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FFXIAH Linkshell Ni
Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2014-10-15 10:51:57
or like grandpa Niko said, you're just a douche.
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Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 10:55:10
Remember it's also not always as easy as hey I'm just gonna pack up and leave because I'm not enjoying myself anymore especially when you're married so yeah...
Yeah, I get that. But it's not that hard, either.
My parents figured it out in the early 80s. I'm pretty sure people can manage now.
I mean, there's always the financial factors and the like, but...if it's truly a bad situation, you'll figure out how to make that work.
And if it's a domestic abuse situation, on either side, go to the police already. It isn't that easy... kids, money, living arrangements... some people are pretty vindictive too... I'm not saying it can't be done but it's not as easy as you make it out to be... Some are better at it then others...
I remember a pair of friends that lived together and when they broke up neither of them could afford to live on their own and had noone that would take on the committment of putting em up until they found their own places... as they parted somewhat amicably they decided to try and make the living situation work... This became a huge problem when one of them started dating again... Not always fun knowing someone you had feelings for or still do is just getting pounded in the room next to yours by some stranger... They fought about that too among other things as they were not as willing to overlook some of the annoying things they once did for eachother... one of em eventually gave up their life here and moved back home and the other stayed there til the boot came looking for em and really had to find some place to stay...
Emotions are high when breakups come and when you've been in a committed relationship for awhile it's hard to be reasonable and divy everything up again and move on...
Thing is, in my eyes, if it's so bad that it's what you complain about to coworkers with whom you only interact at work...it's either gotten pretty bad or you're just the kind of person who likes to ***. In the later case, well, whatever. But in the case of the former, I'd think it'd be worth going through the hassle to get out of that kind of relationship. I'm just telling you why they don't. Sometimes dealing with that is easier then dealing with what you would have to if you ended it. That and all the other things that run through your mind when making a decision like that...
You might look at it as a black and white situation but it rarely ever is...
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Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 10:57:07
You know you guys are real pieces of work... I go off on someone cuz all they do is *** about stuff over and over and it's all like geez just let him vent flav...
Someone complains about their spouse or significant other and the rules are out the window and the db bombs are being dropped everywhere...
god damn hippocrites! (yeah I meant to spell it that way!)
By Ramyrez 2014-10-15 10:58:02
I'm not saying it's black and white...not at all.
I'm saying if it's so bad that all this stuff is making your life horrible, then maybe putting up with the other stuff is the better choice.
Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2014-10-15 10:59:00
Someone complains about their spouse or significant other and the rules are out the window and the db bombs are being dropped everywhere...
I don't think anyone complained about their spouse though...
I think we were just talking generally. I think...
wouldn't be the first time I've missed something though.
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Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:01:10
And despite my previous post and whether or not you'd like to agree with Sparth's last one some people just don't leave because they don't want to be alone...
What seems silly to us may be that person's reality.
I know I've given advice to other people or have been given advice that's really good and just pretty much ignored it and went and did something stupid anyways lol...
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Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:01:50
Someone complains about their spouse or significant other and the rules are out the window and the db bombs are being dropped everywhere...
I don't think anyone complained about their spouse though...
I think we were just talking generally. I think...
wouldn't be the first time I've missed something though. Ohhhhhhhhh my bad then... if it's someone here complaining about their spouse specifically then I gotta walk on eggshells again? ***!
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Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2014-10-15 11:03:22
Ohhhhhhhhh my bad then... if it's someone here complaining about their spous specifically then I gotta walk on eggshells again? ***!
yeah, duh, get it right. jackass.
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Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:05:09
I'm not saying it's black and white...not at all.
I'm saying if it's so bad that all this stuff is making your life horrible, then maybe putting up with the other stuff is the better choice. But you're basing that off of workplace complaints... It's very possible that it's not that bad.
Take Kara's post for example in which she said that the news that gets back to your spouse is rarely the same as when it got out channeling that telephone game! People exaggerate. Not saying it isn't always a problem but that's for that person to decide whether it is or not... could just be someone bitching cuz they like to ***... or that person that likes others to feel bad for em or commiserating with others...
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Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:06:26
Ohhhhhhhhh my bad then... if it's someone here complaining about their spous specifically then I gotta walk on eggshells again? ***!
yeah, duh, get it right. jackass. I'm gonna mennonite slap you so hard... lol...
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By Ramyrez 2014-10-15 11:07:41
I'm not saying it's black and white...not at all.
I'm saying if it's so bad that all this stuff is making your life horrible, then maybe putting up with the other stuff is the better choice. But you're basing that off of workplace complaints... It's very possible that it's not that bad.
Take Kara's post for example in which she said that the news that gets back to your spouse is rarely the same as when it got out channeling that telephone game! People exaggerate. Not saying it isn't always a problem but that's for that person to decide whether it is or not... could just be someone bitching cuz they like to ***... or that person that likes others to feel bad for em or commiserating with others...
I mentioned "people who just like to ***" as a group you can't really do anything about!
Quote: it's either gotten pretty bad or you're just the kind of person who likes to ***. In the later case, well, whatever.
Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2014-10-15 11:08:41
lmao.
By Ramyrez 2014-10-15 11:09:19
Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either.
And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options.
But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made.
Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations!
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Bismarck.Magnuss
Server: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 28615
By Bismarck.Magnuss 2014-10-15 11:09:51
By Ramyrez 2014-10-15 11:10:45
You really want to please a woman? Get her one of these:
Valefor.Sehachan
Server: Valefor
Game: FFXI
Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-10-15 11:11:13
You really want to please a woman? Get her one of these: A broken picture?
By Ramyrez 2014-10-15 11:13:44
You really want to please a woman? Get her one of these: A broken picture?
It works for me and I'm behind a firewall ffs.
One second, I'll find another.
Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:14:07
Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either.
And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options.
But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made.
Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations! Good luck with that. Emotions are rarely ruled by logic... add in societal pressures and walla!
People change too.
Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:14:36
You really want to please a woman? Get her one of these: A broken picture? works for me and I never get to see the pics posted here...
By Ramyrez 2014-10-15 11:16:48
Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either.
And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options.
But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made.
Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations! Good luck with that. Emotions are rarely ruled by logic... add in societal pressures and walla!
People change too.
Yeah, well. Societal pressure is why "every little girl dreams of her big day" and we blow just absolute gobs of money on weddings for people who end up divorced in four years.
Marriage is such a joke to people in our country that my biggest beef with gay marriage opponents is "Sanctity of what now, Mr. divorcee?"
Bismarck.Magnuss
Server: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 28615
By Bismarck.Magnuss 2014-10-15 11:19:06
But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made. You were making a point to me? I stopped reading like an hour ago, and now I'm just playing Destiny.
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Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2014-10-15 11:26:34
'voila' is what you were looking for.
Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2014-10-15 11:27:11
a chicken.
then she can have eggs.
Valefor.Sehachan
Server: Valefor
Game: FFXI
Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-10-15 11:29:58
I thought he meant a *** lol. Isn't that a crest?
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Server: Shiva
Game: FFXI
Posts: 20130
By Shiva.Nikolce 2014-10-15 11:30:54
You know you guys are real pieces of work... god damn hippocrites!)
Siren.Mosin
By Siren.Mosin 2014-10-15 11:31:24
I thought he meant a *** lol. Isn't that a crest?
he did, I think, I was just being facetious.
Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:35:56
Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either.
And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options.
But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made.
Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations! Good luck with that. Emotions are rarely ruled by logic... add in societal pressures and walla!
People change too.
Yeah, well. Societal pressure is why "every little girl dreams of her big day" and we blow just absolute gobs of money on weddings for people who end up divorced in four years.
Marriage is such a joke to people in our country that my biggest beef with gay marriage opponents is "Sanctity of what now, Mr. divorcee?" Idk if I'd go that far... I was talking more about the pressure to get married which is actually easing these days...
gotta keep that economy running... I used to have a coworker who wanted gay marriage to go through because she thought she could start a business to capitalize on the influx of marriages...
In any case a lot of people just want to throw a huge party and have all their friends and family there to witness their loves!!!
Opponents to gay marriage is a different topic comepletely lol...
Marriage is marriage... people just want to be together until they don't anymore lol...
By Ramyrez 2014-10-15 11:36:44
I thought he meant a *** lol.
A big black one.
Lakshmi.Flavin
Server: Lakshmi
Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-10-15 11:37:13
'voila' is what you were looking for. I hate using voila... walla gets my point across...
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Bismarck.Magnuss
Server: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 28615
By Bismarck.Magnuss 2014-10-15 11:38:29
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Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree

Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present

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Fenrir.Scragg said: Code Rowland 29488 2007-06-24 16:06:00
Ludoggy 26597 2009-02-25 22:31:23
Flionheart 22174 2008-11-17 14:28:15
Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
Mabrook 8356 2008-07-01 00:53:38
Marzbarz 7723 2010-01-10 14:12:5
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