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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-06-08 15:26:31
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No.

Also Zahrah, Kara, Leneth, Chanti, etc..
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Bahamut.Kara said: »
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The policy regarding consent from parties involved to disclose PM's has me scratching my head a bit in general. /shrugs.
Always struck me as a privacy thing, I don't know or don't remember when it started.
PM's between people seems like a conversation to me. If you want that conversation private, you need to explicitly state that....just like in a verbal conversation.

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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Friends share, I think no one should be surprised from that.
That's also why lies eventually come around.

People gossip talk in RL and on a message board those conversations will find a way to multiple ears/eyes. Just with written messages there *shouldn't* be as much "telephone" issue.

If the policy of the site is that they are assumed private, at least from the context of posting them on the public forum, then I guess that'll be the norm. But, I definitely agree, unless you state that it is private, you should assume that the information can and will be shared with other posters.

I sure as heck wouldn't put something in a PM that I'm uncomfortable having shared publicly.
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-06-08 15:28:01
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
No.

Also Zahrah, Kara, Leneth, Chanti, etc..
I thought Leneth was a guy.

...Kali, Yatenkou...
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-06-08 15:29:02
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Kali never posts in p&r, Yatenkou only to rage occasionally.
 
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-06-08 15:30:41
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Kali never posts in p&r
Yet more evidence of her sound judgement.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-06-08 15:30:59
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
No.

Also Zahrah, Kara, Leneth, Chanti, etc..

Yomi, Leila, Headstrong, Kali, a couple of TToFers, I think?

There's a mix. Overall, I think AH provides a more egalitarian approach.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-06-08 15:32:04
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You learn a lot actually from being involved in such debates. Sure it's a shitstorm, but still has value.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-06-08 15:33:32
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Schutz! Forgot old, Shutzy-poo!
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By Odin.Jassik 2015-06-08 15:34:02
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
couple of TToFers

There's a few of them, but they don't generally post in P&R.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-06-08 15:34:12
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Well that's why I just said etc, ain't nobody got time to list every poster.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-06-08 15:34:59
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Odin.Jassik said: »
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couple of TToFers

There's a few of them, but they don't generally post in P&R.

Smarter ladies than us, then! LOL! :P
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By Odin.Jassik 2015-06-08 15:35:44
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Odin.Jassik said: »
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couple of TToFers

There's a few of them, but they don't generally post in P&R.

Smarter ladies than us, then! LOL! :P

I wouldn't say smarter, but they do show better judgement. :P
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By Ragnarok.Hevans 2015-06-08 15:36:16
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mmm smart ladies
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2015-06-08 15:38:17
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Odin.Jassik said: »
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couple of TToFers

There's a few of them, but they don't generally post in P&R.

Smarter ladies than us, then! LOL! :P

I wouldn't say smarter, but they do show better judgement. :P

Well, one day, some of the content of those threads could become the catalyst of the collective bitchhammer!!! BUM BUM BUM!

Applebottoms! Forgot AB. She runs in and out.
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By Bahamut.Milamber 2015-06-08 15:39:16
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Odin.Jassik said: »
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The policy regarding consent from parties involved to disclose PM's has me scratching my head a bit in general. /shrugs.
Always struck me as a privacy thing, I don't know or don't remember when it started.
PM's between people seems like a conversation to me. If you want that conversation private, you need to explicitly state that....just like in a verbal conversation.

Basically this.
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Friends share, I think no one should be surprised from that.
That's also why lies eventually come around.

People gossip talk in RL and on a message board those conversations will find a way to multiple ears/eyes. Just with written messages there *shouldn't* be as much "telephone" issue.

I sure as heck wouldn't put something in a PM that I'm uncomfortable having shared publicly.
Basically, this.
Odin.Jassik said: »
But, I definitely agree, unless you state that it is private, you should assume that the information can and will be shared with other posters.
Even if you state that it is private, the best policy is to expect that it can and will be shared with other posters. Once it is out of your control, having any expectation of privacy is generally a poor idea (particularly if you have no contractual/legal obligations in place).
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-06-08 15:39:40
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I like fixing things, we can switch places for a day. Try not to destroy any buses!

Oh make sure to top up 002's power steering fluid tonight when it arrives and 1316 needs 4 litres of transmission fluid before it goes to Gilliam; remember they have to be running to check transmissions and off to check powersteering.
Why not fix the leaks that are causing low fluids?

Unrelated: I've found myself using a lot of my new free time to watch crime shows like CSI, Criminal Minds, and the like.
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-06-08 15:40:29
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No.

Also Zahrah, Kara, Leneth, Chanti, etc..

Yomi, Leila, Headstrong, Kali, a couple of TToFers, I think?

There's a mix. Overall, I think AH provides a more egalitarian approach.
Have you heard from headstrong lately? Don't think I've seen her post in a year or two. Same with quiz
Quiz left a long time ago.
 
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By Bahamut.Milamber 2015-06-08 15:45:26
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I like fixing things, just not in the mood for it today, and only things I know that are worth the effort. Lol. I like to create new nice things a bit more though.
Excuse you! They might be old coaches but they still got some piss and vinegar left!

Just need some love is all.
I hope we are talking about motorcoaches?
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-06-08 15:45:35
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Bahamut.Milamber said: »
Even if you state that it is private, the best policy is to expect that it can and will be shared with other posters. Once it is out of your control, having any expectation of privacy is generally a poor idea (particularly if you have no contractual/legal obligations in place).
Same thing I thought about the fappening scandal: the moment you share something you should take into account you're giving up any the secrecy of the content. They could share it any time regardless of how much trust you have in them. So when something you didn't want shared goes around you're to blame, you shouldn't have done that and you learned a lesson.

I've learned mine too, we all make such mistakes at some point.
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