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FFXI LGBT Community, who are you?
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By Odin.Oldive 2010-04-20 23:22:42
Phoenix.Ailoki
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By Phoenix.Ailoki 2010-04-20 23:23:53
Yeeeeah... I'm sorry for posting that... I just realized how scary that is..
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By Odin.Oldive 2010-04-20 23:24:52
Phoenix.Ailoki said: Yeeeeah... I'm sorry for posting that... I just realized how scary that is..
I'm not easily scared. It's okay. ~ But just in case. If I have some freaky *** dream. You're getting punished, twin.
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By Phoenix.Ailoki 2010-04-20 23:25:36
Odin.Oldive said: Phoenix.Ailoki said: Yeeeeah... I'm sorry for posting that... I just realized how scary that is..
I'm not easily scared. It's okay. ~ But just in case. If I have some freaky *** dream. You're getting punished, twin.
x.x; I hate clowns... I have no idea why I posted that...
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:25:53
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
/breathes
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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By Alexander.Taruvoyant 2010-04-20 23:29:01
Gilgamesh.Mytoy said: OMG IM NEVER GOING TO BED D:
And Adam Lambert is kinda hot, what about him makes you want to puke? lol
Pretty much everything. Sorry, Myt. /stabstabstab
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:32:22
Alexander.Taruvoyant said:
Adam Lambert naturally makes me want to puke... >.<;;
And then stab my eyes and ears with an ice pick. That was *** terrible, I would rather listen to someone dying which tbh was pretty much the same thing, also, isn't he gay? I mean he's gay and he's got pussy all around him, he sucks and he seems like some *** sell out. He also doesnt look real, quick grab a chisel and chisel off all the make up on his face! lololol
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By Cerberus.Ustav 2010-04-20 23:36:19
Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Busy cybering Ustav, you want in? I want to cyber w/ you ruiz PRZ!
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:38:06
Cerberus.Ustav said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Busy cybering Ustav, you want in? I want to cyber w/ you ruiz PRZ! Oh baby ;D
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:43:01
Gilgamesh.Mytoy said: We can all have our opinions.
He can do that without the aid of auto-tune or anything. That's ridiculously awesome that he can hit those notes (perfectly). That's talent.
Yes, he's gay. I don't see what relevance that has? Also, if you're going to toss around words like "***", you should do it elsewhere. He seems like a sell out, sex sells, but if its 2 men he won't get anywhere, he would rather throw women all over himself, yes, sell out, and don't be butthurt, the word " ***" has been used around here and it wasn't meant in a derogatory manner so don't be butthurt, every other homosexual around here never said they had a problem with it. Oh and i'm not a *** basher, a good 30% of the social LS I run, is gay. I have gay friends IRL and such.
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By Cerberus.Ustav 2010-04-20 23:43:31
Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Cerberus.Ustav said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Busy cybering Ustav, you want in? I want to cyber w/ you ruiz PRZ! Oh baby ;D You get me so hot bbg ILU!
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:45:32
Cerberus.Ustav said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Cerberus.Ustav said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Busy cybering Ustav, you want in? I want to cyber w/ you ruiz PRZ! Oh baby ;D You get me so hot bbg ILU! ILU papi chulo ;D
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:46:06
Gilgamesh.Mytoy said: I'm not butthurt, and no I'm not. The others just don't say anything.
FYI he's openly gay and there's all kinds of pictures of him with guys. Oh I know he isn't in the closet, he made that real clear.
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:49:30
We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol...
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By Alexander.Taruvoyant 2010-04-20 23:51:53
I second the no f-word motion...
It's like nails on a chalkboard to me. No matter what manner it is used, it always has derogatory connotations.
Some homosexuals don't mind it, some do. I just think it's better left alone as to not upset anyone.
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By Phoenix.Ailoki 2010-04-20 23:52:01
Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol...
Perfectly understandable.
Though, try to see it from our view point. We're all open. Gay and proud. Call it what you want. But, that word just strikes us wrong. For some of us, that's all we heard when we came out. Yadda yadda, y'know?
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-20 23:53:20
Phoenix.Ailoki said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol...
Perfectly understandable.
Though, try to see it from our view point. We're all open. Gay and proud. Call it what you want. But, that word just strikes us wrong. For some of us, that's all we heard when we came out. Yadda yadda, y'know?
yea :(
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By Phoenix.Ailoki 2010-04-20 23:58:57
Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Phoenix.Ailoki said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol...
Perfectly understandable.
Though, try to see it from our view point. We're all open. Gay and proud. Call it what you want. But, that word just strikes us wrong. For some of us, that's all we heard when we came out. Yadda yadda, y'know?
yea :(
I'll give you a slight background story as to why I don't care for it. I came out in a Class D school. Not sure if you're familiar with that term, but that's a really small school. We had cows as our next door neighbor. My entire class was maybe 40 people. Total school was maybe 300, including staff. Everyone knew everyone.
One of my friends got injured during football practice. Tackled from both sides. I called him later that night to make sure he was ok. He was heavily drugged, so I didn't think he'd care, but I told him I liked him.
Next day at school, everyone was staring at me.
"***!"
"***!"
"Hey man, wanna suck my ***?"
Yeah. *GREAT* way to start 9th grade. Coming home from school asking your sister what a *** is and watching her cry.
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By Cerberus.Ustav 2010-04-20 23:59:01
Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol... Ruiz u don't have to apologize! I know your intentions were true and pure just like urself
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-21 00:01:52
Phoenix.Ailoki said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Phoenix.Ailoki said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol...
Perfectly understandable.
Though, try to see it from our view point. We're all open. Gay and proud. Call it what you want. But, that word just strikes us wrong. For some of us, that's all we heard when we came out. Yadda yadda, y'know?
yea :(
I'll give you a slight background story as to why I don't care for it. I came out in a Class D school. Not sure if you're familiar with that term, but that's a really small school. We had cows as our next door neighbor. My entire class was maybe 40 people. Total school was maybe 300, including staff. Everyone knew everyone.
One of my friends got injured during football practice. Tackled from both sides. I called him later that night to make sure he was ok. He was heavily drugged, so I didn't think he'd care, but I told him I liked him.
Next day at school, everyone was staring at me.
"***!"
"***!"
"Hey man, wanna suck my ***?"
Yeah. *GREAT* way to start 9th grade. Coming home from school asking your sister what a *** is and watching her cry. Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww I-I-I-I-I'm sorry! ; ;
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By Cerberus.Ustav 2010-04-21 00:02:29
Phoenix.Ailoki said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: Phoenix.Ailoki said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol...
Perfectly understandable.
Though, try to see it from our view point. We're all open. Gay and proud. Call it what you want. But, that word just strikes us wrong. For some of us, that's all we heard when we came out. Yadda yadda, y'know?
yea :(
I'll give you a slight background story as to why I don't care for it. I came out in a Class D school. Not sure if you're familiar with that term, but that's a really small school. We had cows as our next door neighbor. My entire class was maybe 40 people. Total school was maybe 300, including staff. Everyone knew everyone.
One of my friends got injured during football practice. Tackled from both sides. I called him later that night to make sure he was ok. He was heavily drugged, so I didn't think he'd care, but I told him I liked him.
Next day at school, everyone was staring at me.
"***!"
"***!"
"Hey man, wanna suck my ***?"
Yeah. *GREAT* way to start 9th grade. Coming home from school asking your sister what a *** is and watching her cry. Ouch.... =/
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By Odin.Oldive 2010-04-21 00:02:44
Yawn. I'm so sleepy. It's time I went to bed.
I believe 'tis time to drop this hostile subject. I am sure Ruiz is sorry. On a similar note, the word means the same thing to me as it does to you, Ruiz, that is to say: nothing. Perhaps it is because I do not have the same experience but that word, to me and all around me, has always been completely separate from the gay community - there was no relation.
On the other hand it has always been understandable to me that many are offended by it, much like "***" around myself, my friends, and my black family. Again, to me and those around me, the word has no relationship to its original intended target, but it still means something hurtful to others.
Oh and by the way. I mean to hold to my promise. If that clown shows up in a dream. You're getting punched, Ailoki.
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By Phoenix.Ailoki 2010-04-21 00:03:42
Look at it this way. And I mean no ill intentions when I say this, just trying to make a point : Could you get away with saying n***** around a bunch of African Americans?
Edit : Starred out for safety. Shows how much I hate that word, too. x.x;
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-21 00:04:42
Cerberus.Ustav said: Bismarck.Ruizutatakau said: We don't know each others circumstances so I just want to say really I didn't mean to offend, the people i'm around use it quite often, my gay friends use it more than my straight friends lol... Ruiz u don't have to apologize! I know your intentions were true and pure just like urself Stories like that made me sad though... (ノへ^)
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By Bismarck.Ruizutatakau 2010-04-21 00:05:55
I showed my friends that clown pic and they also threatened me. :|
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By Odin.Oldive 2010-04-21 00:07:14
Phoenix.Ailoki said: Look at it this way. And I mean no ill intentions when I say this, just trying to make a point : Could you get away with saying n***** around a bunch of African Americans?
Edit : Starred out for safety.
What TIMING!!! Going for the same thing at the same time.
And I also disagree Ustav, intentions aside this is definitely the kind of thing that requires apology, especially when the harm is decidedly unintentional.
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By Asura.Shayka 2010-04-21 00:15:30
No one invites me to play bingo on Skype D: Chatty ***, I see how it is! ; ;
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.
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