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or like grandpa Niko said, you're just a douche.
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Ramyrez said: » Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Ramyrez said: » Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Remember it's also not always as easy as hey I'm just gonna pack up and leave because I'm not enjoying myself anymore especially when you're married so yeah... Yeah, I get that. But it's not that hard, either. My parents figured it out in the early 80s. I'm pretty sure people can manage now. I mean, there's always the financial factors and the like, but...if it's truly a bad situation, you'll figure out how to make that work. And if it's a domestic abuse situation, on either side, go to the police already. I remember a pair of friends that lived together and when they broke up neither of them could afford to live on their own and had noone that would take on the committment of putting em up until they found their own places... as they parted somewhat amicably they decided to try and make the living situation work... This became a huge problem when one of them started dating again... Not always fun knowing someone you had feelings for or still do is just getting pounded in the room next to yours by some stranger... They fought about that too among other things as they were not as willing to overlook some of the annoying things they once did for eachother... one of em eventually gave up their life here and moved back home and the other stayed there til the boot came looking for em and really had to find some place to stay... Emotions are high when breakups come and when you've been in a committed relationship for awhile it's hard to be reasonable and divy everything up again and move on... Thing is, in my eyes, if it's so bad that it's what you complain about to coworkers with whom you only interact at work...it's either gotten pretty bad or you're just the kind of person who likes to ***. In the later case, well, whatever. But in the case of the former, I'd think it'd be worth going through the hassle to get out of that kind of relationship. You might look at it as a black and white situation but it rarely ever is...
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You know you guys are real pieces of work... I go off on someone cuz all they do is *** about stuff over and over and it's all like geez just let him vent flav...
Someone complains about their spouse or significant other and the rules are out the window and the db bombs are being dropped everywhere... god damn hippocrites! (yeah I meant to spell it that way!) I'm not saying it's black and white...not at all.
I'm saying if it's so bad that all this stuff is making your life horrible, then maybe putting up with the other stuff is the better choice. Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Someone complains about their spouse or significant other and the rules are out the window and the db bombs are being dropped everywhere... I don't think anyone complained about their spouse though... I think we were just talking generally. I think... wouldn't be the first time I've missed something though.
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And despite my previous post and whether or not you'd like to agree with Sparth's last one some people just don't leave because they don't want to be alone...
What seems silly to us may be that person's reality. I know I've given advice to other people or have been given advice that's really good and just pretty much ignored it and went and did something stupid anyways lol...
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Siren.Mosin said: » Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Someone complains about their spouse or significant other and the rules are out the window and the db bombs are being dropped everywhere... I don't think anyone complained about their spouse though... I think we were just talking generally. I think... wouldn't be the first time I've missed something though.
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Ohhhhhhhhh my bad then... if it's someone here complaining about their spous specifically then I gotta walk on eggshells again? ***! yeah, duh, get it right. jackass.
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Ramyrez said: » I'm not saying it's black and white...not at all. I'm saying if it's so bad that all this stuff is making your life horrible, then maybe putting up with the other stuff is the better choice. Take Kara's post for example in which she said that the news that gets back to your spouse is rarely the same as when it got out channeling that telephone game! People exaggerate. Not saying it isn't always a problem but that's for that person to decide whether it is or not... could just be someone bitching cuz they like to ***... or that person that likes others to feel bad for em or commiserating with others...
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Ramyrez said: » I'm not saying it's black and white...not at all. I'm saying if it's so bad that all this stuff is making your life horrible, then maybe putting up with the other stuff is the better choice. Take Kara's post for example in which she said that the news that gets back to your spouse is rarely the same as when it got out channeling that telephone game! People exaggerate. Not saying it isn't always a problem but that's for that person to decide whether it is or not... could just be someone bitching cuz they like to ***... or that person that likes others to feel bad for em or commiserating with others... I mentioned "people who just like to ***" as a group you can't really do anything about! Quote: it's either gotten pretty bad or you're just the kind of person who likes to ***. In the later case, well, whatever. Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either.
And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options. But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made. Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations!
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Ramyrez said: » You really want to please a woman? Get her one of these:
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Ramyrez said: » Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either. And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options. But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made. Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations! People change too. Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Ramyrez said: » Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either. And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options. But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made. Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations! People change too. Yeah, well. Societal pressure is why "every little girl dreams of her big day" and we blow just absolute gobs of money on weddings for people who end up divorced in four years. Marriage is such a joke to people in our country that my biggest beef with gay marriage opponents is "Sanctity of what now, Mr. divorcee?" Ramyrez said: » But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made.
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: » walla! 'voila' is what you were looking for. I thought he meant a *** lol. Isn't that a crest?
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Valefor.Sehachan said: » I thought he meant a *** lol. Isn't that a crest? he did, I think, I was just being facetious. Ramyrez said: » Lakshmi.Flavin said: » Ramyrez said: » Look, all I'm saying is that people should think long and hard about who they're marrying before pulling the trigger, and then maybe our divorce rate wouldn't be so high, and the number of people who feel trapped in bad marraiges might not be so high, either. And if things are so bad that you're always miserable, you should maybe *** the options. But, as you can see Mag, my point has been made. Lots of unhappy folks in long-term situations! People change too. Yeah, well. Societal pressure is why "every little girl dreams of her big day" and we blow just absolute gobs of money on weddings for people who end up divorced in four years. Marriage is such a joke to people in our country that my biggest beef with gay marriage opponents is "Sanctity of what now, Mr. divorcee?" gotta keep that economy running... I used to have a coworker who wanted gay marriage to go through because she thought she could start a business to capitalize on the influx of marriages... In any case a lot of people just want to throw a huge party and have all their friends and family there to witness their loves!!! Opponents to gay marriage is a different topic comepletely lol... Marriage is marriage... people just want to be together until they don't anymore lol...
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