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 Carbuncle.Asymptotic
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By Carbuncle.Asymptotic 2011-10-07 16:47:02
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My mom/stepdad tried to get me to sleep with a hooker to turn me straight.

Wow... that is just incredible...

It makes an awesome story, though.
I'm a really good storyteller IRL, so when I tell the whole thing with details and all people are just like O M G M I N D B L O W N.
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By Alexander.Carrelo 2011-10-07 21:06:53
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Asura.Ina said: »
Odin.Liela said: »
Cowardly, lying, little ***.
Who are you talking about... because thats deffinetly not you XD Not wanting to be disowned by your parents doesn't make you a coward and no reason to beat yourself up.
Ina is right. There is often no point in challenging certain people when it comes to religion; all it does is cause drama for everyone involved. Your choice to remain silent is perfectly valid - especially because you are living your life according to your own wishes and beliefs.

This discussion is especially relevant to the LGBT community. There are many among us who feel that the number one priority in life is to be 100% open about our sexual orientations - to the extent of telling everyone and anyone. Although I agree that honesty (especially self-honesty) is crucially important to emotional and psychological health, sometimes it just goes too far. There are people who look down on others for simply refusing to go around spreading drama; these same people are the ones who say things like "you're not gay enough" or "people are only bi for attention," demanding that all gay people (or all lesbians, all bisexuals, etc.) act a certain way. It's kind of disgusting.

For me, coming out meant really getting to know myself. I act the way I want, in accordance with my feelings about who I am. I tell people I'm gay if I freakin' feel like it. Don't think I act gay enough ? Tough ***, I probably like *** just as much as (if not more than) you. :P

tl;dr live your own life and don't let other people make you feel bad. ;D
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By Bismarck.Reyke 2011-10-08 02:33:21
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Pretty much what Carrelo said I find it funny how the LGBT comunity is supposed to be open and accepting yet you have some of those (insert naughty words here) that feel like if they cant read you like a stereotypical book then somethings wrong. I hate that whole you look to gay or not gay enough thing its like uh gay means you like the same sex not what shirt your wearing.
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By Asura.Ina 2011-10-08 14:23:03
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Judging people by something like how they dress or their look is always a bad idea... like this guy that takes the same train car as me was wearing a light pink shirt the other week but that doesn't make him gay (I wish). My one friend in high school was another good example as she always dressed hard core goth to the point where I knew a couple other people who admitted that she terrified them... In reality there was nothing scary about her (unless you pissed her off then she would probably destroy you) and was one of the more down to earth people I've ever met.

Bahamut.Aeronis said: »
People think so (*'-')



But really I'm a bad kid.
It's always the innocent looking ones you have to watch out for... everyone always thinks I'm innocent when they meet me because I'm kinda shy but once I get to know them a bit a few dirty comments later they have no idea who I am anymore XD
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-10-08 14:32:33
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-10-08 14:49:34
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watching 'our america with lisa ling: pray the gay away?' its pretty sickening. but right now theyre on a part about a summer camp just for gay christians.

one of the guys there said that his church kicked him out because he was 'too flamboyant'.

@liela- i havent told my mom about my agnosticism, i think that'd be harder to tell than my homosexuality
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By Bismarck.Soranika 2011-10-08 15:01:56
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Pray the gay away? =\ The hell.
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-10-08 17:48:12
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('''\ (´・ ω ・`) /''')
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By Carbuncle.Asymptotic 2011-10-08 17:50:00
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Admittedly, Pray the Gay Away has a nice ring to it.
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By Bismarck.Gaspee 2011-10-08 17:59:54
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Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
Admittedly, Pray the Gay Away has a nice ring to it.

Lol, it does.
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By Carbuncle.Hanbok 2011-10-08 21:31:28
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JAGERMEISTER!!!!! :D!!!!
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By Carbuncle.Hanbok 2011-10-08 21:52:31
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@- Odin.Liela

It was a while before I told my parents, I didn't know how they would react, I lived in an apartment building owned by my father, cheeeaaaap rent, like $500mo for 2br, huge place.
I wasn't in a rush because it was none of their damned Odinsbustersword business. Far as they knew I had a room mate whom they never got to meet. When they did my father was disappointed hoping for grandkids, moms was cool as cool.

That was my parents, non religious folk, If you ever feel the need to come out to them I hope it all goes well for you. :3
You didn't ask my opinion but DAMNIT I wanted to post! D:
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By Asura.Ina 2011-10-09 11:11:38
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She didn't ask for any of our opinions but she got em anyways :P
Everyone having a good weekend so far?

Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
Bismarck.Gaspee said: »
Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
My mom/stepdad tried to get me to sleep with a hooker to turn me straight.

Wow... that is just incredible...

It makes an awesome story, though.
I'm a really good storyteller IRL, so when I tell the whole thing with details and all people are just like O M G M I N D B L O W N.
I'm kinda curious, is it something they tried to talk you into or did you just kinda come home and find some unknown woman on your doorstep?
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By Bahamut.Aeronis 2011-10-09 11:31:17
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lol, so I'm doing the 95 LB and his assistant he called Chumbawumba made me think of this:

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By Asura.Ina 2011-10-09 12:07:17
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I remembered her as the pickle lady who would never take my stone way back when I started the game >.> That and the tarus had the same models as 2 of my LS mates who are a couple so I was all omg [name] and [name 2] are the cap breakers.
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By Asura.Selennia 2011-10-09 21:28:55
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"Kick the straight, out the gate!" Has an equally nice ring to it.
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-10-10 00:52:10
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my weekends still going, gogo fall break!
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By Carbuncle.Asymptotic 2011-10-10 01:40:30
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Asura.Ina said: »
She didn't ask for any of our opinions but she got em anyways :P
Everyone having a good weekend so far?

Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
Bismarck.Gaspee said: »
Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
My mom/stepdad tried to get me to sleep with a hooker to turn me straight.

Wow... that is just incredible...

It makes an awesome story, though.
I'm a really good storyteller IRL, so when I tell the whole thing with details and all people are just like O M G M I N D B L O W N.
I'm kinda curious, is it something they tried to talk you into or did you just kinda come home and find some unknown woman on your doorstep?

My stepdad told me we were going out to lunch. Instead of a restaurant, we pulled up to our country club. I'm like OK, there's a restaurant on the golf course so maybe we're going there.

Instead of that though, we pulled up to the hotel part of the country club, and there was this slutty woman wearing what was obviously a blonde wig aannnd yeaah...
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By Carbuncle.Avon 2011-10-10 01:48:53
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Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
Asura.Ina said: »
She didn't ask for any of our opinions but she got em anyways :P
Everyone having a good weekend so far?

Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
Bismarck.Gaspee said: »
Carbuncle.Asymptotic said: »
My mom/stepdad tried to get me to sleep with a hooker to turn me straight.

Wow... that is just incredible...

It makes an awesome story, though.
I'm a really good storyteller IRL, so when I tell the whole thing with details and all people are just like O M G M I N D B L O W N.
I'm kinda curious, is it something they tried to talk you into or did you just kinda come home and find some unknown woman on your doorstep?

My stepdad told me we were going out to lunch. Instead of a restaurant, we pulled up to our country club. I'm like OK, there's a restaurant on the golf course so maybe we're going there.

Instead of that though, we pulled up to the hotel part of the country club, and there was this slutty woman wearing what was obviously a blonde wig aannnd yeaah...

Go on.
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By Carbuncle.Asymptotic 2011-10-10 01:50:01
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Aku you know the rest of this story :P
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By Carbuncle.Avon 2011-10-10 01:51:18
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*popcorn* Lies. Tell the story.
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By Carbuncle.Hanbok 2011-10-10 02:02:13
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::brings teh soda and monocles:: Hrm Hrm, Rubble Rubble, do go on
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By Carbuncle.Avon 2011-10-10 02:05:38
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Carbuncle.Hanbok said: »
::brings teh soda and monocles:: Hrm Hrm, Rubble Rubble, do go on
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Come on, Asym! Tell the story~
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By Carbuncle.Asymptotic 2011-10-10 04:24:19
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OK FINE.

So, he takes me to a hotel room with this prostitute and leaves me there.

She gets all up on me and stuff and tries to give me a lapdance and I'm like, "So yeah, I'm gay."

And she says, "Oh. Well this isn't going to work." I told her that I still wanted her to get her money, so we told my stepdad that we had sex.

So he told me to go wait in the car.

And I did. For 45 minutes.

Then they came out together...

Wonder what happened there?
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By Carbuncle.Avon 2011-10-10 04:30:37
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My popcorn went stale.
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By Carbuncle.Asymptotic 2011-10-10 04:51:35
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You let me die :(
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By Carbuncle.Avon 2011-10-10 05:03:23
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I went to get fresh popcorn~
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By Asura.Citag 2011-10-10 13:57:48
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Good almost-afternoon
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2011-10-10 13:58:37
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Citag! Words with friends!
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