~.~ One of my cousins has been publicly berating and verbally abusing her husband on facebook for, well, as long as I've had her on facebook. Yesterday I found out that her husband was in a car accident a year ago that caused traumatic brain damage to him. I'm not sure whether to be less angry at her because her life must be very stressful with a brain-damaged husband, or more angry at her for berating a man who is in need of love and understanding instead of scorn. I can't begin to understand what she's going through, but really, would a little compassion be too much to ask?
That's not an excuse for that type of behavior.. But I don't think you should be angry at her.. Say something to her, maybe she doesn't realize how she's coming across. Ultimately, without sounding like an ***, it's her and her husband's business/problem, it's not any one else's place to get angry over it, except her husband's.