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The joys of being a man-bacon in a city where 1/3 the residents are gay !

Leaving my damn watch just is icing on the cake... ughhh he hasnt called or text me. I dont think I'm getting my watch back.

I'd imagine not, especially if he thought the sex was bad too :-p

Are you trying to say my diesel watch is payment for bad sex? LOL

Hi everyone, been awhile.^^;;

Got back to my dorm today finally and only just now have free time. x__x Could barely use the internet this past week because AT&T borked my parents' connection. D: Silly AT&T. >__>

Leaving Cleveland last Sunday was a niiiightmare. I had parked my car in front of my brother's friend's house, where it was safe for all of 1.5 days. Woke up Sunday, walked over there, no car ! D:D:

I was like shitting myself because Cleveland's got a pretty ridiculous crime rate, but it ended up just being some *** cop who decided to tow my car (out of the 20 cars parked both directions up and down the street ><) for funsies. Apparently the Cleveland Heights police dept. is notorious for towing people for no reason. :/ "Hey look an Alabama plate--this'll be a good one herp derp he'll be so desperate to get home he won't bother to contest the fine"

So I had to bum a ride off my brother's friends down to the police department on a Sunday afternoon and pay $125 to get my car back. ; ; Then drive 9 hours back to Nashville and another 3 hours to get home the next day. x__x I hate driving long distances alone lol

missu ;;

i woulda bitched at the police. towed for what. hate *** corrupt pigs.

"Parking violation" is their catch-all. :/

lol about the at&t quip but I understand your pain. Glad to have you back though Carrelo!

Well if it was your fault it was bad then yes! :-p jkjk

HELL YES! if the new is true. Britney Spears on X-Factor I can see Britney every week on TV now lol

Oh I knew about this. Someone told me on facebook, I wonder who.

Same thing happened to me a while back...the police said that I was blocking an entrance, but my car was at least 20 feet away from said entrance when I parked it. I asked to see a picture of my car blocking the entrance for proof, but they said there wasn't one and that it would be my word against theirs...I was so angry >:(

Ugghhh seriously, my brother and I both checked to make sure. There was room for a firetruck to go through where I was parked lol ; ;

note to self: never trust the police department when out of town, and gather PLENTY of photo evidence.

It could save your life D: !!
lol


Edit: the police I dealt with were very polite, I'll give them that at least lol

Wait your guys' police give parking tickets or tow cars? Thats a shocker. Our cops don't care about your parking. We have a specific city organization that handles parking, Parking Enforcement. They are douches in LA and will ticket u in seconds! Thank god for garage parking at my apartment! lol

It just sucked because I knew I wasnt wrong, but I also knew that their word wouldnt win against theirs. Also I could think of many other things I'd rather spend $125 on. Also $125 to tow my car less than a mile...I just don't get it.

On a side note, I had a stalker invite me out for coffee the other day. I asked how he knew me and got my number, so he told me that another teacher had given it to him because he'd told said teacher that he wanted to practice his English with a foreigner. So I talked to the teacher about it, and the teacher said he'd come with me in case the student had some problems communication. With that being said, I thought I'd be safe since the teacher was coming with me. Boy was I wrong. We went and had coffee and then went back to the students(he's not a student at my school btw) house. Just as I was about to leave, thinking everything had gone smoothly, the teacher says to me, "so Hau was really wanting to know if he could see your ***, and maybe touch it...How do you feel about that?" I was thinking "Bwahaha, who would have guessed that the teacher was in on this too!" Needless to say, it was really awkward. I tried to refuse for about 15 minutes, but the 21 year old was actually really cute, and I've been here for about 7 months now without too much action happening, so I gave in >.>. Don't judge me! Anyways, I had fun, but I don't really like fooling around with someone that I work with, but I'm pretty sure that this might be some kind of package deal. It's funny how something exciting/good finally happens but there're strings attached. Do you guys think I should just back out of the situation and save myself some drama, or continue with the fun? Any advice would be appreciated haha!

I don't know exactly how things are there, but I know at least in China people perceive things like that very differently than your average westerner. :o

The whole casual approach to sex is kind of new there, and a lot of people tend to attach meaning to things that you personally might not have taken very seriously.

In the end it's really about what you feel like you wanna do, but that's kinda shady that the other teacher is like in on it and stuff. :o Don't do anything that might mess up your job !!

^agreed

new whoopi pic!

I'm not the best person to give advice. I had a "walk of shame" this morning lol

If theres a chance it can interfere with your profession then yes call it off. Otherwise sex is sex.

Yeah, that's my biggest concern. That's why I generally try to stay away from people I work with so that I can avoid bringing any possible drama into my work place. On top of that(no pun intended), I'm not really into being with two people at the same time...it just never has been my cup of tea(I have a difficult time dividing my attention up evenly). Anyways, I wouldn't mind seeing what could come from the guy that's closer to my age, but yeah, I really don't want the teacher there. Something tells me I'm just going to have to let this one go.

P.S. For some reason I was really turned on when I was fooling around with this guy and trying to help him with his pronunciation at the same time....you know, like getting closer and closer to his ear while saying the word and having him repeat it...is that weird? haha

lol I bet he learned it pretty well at least !

Perhaps you have a thing for roleplaying?? Maybe add a Catholic school boy uniform into the mix. A ruler? JK JK JK


Well sex is something that you should both be comfterble with. Straight out say. I'm not into 3-ways if you want to continue this relationship. its 1on1. On the other note. Gay men are gossip queens, doesnt matter where you are in the world. Your private life will be gossiped faster than a TMZ news story.

While we're on the topic...
I discovered the man thread on BG...

I don't read BG, do tell !

OMG Irohoro i love you. THe thread is amazing! lol. i love the hetero male comments in the beginning lol i cant stop laughing

So, quick question. Do any of you people use skype? I usually try to find a cafe with internet connection in the mornings and it'd be nice to have some people to chat with :) My skype name is Dryas85 or you can look me up using my name (Bryson Mayes)

oh you must be looking at the original one, I'm in on the second one.

and you should check it out, be advised it's very nsfw though =D

im on the second one. but if u go to page 1 the comments are hilarious!