In short, everyone is stupid when it comes to love.
/conversation over
ftfy
And unfortunately there is no right answer...
Part of the problem is she liked all the drama and attention she got after the first however many times. But eventually everyone got back to their own lives and quit focusing on her which created the need for a new problem...
Sorry, but I have nothing but bad news and terrible ideas for ya kiddo. Whether or not you are involved personally or not matters very little to anyone but you, she will find a new audience eager to act shocked and angry in all the right places... and Bambi's mom is just fine if you shut the movie off soon enough or you can watch and get upset or you can watch it until you don't get upset any more. Sorry if I ruined the end of the movie for you...
And so most importantly we learn to never ask guys for advice on these types of matters unless you want your desire to kill them both feverishly supported. I can get a copy of the local train schedule if you oven bun's testosterone levels finds your mind drifting in that direction... her car stalls, you nudge it onto the tracks, everyone's locked inside... choo choo