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By Phoenix.Amandarius 2013-04-23 13:31:23
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Bottom line is, you cannot rank people's suffering in general. As a human, you should feel bad as soon as there is persecution against anyone, not pick who has the highest score.
True. I also can't help but wonder how many people would have been less (or more for that matter) outraged had this been a Muslim couple.
We would be deemed racists for even asking questions.
That's not necassarily true... You can't really make this into something where the group you belong to is always the victim as that is in no way true... Muslim groups are often persecuted... hell sometimes all it takes is to "look" muslim...

Can you show me where in America Muslim groups have often been persecuted? I see often non-Muslim Americans bending over backwards to not offend Muslims and/or be called bigots. Persecution I have not seen. The only place I see Muslims getting persecuted is by other Muslims in the Middle East over slight disagreements in the Koran.
By volkom 2013-04-23 13:33:26
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We have racial persecution here in the states. not so much religion
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By Siren.Flavin 2013-04-23 13:35:56
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an honest question that has nothing to do with the religion flame war going on. they were on a ten year probation for letting a child die. Why the *** wasn't someone checking up on them on a weekly basis?
Good question. I can only hope that there's an investigation into why the system failed this child, but the cynic in me doesn't have much faith in the state to police itself.
There may have been someone checking on them from CPS, but since it had been 10 years since the passing of their first child, its possible that they were out of that radar. The number of people that CPS has to check on in a month is honestly staggering (even in just a county-wide area), and they are rarely at the office if only to meet up with coworkers to leave again- not to mention that the turn-over rate for the job is high and they are constantly under-staffed. People are also dodgey as hell with CPS workers. They lie, they run off when case workers show up, they teach their kids to lie, they put on fake personas; hide the meth and clean up their act when they're around. If CPS was checking up on them, they'd have to have caught them sometime in the critical last stages of the child's illness which can be only a few days. That's a pretty small window and the time between CPS visits can be months.
They were on year 4 of the 10 year probation... First child passed sometime in 2009...
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By Fenrir.Sylow 2013-04-23 13:37:26
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This happened in the US:

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/10/us/redress-weighed-for-forced-sterilizations-in-north-carolina.html?pagewanted=all&_r=2&;
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By Ragnarok.Zohnax 2013-04-23 13:41:32
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Phoenix.Amandarius said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
Phoenix.Amandarius said: »
Gilgamesh.Schmule said: »
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Bottom line is, you cannot rank people's suffering in general. As a human, you should feel bad as soon as there is persecution against anyone, not pick who has the highest score.
True. I also can't help but wonder how many people would have been less (or more for that matter) outraged had this been a Muslim couple.
We would be deemed racists for even asking questions.
That's not necassarily true... You can't really make this into something where the group you belong to is always the victim as that is in no way true... Muslim groups are often persecuted... hell sometimes all it takes is to "look" muslim...

Can you show me where in America Muslim groups have often been persecuted? I see often non-Muslim Americans bending over backwards to not offend Muslims and/or be called bigots. Persecution I have not seen. The only place I see Muslims getting persecuted is by other Muslims in the Middle East over slight disagreements in the Koran.
There's a town in Michigan where Muslims discriminate against other religions, actually.
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By Siren.Flavin 2013-04-23 13:41:57
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Phoenix.Amandarius said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
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Gilgamesh.Schmule said: »
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Bottom line is, you cannot rank people's suffering in general. As a human, you should feel bad as soon as there is persecution against anyone, not pick who has the highest score.
True. I also can't help but wonder how many people would have been less (or more for that matter) outraged had this been a Muslim couple.
We would be deemed racists for even asking questions.
That's not necassarily true... You can't really make this into something where the group you belong to is always the victim as that is in no way true... Muslim groups are often persecuted... hell sometimes all it takes is to "look" muslim...
Can you show me where in America Muslim groups have often been persecuted? I see often non-Muslim Americans bending over backwards to not offend Muslims and/or be called bigots. Persecution I have not seen. The only place I see Muslims getting persecuted is by other Muslims in the Middle East over slight disagreements in the Koran.
for the past, almost twelve years, I've witnessed people generally calling muslims terrorists... There's been complaints filed against the police for targeting muslims when investigating terrorstic attacks without justification...

I see people beinding over backwards to not offend anyone lol... our society is like that now that when we are in public we are looked down upon when displaying hatred or bigotry unless sourrounded by a group of likeminded people...
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By Sylph.Linkk 2013-04-23 13:44:47
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Bahahahaha, want to see persecution and terrorism is? Look at the civil rights movement. This water down joke people call persecution now is sad. Anyway, sad for these kids and others that go through this crap or worst from crazy people. ***like this makes me wonder and consider if there should be some kind of mental requirement to make sure people are fit to be parents because *** up parents tend to breed *** up kids and the cycle repeats.
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By Cerberus.Pleebo 2013-04-23 13:45:15
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Phoenix.Amandarius said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
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Gilgamesh.Schmule said: »
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Bottom line is, you cannot rank people's suffering in general. As a human, you should feel bad as soon as there is persecution against anyone, not pick who has the highest score.
True. I also can't help but wonder how many people would have been less (or more for that matter) outraged had this been a Muslim couple.
We would be deemed racists for even asking questions.
That's not necassarily true... You can't really make this into something where the group you belong to is always the victim as that is in no way true... Muslim groups are often persecuted... hell sometimes all it takes is to "look" muslim...

Can you show me where in America Muslim groups have often been persecuted? I see often non-Muslim Americans bending over backwards to not offend Muslims and/or be called bigots. Persecution I have not seen. The only place I see Muslims getting persecuted is by other Muslims in the Middle East over slight disagreements in the Koran.
Park51 mosque says hi.
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By Siren.Flavin 2013-04-23 13:45:24
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Sounds like the future some people on these boards envisioned for the world... I'm pretty shocked that it was happening here for a time... I hadn't heard anything about this before...

Sylph.Linkk said: »
Bahahahaha, want to see persecution and terrorism is? Look at the civil rights movement. This water down joke people call persecution now is sad. Anyway, sad for these kids and others that go through this crap or worst from crazy people. ***like this makes me wonder and consider if there should be some kind of mental requirement to make sure people are fit to be parents because *** up parents tend to breed *** up kids and the cycle repeats.
Linkk proved my point lol...
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By Zyla 2013-04-23 13:45:35
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i say let an AIDS carrier rape these assclowns till they catch it, then we can watch them try to "pray" it away till they friggin drop in agony. if you're not gonna be a responsible adult, then you don't deserve to be allow to reproduce...
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By Bahamut.Baconwrap 2013-04-23 13:46:50
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Siren.Flavin said: »
for the past, almost twelve years, I've witnessed people generally calling muslims terrorists...
It's interesting that you say this I went to a high school with a small Iranian population. It was mainly white and asian. And I know that a lot of the Iranian kids got called "terrorists," but it was done in a joking manner.

I always wondered if it effected them as adults after HS.

Zyla said: »
i say let an AIDS carrier rape these assclowns till they catch it, then we can watch them try to "pray" it away till they friggin drop in agony. if you're not gonna be a responsible adult, then you don't deserve to be allow to reproduce...
ugh wtf?! HIV/AIDS not a joking matter. Don't juxtapose the two. Very tasteless statement.
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By Siren.Flavin 2013-04-23 13:48:21
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Zyla said: »
i say let an AIDS carrier rape these assclowns till they catch it, then we can watch them try to "pray" it away till they friggin drop in agony. if you're not gonna be a responsible adult, then you don't deserve to be allow to reproduce...
yeah yeah... we already got the infect them and let them pray it away... I love how people are so willing to speak out and become just as bad as the offenders... the whole point of our justice system is to be above those we punish... not sink to their level...
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By Sylph.Linkk 2013-04-23 13:49:08
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Sounds like the future some people on these boards envisioned for the world... I'm pretty shocked that it was happening here for a time... I hadn't heard anything about this before...

Sylph.Linkk said: »
Bahahahaha, want to see persecution and terrorism is? Look at the civil rights movement. This water down joke people call persecution now is sad. Anyway, sad for these kids and others that go through this crap or worst from crazy people. ***like this makes me wonder and consider if there should be some kind of mental requirement to make sure people are fit to be parents because *** up parents tend to breed *** up kids and the cycle repeats.
Linkk proved my point lol...

What point is that?
 
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By Siren.Flavin 2013-04-23 13:51:13
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Sounds like the future some people on these boards envisioned for the world... I'm pretty shocked that it was happening here for a time... I hadn't heard anything about this before...
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Bahahahaha, want to see persecution and terrorism is? Look at the civil rights movement. This water down joke people call persecution now is sad. Anyway, sad for these kids and others that go through this crap or worst from crazy people. ***like this makes me wonder and consider if there should be some kind of mental requirement to make sure people are fit to be parents because *** up parents tend to breed *** up kids and the cycle repeats.
Linkk proved my point lol...
What point is that?
Did you clicky on Sylows link? They forced sterilization on people they thought were unfit to be parents... then you went on about how you wondered if there should be some mental requirement to be a parent..
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-04-23 13:51:55
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Bismarck.Magnuss said: »
Religion thread! I so called it!

Weren't a few of us joking about this yesterday? :/

Damn you, Pleebo! What divinity do you possess?!?

Ask and ye shall receive, I suppose.

/backreads
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By Sylph.Linkk 2013-04-23 14:03:34
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Siren.Flavin said: »
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
Sounds like the future some people on these boards envisioned for the world... I'm pretty shocked that it was happening here for a time... I hadn't heard anything about this before...
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Bahahahaha, want to see persecution and terrorism is? Look at the civil rights movement. This water down joke people call persecution now is sad. Anyway, sad for these kids and others that go through this crap or worst from crazy people. ***like this makes me wonder and consider if there should be some kind of mental requirement to make sure people are fit to be parents because *** up parents tend to breed *** up kids and the cycle repeats.
Linkk proved my point lol...
What point is that?
Did you clicky on Sylows link? They forced sterilization on people they thought were unfit to be parents... then you went on about how you wondered if there should be some mental requirement to be a parent..
Ahh, Well the stuff you see makes me wonder. It's not like I don't see the huge conflict here or how would such a thing be implemented/enforced and all the potential problems that goes along with it. But how many more horror stories must we hear before some sort of action is taken. And here are thousands that go on every day that we don’t hear.
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By Odin.Liela 2013-04-23 14:04:10
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
/backreads

I recommend against it. :x
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By Bismarck.Magnuss 2013-04-23 14:08:19
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Bismarck.Magnuss said: »
Religion thread! I so called it!

Weren't a few of us joking about this yesterday? :/

Damn you, Pleebo! What divinity do you possess?!?

Ask and ye shall receive, I suppose.

/backreads
He was behind it from the start... Just like I'm fairly certain that he was behind the JFK shooting.
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By VioDjango 2013-04-23 14:09:06
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You'd think they'd get it by now


Or "If God gives you modern medicine then friggin' use it."

Had no idea God had anything to do with it. I don't remember the Bible verse about him paying Jesus' way through med school.

Just teasing.

These people make religion look terrible... Religion isn't itself bad, but people like this are ruining the world.
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By Cerberus.Pleebo 2013-04-23 14:11:20
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I PLEAD THE FIF
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By Siren.Flavin 2013-04-23 14:13:13
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Sylph.Linkk said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
Sounds like the future some people on these boards envisioned for the world... I'm pretty shocked that it was happening here for a time... I hadn't heard anything about this before...
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Bahahahaha, want to see persecution and terrorism is? Look at the civil rights movement. This water down joke people call persecution now is sad. Anyway, sad for these kids and others that go through this crap or worst from crazy people. ***like this makes me wonder and consider if there should be some kind of mental requirement to make sure people are fit to be parents because *** up parents tend to breed *** up kids and the cycle repeats.
Linkk proved my point lol...
What point is that?
Did you clicky on Sylows link? They forced sterilization on people they thought were unfit to be parents... then you went on about how you wondered if there should be some mental requirement to be a parent..
Ahh, Well the stuff you see makes me wonder. It's not like I don't see the huge conflict here or how would such a thing be implemented/enforced and all the potential problems that goes along with it. But how many more horror stories must we hear before some sort of action is taken. And here are thousands that go on every day that we don’t hear.
How can we take that kind of action? How can any one of us sit there and say you are not allowed to have a child of your own? What if they develop a standardized test and list requirements you need to possess otherwhise you are precluded from having a child... What happens when you or someone you care about gets put on that list?
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By Sylph.Linkk 2013-04-23 14:14:48
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VioDjango said: »
Fenrir.Camiie said: »
Lye said: »
You'd think they'd get it by now


Or "If God gives you modern medicine then friggin' use it."

Had no idea God had anything to do with it. I don't remember the Bible verse about him paying Jesus' way through med school.

Just teasing.

These people make religion look terrible... Religion isn't itself bad, but people like this are ruining the world.
Ahhh, if these people are doing what they believe is the right thing based on what the religion says, then ahh yeah, religion is the problem. Don't confuse people who seem to be more practical and ignore the crazier parts of their religion from the people who don't and think religion is not the source.
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By Chimerawizard 2013-04-23 14:16:30
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God made universe (physics/chemistry behind said universe as well)
God made man
Man learns science/medicine
Man cures disease...

Faith healing is for when you don't have access to other tools to get you better. Miracles happen when science fails and can be tested to show whatever it was, has been cured. Miracles (real ones) can be proven (by medical professionals) and later, duplicated as just another part of science.

My grandmother believes doctors kill people, and says her cancer is cured...she still has all the signs that she has cancer and will not go to the doctor... There is nothing I can do for her since grandpa won't let us take her by force. /sob

If you don't believe the first two lines, whatever but it's hard to disagree with the second two.
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By Cerberus.Tikal 2013-04-23 14:22:29
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I find it amusing that religion is considered anything but the human condition. It does not exist autonomous of sentience, and it is prey to all human flaws.

It is not religion that causes the wrong-doing, but religion is the excuse used to justify it. Even should we rid ourselves of superstition, these traits will still exist in humans - but outlining it, understanding it, and ingraining that knowledge (of the human condition) into our children is the best thing we can do to continue our progress.

People will always find a way to justify ***, and it's up to us to use logic to refute it.
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By Sylph.Linkk 2013-04-23 14:23:19
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Siren.Flavin said: »
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Siren.Flavin said: »
Sounds like the future some people on these boards envisioned for the world... I'm pretty shocked that it was happening here for a time... I hadn't heard anything about this before...
Sylph.Linkk said: »
Bahahahaha, want to see persecution and terrorism is? Look at the civil rights movement. This water down joke people call persecution now is sad. Anyway, sad for these kids and others that go through this crap or worst from crazy people. ***like this makes me wonder and consider if there should be some kind of mental requirement to make sure people are fit to be parents because *** up parents tend to breed *** up kids and the cycle repeats.
Linkk proved my point lol...
What point is that?
Did you clicky on Sylows link? They forced sterilization on people they thought were unfit to be parents... then you went on about how you wondered if there should be some mental requirement to be a parent..
Ahh, Well the stuff you see makes me wonder. It's not like I don't see the huge conflict here or how would such a thing be implemented/enforced and all the potential problems that goes along with it. But how many more horror stories must we hear before some sort of action is taken. And here are thousands that go on every day that we don’t hear.
How can we take that kind of action? How can any one of us sit there and say you are not allowed to have a child of your own? What if they develop a standardized test and list requirements you need to possess otherwhise you are precluded from having a child... What happens when you or someone you care about gets put on that list?
I am not claiming to have the answer, it's not an easy topic and I not saying it should be done. I just said stuff like this makes me consider it. What would you do? It's easy to poke at ideas or solutions you do not like, it's a lot harder trying to find a way to deal with it that most will like. I try not to take absolutist positions on situations because I know I don’t have the answers or can predict the future.
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By Siren.Flavin 2013-04-23 14:26:08
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I'm saying that we don't have the right to punish people for things they may or may not do and we do not have the right to do that...
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By Bahamut.Ravael 2013-04-23 14:27:00
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Chimerawizard said: »
God made universe (physics/chemistry behind said universe as well)
God made man
Man learns science/medicine
Man cures disease...

Faith healing is for when you don't have access to other tools to get you better. Miracles happen when science fails and can be tested to show whatever it was, has been cured. Miracles (real ones) can be proven (by medical professionals) and later, duplicated as just another part of science.

My grandmother believes doctors kill people, and says her cancer is cured...she still has all the signs that she has cancer and will not go to the doctor... There is nothing I can do for her since grandpa won't let us take her by force. /sob

If you don't believe e first two lines, whatever but it's hard to disagree with the second two.

For the most part, you hit the nail on the head. I'm a religious person and find this couple to be mind-blowingly stupid. The war between science/medicine and religion just needs to stop. They're both designed around the same basic concept - the search for truth. It's not religion itself that is at odds with science. The problem comes from making narrow-minded interpretations from religious texts that have been translated and modified countless times over the years and treating those interpretations as indisputable facts.
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By Sylph.Linkk 2013-04-23 14:33:15
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Siren.Flavin said: »
I'm saying that we don't have the right to punish people for things they may or may not do and we do not have the right to do that...
Yes, I got that, the rights and in general I agree. But what would you do about the sitiuation? Because what you said is the same as doing nothing while stuff like this continues. I am all ears.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-04-23 14:34:54
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Bahamut.Baconwrap said: »
This kinda also goes back to the importance of treating "everyone" and not "select" people in a population. I completely understand the freedom of religion. However there does come a point, where refusing to treat someone actually becomes a burden on public health.

Looking at the symptoms of both these children, these parents were posing a threat to the public health NOT just their own children. Pneumonia is contagious, not enough info on second child. These parents were refusing treatment on communicable diseases and therefore were probably infecting numerous individuals.

By treating a communicable disease, you are generally reducing the transmission rate to others.

You know, this is kind of off topic, but...

/deep breath

Okay...So, this is a reoccurring topic between a friend of mine and the collective grievances about the choices her sister has made regarding vaccinations for her children. Everyone knows it's a matter of choice to get your children vaccinated, but how are you not doing a disservice to not only your children, but younger children exposed to your children before they receive the recommended vaccinations as scheduled?

You would think that the idea of "loving your fellow man", and this is how we tried to make it palatable to her, would mean not exposing your little germ factories to others at the expense of their health. What's also frustrating is here, as I assume in most states, it is required that you have your child's vaccination record on hand for registration. So, when we used that angle to sway her, she told us that her husband would prefer that she home school them. Girl doesn't have a GED much less a bachelors!!! Seriously?!?

TL;DR: I have an idiot friend who's husband may as well be David Koresh part deux.
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