My mom makes me rage so hard. She gets mad at my sister and over reacts about it, then I tell her she overreacted and she starts yelling at me. All this for my sister wanting to avoid getting yelled at by our Dad. *** ***, I know she can be a *** a lot but doesn't mean you should just snap at her about everything.
I used to have a similar problem, used to being the key part. Incoming huge post.
Every time my younger brother did anything 'bad' 'dangerous' 'risky' 'reckless' or something she didn't approve of, my mom would call me up (drunk, like repeating the same thing over a dozen times drunk) and rant and *** at me for an hour or more about he's going to *** up his life and I'm his older brother and I need to talk some sense into him and I need to talk to him Blah blah blah.. This would happen ona bi-weekly basis at it's
low points.
The conversations with my brother were always the same..
Me: "Wtf is she freaking about now?"
Him: ~explains the ridiculous thing she's freaking out about~, I'm sorry she always calls you about this stupid ***.
Me: "It's not your fault, I know how she is."
And that's it. Pretty much everything she's ever freaked out about was nothing to to even slightly worry about, anything worth worrying was blown way out of proportion, I don't know how she does it but him going to the beach, during the day, with his church group somehow becomes "he's going to get raped and killed by a crazy axe murderer, he's *** up his life you need to talk to him!"
Just for the record, I didn't start getting these calls until he was about 16 or 17.. It's not as if he was 10 or something, he was damn near an adult. It's his goddamned life, and there is something to worry about, I take it upon myself to talk to him about it.
Anyways, I stopped all that.. I'd already put up with this ***on a weekly basis for 4+ years, she called up and I wasn't in a good mood, not only was it the normal stuff but now she started attacking me because he wasn't changing his life, saying that I don't care and blah blah..
I did the "pull phone away from face and only put mouth to the receiver" and started screaming something like "Look you stupid ***, I'm *** tired of you calling me up over this stupid *** every goddamned week, he's a grown damned adult and he can do what the *** he wants, if you have a problem with what he's doing, talk to yourself about it" and I hung up. Me and her didn't speak for probably 6 months after that.