh and wiping sweat from his brow*
PARKER I'm going to need a full intelligence briefing on this "marriage" topic. Talk slowly and start from the top. But first answer me one question. Is "marriage" contagious? Should we be contacting the CDC? From my reports, marriage is as contagious as pregnancy.
Quarantine yourself. |
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By Asura. Dameshi on 2017-03-23 14:11:39 |
Teach me what love means, Uncle Rooks.
No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again...
We aren't talking about love
We are talking about marriage
Do try to keep up, your Majesty *sits down while releasing a long, drawn out sigh and wiping sweat from his brow*
PARKER I'm going to need a full intelligence briefing on this "marriage" topic. Talk slowly and start from the top. But first answer me one question. Is "marriage" contagious? Should we be contacting the CDC? |
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that is blatant breech of trust and breaking of your contract
it's not though. again if they break their side that's their problem.
If I promise you that I am going to do something until I die.
and then quit for any reason other than dying.
then what was the point of the promise? So what you're saying is it's not a shared contract, each person within the marriage makes their own and their only requirement is to uphold the one they made, they are not to care about their partner's? |
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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:08:35 |
that is blatant breech of trust and breaking of your contract
it's not though. again if they break their side that's their problem.
If I promise you that I am going to do something until I die.
and then quit for any reason other than dying.
then what was the point of the promise? |
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By Excalibur. Idiot Boy on 2017-03-23 14:08:32 |
Teach me what love means, Uncle Rooks.
No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again...
We aren't talking about love
We are talking about marriage
Do try to keep up, your Majesty |
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By Asura. Dameshi on 2017-03-23 14:06:29 |
correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand
I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean
Including a fair number of married people, really Teach me what love means, Uncle Rooks.
No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again... |
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By Asura. Lolserj on 2017-03-23 14:06:21 |
correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand
I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean
Including a fair number of married people, really
I mean "married" means to you what it means to you, of marriage is a contract that can be voided to you that's fine
If not it is also fine, but I personally find that crazy |
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most people, when they think about the future, only think about the good parts. the happilly ever after.
my wife could pull a britney spears, shave her head bald, get strung out on crystal meth and bone everyone in range.
that doesn't change my promise. and that's what I'm saying.
If the other person's behavior can influence your side of the deal than it isn't a real deal to begin with
Love them or not, if I get married and they try to kill me that ***is getting shut down. No exceptions They're just trying to fulfill the contract, yo.
They've got places to be! |
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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:05:24 |
correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand
I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean
Including a fair number of married people, really
hey some people get married because they need a new toaster, and I couldn't be forced to give a ***at gunpoint.
all I'm saying is KNOW WHAT YOU ARE AGREEING TO |
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By Asura. Lolserj on 2017-03-23 14:04:09 |
most people, when they think about the future, only think about the good parts. the happilly ever after.
my wife could pull a britney spears, shave her head bald, get strung out on crystal meth and bone everyone in range.
that doesn't change my promise. and that's what I'm saying.
If the other person's behavior can influence your side of the deal than it isn't a real deal to begin with
Love them or not, if I get married and they try to kill me that ***is getting shut down. No exceptions |
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By Excalibur. Idiot Boy on 2017-03-23 14:03:33 |
correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand
I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean
Including a fair number of married people, really |
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most people, when they think about the future, only think about the good parts. the happilly ever after.
my wife could pull a britney spears, shave her head bald, get strung out on crystal meth and bone everyone in range.
that doesn't change my promise. and that's what I'm saying.
If the other person's behavior can influence your side of the deal than it isn't a real deal to begin with That's not just their behavior influencing your side though, that is blatant breech of trust and breaking of your contract unless you have already spoken and agreed upon the ability to go outside the relationship. |
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By Shiva. Nikolce on 2017-03-23 14:02:32 |
Nothing against people who have an arrangement with their spouse to freely see other people
No exactly. That's their deal. If that is what marraige means to them and they sorted all that out before hand, super.
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