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FFXI LGBT Community, who are you?
Bahamut.Ryousuke
Server: Bahamut
Game: FFXI
Posts: 298
By Bahamut.Ryousuke 2010-05-25 16:46:41
just get out Draylo if you have nothing constructive to contribute to the discussion.
bit rude today because i'm upset
i'm upset because... (slightly relevant to me being in the closet) my mom told me that even though she'll let me stay in UK this year (I got an offer in a uni back home but I don't want to go mostly because I got a leadership position in the school senate for the coming year), that i'll HAVE to go back to HK next year and told me don't even THINK about UK universities. money apparently isn't a problem but she has given me no reason at all - always ignores me when I ask. She's not even giving me a choice, and is informing me of this in an extremely impersonal email. I want to stay in UK. I want to stay because in HK, I can't be who I am, it's modern but it's Asian so it's a "homosexuals? what?" thing. I like the culture here, I've told her, but I don't want to come out because of this.
just needed to vent
Leviathan.Draylo
Server: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
By Leviathan.Draylo 2010-05-25 16:58:46
Why so mean :( I wanna be here too.
Server: Fenrir
Game: FFXI
Posts: 73
By Fenrir.Moonblade 2010-05-25 17:00:30
jeez girls put the claws back in.... we're all allowed to *** and vent about things... and for one if people have an issue about real life pictures... F**k them i saw.
Self-photo is an option and i'm more than just my avatar/pic anyways.
ryou - sucks that you can't stay in the uk and the parents are forcing you to go back to HK. You will need to weigh the pros and cons of coming out to your parents.
Server: Fenrir
Game: FFXI
Posts: 73
By Fenrir.Moonblade 2010-05-25 17:02:17
Leviathan.Draylo said: Why so mean :( I wanna be here too. i dont think anyone is trying to be mean but more or less laugh. we're all sarcastic. we all like to joke. and even though you are trying to play devils advocate - you should at least state that up front (if indeed you are playing devils advocate - if not, let people vent and don't keep pushing buttons)
Quetzalcoatl.Xyclo
Server: Quetzalcoatl
Game: FFXI
Posts: 737
By Quetzalcoatl.Xyclo 2010-05-25 17:12:43
Honestly.
I'm laughing so hard at his inability to type hypocrisy and clever correctly.
And if he's being a troll, just ignore 'im. He'll leave eventually.
Diabolos.Rydiya
Server: Diabolos
Game: FFXI
Posts: 13469
By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-05-25 17:25:43
-.- Wow. That's.. ***, mytoy.
Quetzalcoatl.Xyclo
Server: Quetzalcoatl
Game: FFXI
Posts: 737
By Quetzalcoatl.Xyclo 2010-05-25 17:27:58
As much as I hate to say it... America is full of Asshats..
there are select few people that are nice and kind.
This, of course, is my opinion.
No one has to agree with it.
Asura.Shayka
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3254
By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-25 17:49:36
The asshats like to hunt out the nice people, obviously you can't rain on someone miserables parade, so you go after the nice, happy person. I'm sorry Mytoy, if it makes you feel better, I <3 you still and think it was nice of you to move, even if the guy decided to be a raging twatwaffle afterwards about it. Oh and ty for Ville <3
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 15
By Phoenix.Hardcandy 2010-05-25 19:05:45
Hi, folks -- How is everyone doing today?
Server: Ramuh
Game: FFXI
Posts: 270
By Ramuh.Rustytiger 2010-05-25 19:26:08
Gilgamesh.Mytoy said: I swear people target me...stuff like that happens to me all the time. And I'm not even the slightest bit rude irl...ever. People tell me all the time how polite I am. <.<
Sometimes you have to set boundaries for yourself so not as to let people take advantage of you. I'm a nice guy as well so I feel ya, but trust me you will be better off and of peace of mind when you set limits because people will respect you as well as not get one over you.
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 15
By Phoenix.Hardcandy 2010-05-25 19:30:04
Ramuh.Rustytiger said: Gilgamesh.Mytoy said: I swear people target me...stuff like that happens to me all the time. And I'm not even the slightest bit rude irl...ever. People tell me all the time how polite I am. <.<
Sometimes you have to set boundaries for yourself so not as to let people take advantage of you. I'm a nice guy as well so I feel ya, but trust me you will be better off and of peace of mind when you set limits because people will respect you as well as not get one over you.
Word. I couldn't agree more.
Asura.Shayka
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3254
By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-25 21:13:01
Phoenix.Hardcandy said: Hi, folks -- How is everyone doing today? I am annoyed lol, have a friend with no kids, trying to tell me what its like to be pregnant and have a 2 year old. Maybe I should've taken the child psychology classes so I knew everything too ><
How are you? And everyone else?
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 15
By Phoenix.Hardcandy 2010-05-25 21:21:02
Asura.Shayka said: Phoenix.Hardcandy said: Hi, folks -- How is everyone doing today? I am annoyed lol, have a friend with no kids, trying to tell me what its like to be pregnant and have a 2 year old. Maybe I should've taken the child psychology classes so I knew everything too ><
How are you? And everyone else?
I am having a good day so far. :D Never did get any Hostess cupcakes last night though. LOL
Phoenix.Ailoki
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 890
By Phoenix.Ailoki 2010-05-25 21:27:28
Phoenix.Hardcandy said: Hi, folks -- How is everyone doing today? Decent. It's so hot... ; ;
Just finished Limbus not too long ago, 6 coin split~
Just soloing some FoV on NIN while I wait for Beseiged.
Augh, time to hide everyone on my profile again. People are rating my comments down for no reason.
Phoenix.Trillium
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 15
By Phoenix.Trillium 2010-05-25 21:52:11
Mmm crispy cleavers...
Mytoy you rock.
Phoenix.Trillium
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 15
By Phoenix.Trillium 2010-05-25 22:13:33
Phoenix.Hardcandy said: Hi, folks -- How is everyone doing today?
I'm doing well. Just got back from my choir's windup supper. Found out that the (nearly) 18yo that I have a wee bit of a crush on has the same birthday as me. Small world.
Leviathan.Draylo
Server: Leviathan
Game: FFXI
By Leviathan.Draylo 2010-05-25 22:20:35
Fine and Dandy!
Asura.Shayka
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3254
By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-25 22:24:29
Phoenix.Hardcandy said: Asura.Shayka said: Phoenix.Hardcandy said: Hi, folks -- How is everyone doing today? I am annoyed lol, have a friend with no kids, trying to tell me what its like to be pregnant and have a 2 year old. Maybe I should've taken the child psychology classes so I knew everything too ><
How are you? And everyone else?
I am having a good day so far. :D Never did get any Hostess cupcakes last night though. LOL I'm sorry lol, maybe grab some tonight? =p
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 15
By Phoenix.Hardcandy 2010-05-25 22:32:27
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I'm sorry lol, maybe grab some tonight? =p[/quote]
Nah, too tired. LOL
Server: Fenrir
Game: FFXI
Posts: 327
By Fenrir.Dramanue 2010-05-25 22:36:59
Sorry to hear your story, Mytoy. That's truly *** *** of the guy. I've seen my share of ***, but that one probably takes the cake for this week. Was anything broken, btw?
Asura.Shayka
Server: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3254
By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-25 22:39:04
I'm sorry lol, maybe grab some tonight? =p[/quote]
Nah, too tired. LOL
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Then you shall be Hostess Cupcakeless tonight =p
On another note, I just saw the most horrible spelling of my real name, ever and its pronounced the same as my name so I know what its meant to be o.o
Diabolos.Rydiya
Server: Diabolos
Game: FFXI
Posts: 13469
By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-05-25 22:55:12
Phoenix.Hardcandy said: Hi, folks -- How is everyone doing today? I'm pretty good. An HNM today, decided I needed to lose 1.1k exp though! D:
Phoenix.Oumura
Server: Phoenix
Game: FFXI
Posts: 3460
By Phoenix.Oumura 2010-05-25 23:59:18
Diabolos.Rydiya
Server: Diabolos
Game: FFXI
Posts: 13469
By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-05-26 00:02:56
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.
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