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Time for me to head out~ PIZZA TIME! and then I get to bus around a buncha drunk douchewangs. -.- I better get laid for this.

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What i find most unnerving is when parents overuse physical punishment to the point that the child sees this as a acceptable release of anger then the child applies it to how s/he will deal with their frustration or anger.

When my brother died, I noticed that my nephew wasn't able to control his anger very well, my Cunty Magoo of an ex-sister-in-law would smack my nephew not understanding that he was too young and unable to put my brother's death into something mentally tangible. That's when my nephew started hitting and biting others in school and what not.

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People just need to realize that discipline is not a bad thing, both to the people dealing it out and taking it. It's purpose is to correct disobedience, and to follows the rule of the household and behave accordingly.

People practice self discipline all the time, being able to control yourself is a must and that comes from learning what discipline is to begin with.

The problem I see is some people just don't know how to discipline their children, so the resort to extremes that really don't even help. If you believe hitting your child will stop their behavior, doing it too much will result in very negative side effects over their lifetime. Not disciplining them when they should will result in them doing w/e they please in life, no matter what the consequence is. This could even be the result of too severe discipline as well, the child no longer understand the discipline so they find a way to get around getting punished.

I took some severe verbal abuse from my mother when I was young after my father died, she didn't know how to cope with it and used me as a release from her anger and grief. I think that made me be very closed in and keeping everything to myself, not talking to kids at school and listening to what every teach had to say, and making sure I never made a mistake so I didn't have to deal with her even more.

I don't think parents really think about what their actions will result in for their children. It doesn't really apply here, but "for every reaction there is an equal and opposite reaction" I feel is true. If you sit your child in time out, then confront them afterwards and have them explain what they did wrong and why it was wrong, then you forgive them and make up with them, you are giving a punishment but you're comforting them afterwards. I think that's important, to show that you care for them after punishing them. I think too many parents just hand out punishments without showing their children that they are doing it because they love them and that they don't want them to grow up thinking that behavior is okay. Whether it be from the overload of stress from work and raising a child, and they are trying to take an easy way out, I still don't think it's okay to punish your child w/o following up with it.

What about the "drink a bottle of hotsauce" or general hot sauce punishment >.> feel bad for those kids...

Can't hit your children here :O It's illegal

Totally not punishment. IMO that's abuse from someone that shouldn't have that kid to start with.

Can't hit your children here :O It's illegal

Some italian guy recently got jailed for slapping his son in public there in Sweden. Took a long while to get it solved.

Uh oh, that feeling's back again... time to go sit in the freezing wind for another half hour...
Not gonna get much work done at this rate.

I don't really see that as punishment, at that point it seems like abuse. A pop on the butt when they do something they damn well shouldn't and they know it is different to me than slapping them or spanking them with a belt more than once or twice etc

What...? lol

Meant people's opinions on it sorry lol flippin back and forth during VW.

Felt like crap earlier. Froze my *** off outside. Felt better.
Feel like crap again now. Be back later.

Hot sauce makes me wanna die, I can't imagine forcing a child to eat it.

God I hate people...

Wunt sum?

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