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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
By Jetackuu 2014-09-16 13:00:34
Confirmed: Seha likes cumshots.
Edit: I would page with that...
By Artemicion 2014-09-16 13:16:31
Well my PMs are broken, so with that said:
Hope you feel better soon Seha, whatever it is that's ailing you.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-09-16 13:16:54
*points other thread*
edit: as for the thing above I'm not sure I can talk about what I like; I'll inquire later like usual!
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By Artemicion 2014-09-16 13:18:51
Oh I have no intentions of prying, but I've noticed whatever it is has been bugging you for quite awhile now, so I certainly hope things move in a better direction for you.
Derp: Realized the previous post wasn't directed to my inquiry. Staying up for over 27 hours is starting to weigh in as a bad idea finally.
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Caitsith.Zahrah
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2014-09-16 13:23:26
Ugh...I feel like I'm echoing something I may not have explained thoroughly two or three years ago.
Seha,don't take this the wrong way, please. You may be incapable of having kids, you may not want kids, but why don't you like kids? Is it lack of exposure?
Here's the suggestion I had years ago: With the Gordian knot that has been building with your social anxieties compounded with your other problems, maybe working with a set of people who have a very fleeting base of judgement would actually be really therapeutic for you? You could also get reciprocal satisfaction from it.
I remember you saying you wanted to teach at one point...
After school programs where you make crafts, singing, or even reading a story. You can do that.
You had experience with soccer. You can coach a U7 recreational league.
Even if it's taking a moment with kids facing the same problems you did/are, it's a pragmatic step.
Please note, for the love of pancakes, I'm trying to be encouraging, not critical. Yes, I had to mull over whether or not to actually post this.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-09-16 13:23:41
Derp: Realized the previous post wasn't directed to my inquiry The first part was, the second was for Jet.
By Jetackuu 2014-09-16 13:24:29
The first part was, the second was for Jet. <3 you too miss Seha.
Do feel better though.
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-09-16 13:25:19
Quote: Seha,don't take this the wrong way, please. You may be incapable of having kids, you may not want kids, but why don't you like kids? Is it lack of exposure?
I realize I'm outside of the context of the post a bit, but...why isn't it okay to not like kids?
By Artemicion 2014-09-16 13:26:54
With that said, does anyone know why my inbox might be broken? All it says is "Are you still there?" right above where my messages should be, except I can't click on anything to confirm or deny that.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-09-16 13:27:45
I don't have anything inherently against kids. But
1. I'm not comfortable around them(like at all, I feel completely incapable of relating to them and extremely uneasy if left alone with one)
2. If it's about me having them on top of other things I also doubt I'd be a good mother.
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By Jetackuu 2014-09-16 13:28:23
With that said, does anyone know why my inbox might be broken? All it says is "Are you still there?" right above where my messages should be, except I can't click on anything to confirm or deny that. try another browser?
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-09-16 13:29:27
I don't have anything inherently against kids. But
1. I'm not comfortable around them(like at all, I feel completely incapable of relating to them and extremely uneasy if left alone with one)
2. If it's about me having them on top of other things I also doubt I'd be a good mother.
I very much understand where Seha is coming from, and it does in fact strike me as similar, if not entirely identical, to my wife's feelings on the topic. Won't go into it further here, though if you need someone to talk to on the topic you can always PM me.
Suffice to say my wife would probably be thrilled to be told she was unable to physically have children.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-09-16 13:31:29
if you need someone to talk to on the topic you can always PM me. I'm not bothered by my lack of desire for maternity. It's why it never really shocked me or gave me any bad feeling to be told I would hardly ever be able to bear any.
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-09-16 13:32:28
if you need someone to talk to on the topic you can always PM me. I'm not bothered by my lack of desire for maternity. It's why it never really shocked me or gave me any bad feeling to be told I would hardly ever be able to bear any.
Well, I more meant the way people tend to take it when you tell them that.
I know Mirny encounters a lot of pushback and dirty looks when she tries to explain to people she doesn't want to have children.
A lot.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-09-16 13:35:03
I'm fine, there are other things giving me stress these days!
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2014-09-16 13:35:47
Wow, that thread I bumped was buried fast...probably a good thing xD
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By Asura.Ina 2014-09-16 13:36:14
Dancer unlocked
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-09-16 13:37:31
Wow, that thread I bumped was buried fast...probably a good thing xD
...ah.
I see.
And, don't mean this in the dismissive fashion, but all I can say is, "Well...good luck with that." =\
By Jetackuu 2014-09-16 13:43:53
Hmm can't get thunderbird to sync with a pol email, anyone ever get that to work?
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-09-16 13:47:51
Never been a lucky person.
By Artemicion 2014-09-16 13:53:13
Never been a lucky person.
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2014-09-16 14:14:25
Bears... I hate 'em...
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2014-09-16 14:15:26
So rude
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2014-09-16 14:16:44
NOU!
>:| my eyes!
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2014-09-16 14:18:36
Thought you'd like it
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By Valefor.Prothescar 2014-09-16 14:19:19
man things aren't going too well. 6 people quit the game last week, now down another 11 today from the personal housing and related problems/lies/excuses. .-. running out of people to play with, beginning to wonder why I continue playing myself and continue supporting SE's horrible decisions.
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2014-09-16 14:20:18
Lol, quit over that? Silly
I'll sell them my personal house for 6 mil
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-09-16 14:22:06
Valefor.Prothescar said: »man things aren't going too well. 6 people quit the game last week, now down another 11 today from the personal housing and related problems/lies/excuses. .-. running out of people to play with, beginning to wonder why I continue playing myself and continue supporting SE's horrible decisions.
As I mentioned earlier today, I'm having a hell of a time getting motivated thanks to some of the stuff in XI these days just being...really, really irritating. I find myself more drawn to playing WoW or just eschewing MMOs entirely in favor of other stuff.
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.
Inb4thisthreadgetsreallywtf
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