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By Fumiku 2014-02-26 05:05:28
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http://www.nbcnews.com/business/travel/delta-apologizes-telling-breastfeeding-mom-cover-n37561

Basically she was told to cover the titties up to give the kid some juice. Thoughts?
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By Shiva.Onorgul 2014-02-26 05:16:02
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This is news? She asked, they gave an immediate response, she pressed, they actually checked the manual, changed their reply, and admitted fault. Seems fairly cut-and-dried.

Honestly, speaking for myself, I don't see why people even have to ask. The unpleasant and somewhat nauseating aspect of breastfeeding is not that someone's overlarge *** are slightly exposed. It's that horrible suckling noise that babies make that I wish could be covered up. Since it can't be, and wrapping the kid in a blanket does not meaningfully change it, who cares?

Maybe I'm just more audio-sensitive, though. I want to strangle little kids who haven't grasped the concept of closing their damned mouths while chewing because of the disgusting noises that result.
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By Fumiku 2014-02-26 05:26:13
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Hmmm.Interesting,I never thought about the audio side of the argument
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By Asura.Cherisa 2014-02-26 07:15:52
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By Carbuncle.Lynxblade 2014-02-26 07:33:07
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whoo thread seems pretty open/shut, lets make some breastfeeding jokes!
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-02-26 07:40:12
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Wait until some hippie mothers get into this thread.

Frankly, I don't give a damn about the whole topic, but some people get REALLY into it and REALLY upset about it.

Breastfeeding -- I found out through innocently asking, "who cares?" once -- is a HUUUUGEE issue to some people.
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By Jetackuu 2014-02-26 08:03:49
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2014-02-26 08:12:01
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Fumiku said: »
http://www.nbcnews.com/business/travel/delta-apologizes-telling-breastfeeding-mom-cover-n37561

Basically she was told to cover the titties up to give the kid some juice. Thoughts?

Cut and dry. The incident they cited at the end of the article though...

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But breastfeeding on planes is a murkier area. A woman sued three airlines after she was kicked off a flight in 2006 because she wouldn't cover herself with a blanket while nursing. She reached a settlement in 2012.

...made me roll my eyes. I'd kind of like to know the details of that. LOL!
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By Bahamut.Kara 2014-02-26 08:23:59
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
I'd kind of like to know the details of that. LOL!

article before the settlement
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Gillette filed a complaint with the Vermont Human Rights Commission, claiming that she was sitting discreetly by the window with her husband in the aisle seat when a flight attendant gave her a blanket. After Gillette declined the blanket, she was escorted off the plane.

Bismarck.Ramyrez said: »
Wait until some hippie mothers get into this thread.

Frankly, I don't give a damn about the whole topic, but some people get REALLY into it and REALLY upset about it.

Breastfeeding -- I found out through innocently asking, "who cares?" once -- is a HUUUUGEE issue to some people.
Most people get upset when they are doing something legal and get told to stop, get kicked out of places, or harassed (in some cases arrested, doesn't happen much anymore).
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By Ragnarok.Ashman 2014-02-26 08:24:43
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Shiva.Onorgul said: »
This is news? She asked, they gave an immediate response, she pressed, they actually checked the manual, changed their reply, and admitted fault. Seems fairly cut-and-dried.

Honestly, speaking for myself, I don't see why people even have to ask. The unpleasant and somewhat nauseating aspect of breastfeeding is not that someone's overlarge *** are slightly exposed. It's that horrible suckling noise that babies make that I wish could be covered up. Since it can't be, and wrapping the kid in a blanket does not meaningfully change it, who cares?

Maybe I'm just more audio-sensitive, though. I want to strangle little kids who haven't grasped the concept of closing their damned mouths while chewing because of the disgusting noises that result.

I LOVE breasts. You'll rarely find me making a case against them.

However, the process of breastfeeding (while probably beautiful to the mother) is an obnoxious amount of racket and not particularly something that's enjoyable to see. As a connoisseur of breast: a lactating pregnant breast is very near the bottom of my list.

Is the baby going to starve in the 5 mins before you can get to somewhere more private??

completelyreasonablesuggestion said:
She was taken aback when Delta replied she would not be allowed to nurse without a cover and suggested pumping ahead of the flight and bringing the breast milk on board with her.

If i get inebriated, I know i can't operate a moving vehicle.
My parents got a babysitter to go to dinner. This chick is so entitled she can't be *** to throw a blanket over her shoulder? If she can't get her baby to feed with a cover, or from a bottle: i cannot WAIT will she has to break the baby of the "come get me at 2 am" phase
or thumb sucking
or potty training


f this b in her stupid ear.

I'm gonna start auto-felating in public. It's only nature, right? I'd cover-up, or just jack off, but my bits don't really like to do that.
I can't believe Delta wants me to close the door if i ***on the plane!?! What an inconvenience to my person! I mean, *** the other 99 people on the plane, we're talking about my PERSONAL rights.

I hope the plane crashes.
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By fonewear 2014-02-26 08:29:05
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Breastfeeding is one of my favorite hobbies.
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By Asura.Ivykyori 2014-02-26 08:36:54
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As a mother, I can see why she'd be mad. If my kid is hungry, a little titty isn't gonna kill anyone. Don't like? That's the gift of heads, they can turn away. Some people just don't want to turn to bottles so soon. However, covering up would have just been better for everyone's sanity in this case. At least that's what I'd do; planes get cold man. Don't need my ta-tas freezing over.

Babies get hungry. Would you rather hear a baby cry for 10 minutes while mom finds a private spot (on a plane, nonetheless, and what if the bathroom is occupied?)? I have a 2.5 year old who throws fits for that long and it drives me up a *** wall.

Food for thought.
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-02-26 08:39:58
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Just another example of "It's ok to infringe your rights as a citizen until it's your right being infringed."

Those who argue against breastfeeding in public wouldn't like any of their indecent acts being demonized, and those who are for breastfeeding in public like to demonize other crude acts in public.
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By Ragnarok.Yatenkou 2014-02-26 08:42:06
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If the baby is hungry, cover your breast up and nurse. It is not that hard, if you have to nurse, cover yourself with like the baby's blanket or something.
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By Odin.Jassik 2014-02-26 08:43:30
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Bahamut.Kara said: »
Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
I'd kind of like to know the details of that. LOL!

article before the settlement
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Gillette filed a complaint with the Vermont Human Rights Commission, claiming that she was sitting discreetly by the window with her husband in the aisle seat when a flight attendant gave her a blanket. After Gillette declined the blanket, she was escorted off the plane.

Bismarck.Ramyrez said: »
Wait until some hippie mothers get into this thread.

Frankly, I don't give a damn about the whole topic, but some people get REALLY into it and REALLY upset about it.

Breastfeeding -- I found out through innocently asking, "who cares?" once -- is a HUUUUGEE issue to some people.
Most people get upset when they are doing something legal and get told to stop, get kicked out of places, or harassed (in some cases arrested, doesn't happen much anymore).

22 month old daughter...
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-02-26 08:43:32
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Bahamut.Kara said: »
Bismarck.Ramyrez said: »
Wait until some hippie mothers get into this thread. Frankly, I don't give a damn about the whole topic, but some people get REALLY into it and REALLY upset about it. Breastfeeding -- I found out through innocently asking, "who cares?" once -- is a HUUUUGEE issue to some people.
Most people get upset when they are doing something legal and get told to stop, get kicked out of places, or harassed (in some cases arrested, doesn't happen much anymore).

Well, no. I meant all aspects of breast feeding. Like, some people are so zealous about it that if they see a woman bottle feeding her child in public, they will go up to that woman and harass here about it.

Which is, in fact, the breastfeeder harassing, not being the harassed.
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By Bahamut.Kara 2014-02-26 08:44:22
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Ragnarok.Ashman said: »

completelyreasonablesuggestion said:
She was taken aback when Delta replied she would not be allowed to nurse without a cover and suggested pumping ahead of the flight and bringing the breast milk on board with her.

If i get inebriated, I know i can't operate a moving vehicle.
My parents got a babysitter to go to dinner. This chick is so entitled she can't be *** to throw a blanket over her shoulder? If she can't get her baby to feed with a cover, or from a bottle: i cannot WAIT will she has to break the baby of the "come get me at 2 am" phase
or thumb sucking
or potty training


f this b in her stupid ear.

I'm gonna start auto-felating in public. It's only nature, right? I'd cover-up, or just jack off, but my bits don't really like to do that.
I can't believe Delta wants me to close the door if i ***on the plane!?! What an inconvenience to my person! I mean, *** the other 99 people on the plane, we're talking about my PERSONAL rights.

I hope the plane crashes.

Wow. So much hate in this post.

Asura.Kingnobody said: »
Just another example of "It's ok to infringe your rights as a citizen until it's your right being infringed."

Those who argue against breastfeeding in public wouldn't like any of their indecent acts being demonized, and those who are for breastfeeding in public like to demonize other crude acts in public.

Breastfeeding is a crude act? On par with what indecent acts?
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-02-26 08:45:09
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Asura.Ivykyori said: »
As a mother, I can see why she'd be mad. If my kid is hungry, a little titty isn't gonna kill anyone. Don't like? That's the gift of heads, they can turn away. Some people just don't want to turn to bottles so soon. However, covering up would have just been better for everyone's sanity in this case. At least that's what I'd do; planes get cold man. Don't need my ta-tas freezing over. Babies get hungry. Would you rather hear a baby cry for 10 minutes while mom finds a private spot (on a plane, nonetheless, and what if the bathroom is occupied?)? I have a 2.5 year old who throws fits for that long and it drives me up a *** wall. Food for thought.

Don't take the child on the plane.

That easy.
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By Bahamut.Kara 2014-02-26 08:45:38
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Bismarck.Ramyrez said: »
Well, no. I meant all aspects of breast feeding. Like, some people are so zealous about it that if they see a woman bottle feeding her child in public, they will go up to that woman and harass here about it.

Which is, in fact, the breastfeeder harassing, not being the harassed.
And that is a serious problem. Wingnuts on both sides.
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By Jetackuu 2014-02-26 08:51:07
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For once I'll find myself in disagreement with Kara, it makes me sad.

I'm not necessarily against public breast feeding, just use some damn discretion, and most do. People from both sides have taken it too far and it's become a debacle.
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-02-26 08:51:41
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Bahamut.Kara said: »
Breastfeeding is a crude act? On par with what indecent acts?
I was referring to the crude acts that people who demonize breastfeeding commit.

Please don't infer anything in that comment when there is nothing to infer.

More damage has been done with people smoking in a public area than mothers breastfeeding their kids.
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By Bahamut.Kara 2014-02-26 08:52:39
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Odin.Jassik said: »
22 month old daughter...
WHO recommendation on breastfeeding
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By Bahamut.Kara 2014-02-26 08:54:01
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Jetackuu said: »
For once I'll find myself in disagreement with Kara, it makes me sad.

I'm not necessarily against public breast feeding, just use some damn discretion, and most do. People from both sides have taken it too far and it's become a debacle.
Considering I haven't actually given an opinion, that's interesting.

Asura.Kingnobody said: »
I was referring to the crude acts that people who demonize breastfeeding commit.

Please don't infer anything in that comment when there is nothing to infer.

More damage has been done with people smoking in a public area than mothers breastfeeding their kids.
Ok.
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By Jetackuu 2014-02-26 08:55:41
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Bahamut.Kara said: »
Considering I haven't actually given an opinion, that's interesting.
Was inferring from a few lines, sorry.
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By Jetackuu 2014-02-26 08:56:11
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public smoking should be banned, along with smoking with children in the car, or house.
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By fonewear 2014-02-26 09:01:07
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How do you know the baby isn't a pervert and that isn't his mother ? Breastfeeding conspiracy going on. Random baby has kinky fetish for milk.
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-02-26 09:02:58
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On the subject of public breastfeeding itself, I really don't care.

My concern is really for the mother and child, as you know there are weirdos out there who would just stare with a weird slack-jawed grin.
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By Asura.Ivykyori 2014-02-26 09:03:06
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Bismarck.Ramyrez said: »
Asura.Ivykyori said: »
As a mother, I can see why she'd be mad. If my kid is hungry, a little titty isn't gonna kill anyone. Don't like? That's the gift of heads, they can turn away. Some people just don't want to turn to bottles so soon. However, covering up would have just been better for everyone's sanity in this case. At least that's what I'd do; planes get cold man. Don't need my ta-tas freezing over. Babies get hungry. Would you rather hear a baby cry for 10 minutes while mom finds a private spot (on a plane, nonetheless, and what if the bathroom is occupied?)? I have a 2.5 year old who throws fits for that long and it drives me up a *** wall. Food for thought.

Don't take the child on the plane.

That easy.

Easier said than done.

I had to move with my daughter half across the country last year. Driving was not an option, and even if it was, with a kid who was barely 2 at the time, it would be a lot more stressful than just taking a plane. In my case, she had already kicked the bottle habit, but she was still cranky being on a plane for 5 hours. Doubling (or even tripling) the travel time wouldn't help matters.

Point is, less people would be "inconvenienced" by crying babies and exposed ta-tas, but traveling with a young child is stressful regardless of travel conditions.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2014-02-26 09:03:13
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Ragnarok.Ashman said: »
completelyreasonablesuggestion said:
She was taken aback when Delta replied she would not be allowed to nurse without a cover and suggested pumping ahead of the flight and bringing the breast milk on board with her.

If i get inebriated, I know i can't operate a moving vehicle.
My parents got a babysitter to go to dinner. This chick is so entitled she can't be *** to throw a blanket over her shoulder? If she can't get her baby to feed with a cover, or from a bottle: i cannot WAIT will she has to break the baby of the "come get me at 2 am" phase
or thumb sucking
or potty training


f this b in her stupid ear.

I'm gonna start auto-felating in public. It's only nature, right? I'd cover-up, or just jack off, but my bits don't really like to do that.
I can't believe Delta wants me to close the door if i ***on the plane!?! What an inconvenience to my person! I mean, *** the other 99 people on the plane, we're talking about my PERSONAL rights.

I hope the plane crashes.

While I agree with you that she should have been conscientious enough to use the blanket when offered, the bolded is kind of a ***comparison seeing as though that is purely sexual. Most guys should be able to separate breasts in a sexual context from breasts in the anatomical/functional context by the time they reach adulthood.

Asura.Ivykyori said: »
Babies get hungry. Would you rather hear a baby cry for 10 minutes while mom finds a private spot (on a plane, nonetheless, and what if the bathroom is occupied?)

I'd be apprehensive about using an in-flight bathroom simply because of the possibility of hitting some rough turbulence.
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