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FFXI LGBT Community, who are you?
 Fenrir.Lilaan
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 13:44:41
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Asura.Shayka said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: I'm almost always WHM, which I totally don't mind, but it still can get irking at times. I hate that job >.> But then again I'm so burned out on it, I threatened to set my HP in Cape Terrigan and suicide repeatedly until I either felt better or hit lvl 4 on it, thats how much I hate being on it now XD Lol. I'm so tempted to do that with my hnmls on whm and brd. I'M SICK OF IT. LET ME GO SCH-ONRY DAMNIT. YOU GAVE ME A NOVIO SO LEMME DO IT.
Thought about it for BRD, just to 74 though so I can't use any of my gear and be like "I have no time to exp ; ;"
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 13:45:19
Fenrir.Lilaan said: Asura.Shayka said: Fenrir.Lilaan said: Asura.Shayka said: Phoenix.Raigne said: Hahahaha.... Oh, that's just great. Does it surprise me? Hell no.
"Gays aren't human!" "Then why are you traveling with a man half your age?" "I'm not gay, I swear!!!"
-_-; The fact the boy is so young is even more disturbing >.> I don't care if hes over 18, its still creepy.
Big daddys like twink boys. Ever been to a gay club? Gross. >< Now I'm never going to be able to go to a gay club.
I have been twice and have been sexual harassed both times. I was 18 and looked like I was 16 and I had people grab my crotch, my butt, they would pull me by my shirt into them when I was just trying to dance with my girlfriends. A guy followed me into the bathroom and I went to shut the stall door and he held it open and tried to come in until I screamed. But thats Charlotte, things might be different elsewhere. Thats just horribly wrong o.o, its not much different in Baltimore I'd imagine, but I've never gone to the gay clubs there, like my cousin does. Closest I'd get is a goth club that just happens to have a bunch of gay/bi/les people and even a few transgendered people, but still harassment there similar to what you experienced. Some people are just aggressive jerks and need to know not to touch or to go away when their attentions are obviously not wanted D:
 Diabolos.Rydiya
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-05-05 13:46:01
lol. I have a shittily geared BRD too. My best geared job is SCH, I'm a career sch and blm. They should let me go as either one.
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 13:46:36
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Asura.Shayka said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: I'm almost always WHM, which I totally don't mind, but it still can get irking at times. I hate that job >.> But then again I'm so burned out on it, I threatened to set my HP in Cape Terrigan and suicide repeatedly until I either felt better or hit lvl 4 on it, thats how much I hate being on it now XD Lol. I'm so tempted to do that with my hnmls on whm and brd. I'M SICK OF IT. LET ME GO SCH-ONRY DAMNIT. YOU GAVE ME A NOVIO SO LEMME DO IT. Lol, I don't blame you, I understand those are great endgame jobs, but ffs, theres other jobs we all have leveled, so let them get some use too!
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-05-05 13:47:34
Asura.Shayka said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: Asura.Shayka said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: I'm almost always WHM, which I totally don't mind, but it still can get irking at times. I hate that job >.> But then again I'm so burned out on it, I threatened to set my HP in Cape Terrigan and suicide repeatedly until I either felt better or hit lvl 4 on it, thats how much I hate being on it now XD Lol. I'm so tempted to do that with my hnmls on whm and brd. I'M SICK OF IT. LET ME GO SCH-ONRY DAMNIT. YOU GAVE ME A NOVIO SO LEMME DO IT. Lol, I don't blame you, I understand those are great endgame jobs, but ffs, theres other jobs we all have leveled, so let them get some use too! My shell has like seven other Not-dualboxed WHMs too. For *** sake, let me go as SCH.
Fenrir.Lilaan
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 13:48:12
Diabolos.Rydiya said: lol. I have a shittily geared BRD too. My best geared job is SCH, I'm a career sch and blm. They should let me go as either one.
A BLM wanting to go BLM... thats a first!
Fenrir.Lilaan
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 13:49:37
Asura.Shayka said: Fenrir.Lilaan said: Asura.Shayka said: Fenrir.Lilaan said: Asura.Shayka said: Phoenix.Raigne said: Hahahaha.... Oh, that's just great. Does it surprise me? Hell no.
"Gays aren't human!" "Then why are you traveling with a man half your age?" "I'm not gay, I swear!!!"
-_-; The fact the boy is so young is even more disturbing >.> I don't care if hes over 18, its still creepy.
Big daddys like twink boys. Ever been to a gay club? Gross. >< Now I'm never going to be able to go to a gay club.
I have been twice and have been sexual harassed both times. I was 18 and looked like I was 16 and I had people grab my crotch, my butt, they would pull me by my shirt into them when I was just trying to dance with my girlfriends. A guy followed me into the bathroom and I went to shut the stall door and he held it open and tried to come in until I screamed. But thats Charlotte, things might be different elsewhere. Thats just horribly wrong o.o, its not much different in Baltimore I'd imagine, but I've never gone to the gay clubs there, like my cousin does. Closest I'd get is a goth club that just happens to have a bunch of gay/bi/les people and even a few transgendered people, but still harassment there similar to what you experienced. Some people are just aggressive jerks and need to know not to touch or to go away when their attentions are obviously not wanted D:
It scared me enough to never go again, but if that were to ever to happen to me again, I breaking their nose and whatever else I can break on their face.
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 13:49:48
Diabolos.Rydiya said: My shell has like seven other Not-dualboxed WHMs too. For *** sake, let me go as SCH. Jeez! With that many other WHM's they can spare you and let you play on a job you want to play that would be equally useful!
Fenrir.Lilaan said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: lol. I have a shittily geared BRD too. My best geared job is SCH, I'm a career sch and blm. They should let me go as either one.
A BLM wanting to go BLM... thats a first! This^ It is shocking! But if you don't get to play BLM often, then you will want to play it more than say, WHM.
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 13:50:48
Fenrir.Lilaan said: It scared me enough to never go again, but if that were to ever to happen to me again, I breaking their nose and whatever else I can break on their face. ; ;, I'm sorry that happened, if you ever went again and that did happen, you'd be well within your right to break anything you could reach on them.
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By Diabolos.Rydiya 2010-05-05 13:52:45
Asura.Shayka said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: My shell has like seven other Not-dualboxed WHMs too. For *** sake, let me go as SCH. Jeez! With that many other WHM's they can spare you and let you play on a job you want to play that would be equally useful! Seriously! ; ; it sorta sucks in a way.
Fenrir.Lilaan
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 13:53:16
Asura.Shayka said: ; ;, I'm sorry that happened, if you ever went again and that did happen, you'd be well within your right to break anything you could reach on them.
Yeah, I wasn't so aggressive when I was 18, but now I will hit you in a heartbeat.
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 13:55:08
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Seriously! ; ; it sorta sucks in a way.
They pick the two evils for you! Shunnnn. Just sell all your gear and tell them you needed gear for your Scholar and you "accidently" tosses all your rare/ex, better yet, show up everytime naked!
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 13:57:57
Fenrir.Lilaan said: Asura.Shayka said: ; ;, I'm sorry that happened, if you ever went again and that did happen, you'd be well within your right to break anything you could reach on them.
Yeah, I wasn't so aggressive when I was 18, but now I will hit you in a heartbeat. Well you were younger and probably shyer =p, now that you're older you don't have a problem standing up for yourself.
Diabolos.Rydiya said: Asura.Shayka said: Diabolos.Rydiya said: My shell has like seven other Not-dualboxed WHMs too. For *** sake, let me go as SCH. Jeez! With that many other WHM's they can spare you and let you play on a job you want to play that would be equally useful! Seriously! ; ; it sorta sucks in a way. I agree with Lilaan's suggestion, "sell/toss" everything, whether you really do or not, its up to you, but tell everyone you did, it might work!
Fenrir.Lilaan
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 14:00:21
Don't toss it or sell it, say you bazaar'd it :) They'd never know :P except when you go to something as WHM willingly!
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 14:01:30
Oh how I would love to sell my bard gear, 5+ mil, yes please!
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 14:05:30
Fenrir.Lilaan said: Don't toss it or sell it, say you bazaar'd it :) They'd never know :P except when you go to something as WHM willingly! Can just say "I'm borrowing a friends gear!" How would they know if thats true or not? lol
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 14:07:10
This is true. I borrow a friend of mines gear all the time. It's fun playing with a Kraken.
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 14:08:53
I have a friend that'd kill for a KC, but I swap gear with that same friend all the time too, if I have something he needs for a specific event, its his, if I need something for anything as well, he lets me borrow it. Plus we have access to each others accounts should we need a specific job for something lol.
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 14:10:50
Me and Neph share a RDM mule for stuff. Duel boxing is fun and it's also fun to have a suicide mule just to test something out :D
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 14:12:03
Fenrir.Lilaan said: Me and Neph share a RDM mule for stuff. Duel boxing is fun and it's also fun to have a suicide mule just to test something out :D Lol, suicide mule, I just use the boyfriends account for that XD or my friends, but I always get his buffer back if I do something stupid on his char.
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 14:18:22
Yeah the RDM is about to delvl, whoops. But we gotta get him a buffer, he isn't cool without his Dalmy on.
Phoenix.Raigne
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By Phoenix.Raigne 2010-05-05 14:24:33
RDM... mule... with... Dalmy...?
Raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaage >:(
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 14:31:28
Fenrir.Lilaan said: Yeah the RDM is about to delvl, whoops. But we gotta get him a buffer, he isn't cool without his Dalmy on. Lol, go work on his buffer! Though that gear is still ugly to me >< I refuse to wear it.
Fenrir.Lilaan
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 14:33:51
Phoenix.Raigne said: RDM... mule... with... Dalmy...?
Raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaage >:(
I'm sorry :/ He actually has full duelist and full zenith. and crimson legs,feet,hands. don't hate me!
and seveneyes
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 14:36:09
>.> I'm gonna {Run away!} now, I foresee epic rage happening XD I want crimson legs -.-, last end-gameish LS I was in basically stopped doing Sky and I've been sitting on a Kirin pop for 2 months now =/
Fenrir.Lilaan
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 14:42:09
Asura.Shayka said: >.> I'm gonna {Run away!} now, I foresee epic rage happening XD I want crimson legs -.-, last end-gameish LS I was in basically stopped doing Sky and I've been sitting on a Kirin pop for 2 months now =/
Lol, my pet linkshell is sitting on a few kirin pops, we will be doing them soon. :)
Asura.Shayka
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 14:47:42
Fenrir.Lilaan said: Asura.Shayka said: >.> I'm gonna {Run away!} now, I foresee epic rage happening XD I want crimson legs -.-, last end-gameish LS I was in basically stopped doing Sky and I've been sitting on a Kirin pop for 2 months now =/
Lol, my pet linkshell is sitting on a few kirin pops, we will be doing them soon. :) ; ;! You suck lol, I want to do mines, plus my friend has 3 pops and another almost has a full set and my old LS just decided to basically say no more Sky, even though they fall under the special Monday guidelines -.-
Phoenix.Raigne
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By Phoenix.Raigne 2010-05-05 14:56:42
Rofl, no epic rage here Shay. I've learned it's just not worth it to rage over ***that other people's MULES have o<
Though, I do want WHands for my COR. That, I will reserve the right to rage over.
Shay, move over here to Phoenix or just run a shout group for Kirin.
And don't apologize, Lil ^^ I was kidding anyways ^_^a
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-05-05 14:59:33
Phoenix.Raigne said: Rofl, no epic rage here Shay. I've learned it's just not worth it to rage over ***that other people's MULES have o<
Though, I do want WHands for my COR. That, I will reserve the right to rage over.
Shay, move over here to Phoenix or just run a shout group for Kirin.
And don't apologize, Lil ^^ I was kidding anyways ^_^a Damnit, lol, I wanted to see an epic rage today ; ;, theres so much crap from Sky I need to get -.- and need to help Firsk get, though he has W-Hands, but hes working on SAM and probably going to want something for that.
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By Fenrir.Lilaan 2010-05-05 15:16:39
I'll rage.
effing MRI monday. I will have to be sedated? wtf?
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.
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