I'm still having trouble getting the eva group to work, whenever I add it to the xml, it wont read my xml in game
Most likely, the placement caused an issue or there is a tag missing. What error does it give you when you try to load it?
As Nemesio recommended, get Notepad++, it's amazing for finding issues since all syntax is highlighted. This makes it far easier to spot typos and missing end tags. Firefox can also be used for troubleshooting, if you open the xml file in firefox, it will give you an error message if something isn't formatted properly. Note that it won't find logic errors, just mismatched tags or other coding errors.
If you post what you have, I'll point out any errors.
is there any command that allows blinkmenot to do just 1 blink? tired of looking like i'm fighting in my idle gear xD
I don't know that there's a direct command but when I need to force blink, I have a macro that sets blinkmenot to off for certain situations. Alternatively, you can put on the gear you want to look like you are in and then lock blinkmenot down so you never blink, and will stay in that gear.