Bahamut.Baconwrap said:
»He's spot on about the fringe comment. As a gay man who delt with more discrimination than younger LGBT I see this stuff in the news and I'm appalled.
You clearly learned nothing from it, since you see nothing wrong with discrimination against others. And I like the automatic assumption you've faced more than we have. So I guess you're fully aware of the physical scars I bare and the friends I have lost due to transphobic ***, and half-assed support from your generation and community, among other things.
Seriously, stop throwing around the LGBT acronym when you don't know about anything beyond the "G". We're only a united front if we can respect each other, and if you advocate for the usage of slurs against another segment, then you're not doing that.
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Seriously these LGBT who have never faced discrimination, because other/older LGBT handed them civil/social equality on a silver platter, need to shut the *** up already.
I'm going to have to stop you here. The older generation didn't hand us (the trans community) ***. They ignored us, pushed us aside, had protections for us removed from anti-discrimination legislation (ENDA, SONDA) so they could get theirs, and even erased us from the history from a movement we *** started. Because of that, there is a huge chasm between the inequality transgender people face, and that gays and lesbians face. Our fight is far from over, so step out of our way and get back to your party in WeHo.
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We've come a long way, but attempting to police the public is ridiculous. What's more appalling is policing figures who've done more for the community than most individuals.
Which, we should do. If someone is doing something harmful, make them aware of it and try and educate them on why that's not okay. Otherwise whatever they've done is eventually going to be overshadowed by their miss-steps.
RuPaul has not done a thing for the trans community, besides telling people slurs that are used against us are an okay thing to do, and telling us to shut up.
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Darling, he's one of the most famous gays. He is receiving large amounts of media coverage. The only people who aren't listening to them are the LGBT in butt-*** middle America. The rest of us in modern-civilization listen to him.
Modern civilization in 1995, maybe. He's famous, but when he says things like this, it shows how out of step he is with the modern LGBT rights movement. And don't patronize me by calling me "darling.".
Unless you want to say that heterosexuals not referring to gay men as f****ts is "too PC", because that's the route you're advocating.
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My hetero friends use the word f#g, queen, gurl all the time and so do my transgender and lesbian friends. I don't care because I know where it's coming from. I know it's not being used in a derogatory manner.
Friends being the operative word here. I don't mean friends, I mean
everyone. Because that's what you and RuPaul are advocating for when you say this. If RuPaul gets to say that word is okay, then it becomes okay for those in the majority outside of every minority to declare what terminology is and is not okay. So yes, with this logic, straights can use the f-word, and whites can use every racial slur under the sun without impunity.
This is exactly why the majority do NOT call the shots when it comes to what offends a minority group. RuPaul is cisgender, and thus NOT a part the minority that this word is used to debase and defame as he says there is nothing wrong with this word. The word may have been okay 30-something years ago, but it's 2014, and this has been offensive for over a decade.
I like that you completely ignore the hypocrisy in RuPaul telling trans people to lighten up, but it's okay for him to call out Amanda Bynes for using an anti-gay slur, regardless of her intent. Again, he's an immature hypocrite.
In the simplest form of this whole issue, we said "Stop it, that hurts." His response is to keep doing it. Sounds like a bully to me, definitely not an ally.