White Gays Politically Incorrect

You are not a black woman, and you do not get to claim either blackness or womanhood. There is a clear line between appreciation and appropriation

Nothing about whiteness will get a white person in trouble the way blackness can get a black person shot down in his tracks. These are just facts. It’s not entirely the fault of white people. It’s not as if you can help being born white in America, any more than I can help being born black in America.

The truth is that America is a country that operates on systems of racism in which we all participate, whether consciously or unconsciously, to our benefit or to our detriment, and that system allows white people to succeed. This system also creates barriers so that minorities, such as black people, have a much harder time being able to do things like vote and get houses and not have to deal with racists and stuff. You know. Casual.

But while you’re gasping at the heat and the steam of the strong truth tea I just spilled,what’s even worse about all of this, if you thought things could get even crappier, is the fact that all of this is exponentially worse for black women. A culture of racism is bad enough, but pairing it with patriarchal structures that intend to undermine women’s advancement is like double-fisting bleach and acid rain.

At the end of the day, if you are a white male, gay or not, you retain so much privilege. What is extremely unfairly denied you because of your sexuality could float back to you, if no one knew that you preferred the romantic and sexual company of men over women. (You know what I’m talking about. Those “anonymous” torsos on Grindr, Jack’d and Adam4Adam, show very familiar heterosexual faces to the public.) The difference is that the black women with whom you think you align so well, whose language you use and stereotypical mannerisms you adopt, cannot hide their blackness and womanhood to protect themselves the way that you can hide your homosexuality. We have no place to hide, or means to do it even if we desired them.

In all of the ways that your gender and race give you so much, in those exact same ways, our gender and race work against our prosperity. To claim that you’re a minority woman just for the sake of laughs, and to say that the things allowed her or the things enjoyed by her are done better by you isn’t cute or funny. First of all, it’s aggravating as hell. Second, it’s damaging and perpetuating of yet another set of aggressions against us.

All of this being said, you should not have to stop liking the things you like. This is not an attempt to try to suck the fun out of your life. Appreciating a culture and appropriating one are very, very different things, with a much thicker line than some people think, if you use all of the three seconds it takes to be considerate before you open your mouth. If you love some of the same things that some black women love, by all means, you and your black girlfriends go ahead and rock the hell out. Regardless of what our privileges and lack of privileges are, regardless of the laws and rhetoric that have attempted to divide us, we are equal, even though we aren’t the same, and that is okay. Claiming our identity for what’s sweet without ever having to taste its sour is not. Breathing fire behind ugly stereotypes that reduce black females to loud caricatures for you to emulate isn’t, either.

So, you aren’t a strong black woman, or a ghetto girl, or any of that other foolery that some of you with trash Vine accounts try to be. It’s okay. You don’t have to be. No one asked you to be. You weren’t ever meant to be. What you can be, however, is part of the solution.

Check your privilege. Try to strengthen the people around you.

Nothing about whiteness will get a white person in trouble the way blackness can get a black person shot down in his tracks

Im getting tired of these threads and im getting tired of baconwrap posting them.

What I read was just ridiculous.

It's a two-way street. Because there are quite a few places where a person's 'whiteness' would get them blasted ASAP!

So... PCness is a good thing now? I'm confused.

"I don't find this offensive therefore no one else should." Good for you. You don't have to deal with similar situations. Have some cake to go with your privilege.

I dunno is it a good thing?

You seem to think it is in this instance.

political correctness is out of control and needs to be curtailed

Haha they don't know which side to take because both are protected victim class's. One side is black women, which is two protected class's, but the other is member of LGBT. LGBT claim to be even more discriminated against so possibly they could clime a higher class status of victim hood. But they are also white, which is bad and takes away some of their victim status.

The question of which is right boils down to does the white LGBT member have enough protected victim status after deducting the penalty for whiteness then the black women?

That moronic post speaks more about your thought processes than mine.

How is it moronic? He's absolutely right. This is irony at its best. Political correctness out of control.

Im getting tired of these threads and im getting tired of baconwrap posting them.

What I read was just ridiculous.

I'm just going to sit over here and wait for the inevitable gay fascism.