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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2015-01-14 14:51:02
Jos. You used the phrase 'let it go' too much and I couldn't finish reading because I was singing. I'm sorry.
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By Kittykite 2015-01-14 14:51:21
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By Bloodrose 2015-01-14 14:51:47
I've had plenty of friends like that.
Which should speak a lot about my character over-all more than theirs, but that's not the issue.
Some are, regardless of what you do, lost causes.
Others are open to trying new things to let go of the past, even if begrudgingly so. It really comes down to actively letting go, one white-knuckled finger at a time.
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By Kalila 2015-01-14 15:03:41
It's Kali question time!?
Will I ever have a life? 
will you ever notice me? Answer: No.
Kali, will I ever be pretty? You're Krillin, are you joking? :< Nobody loves Krillin :< I liked him, he was funny.
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Fenrir.Schutz
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By Fenrir.Schutz 2015-01-14 15:04:39
Bismarck.Josiahfk said: »
Friend lives in the past, a lot; She knows it's unhealthy but she doesn't care. Over the past year she's begun to appear to find happiness in this unhealthy obsession of not letting go. All I want is for her to be happy so part of me says just do nothing and be able to process lose and move on. I wish she would just be able to let it go though and slowly regain full functionality emotionally but I'm starting to doubt if that's even right anymore when this jaded.
Do any of you have a friend like this? Blarg : /
When I was a teenager I was absolutely fixated on placing blame when things went wrong, whether it was relationships, economic hardships, or whatever, and ensuring the person "responsible" knew about it. :/ I think part has to do with personality and the way the person's head works, part has to do with how many 'new'/distracting things come along to otherwise occupy their energies, and part has to do with not realising fixating to that degree is just ultimately self-destructive. :/
Since then I've learned to read my own patterns and just set out to do new things when I get that upset. Maybe your friend just needs new things to distract her, and some unbiased insight on how unhealthy such fixation can be--at least as a friend you can control that side of things (even if you can't change how her mind works.) :/
By Kalila 2015-01-14 15:05:02
Also I'm a bit ashamed, I was wondering what avatar kitty was using the as I searched for that image it juts came to me, of course it's reborn :<
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Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2015-01-14 15:06:25
It's Kali question time!?
Will I ever have a life? 
will you ever notice me? Answer: No.
Kali, will I ever be pretty? You're Krillin, are you joking? :< Nobody loves Krillin :< I liked him, he was funny. Better question is would you ever again be relevant in saving the world after the Namek Saga.
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-01-14 15:06:46
It's Kali question time!?
Will I ever have a life? 
will you ever notice me? Answer: No.
Kali, will I ever be pretty? You're Krillin, are you joking? :< Nobody loves Krillin :< I liked him, he was tall. ftfy
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By Kalila 2015-01-14 15:07:09
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-01-14 15:07:38
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Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-01-14 15:09:27
I never let go of anything.
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-01-14 15:10:19
This let it go talk is why I'm listening to the Shiva theme. Odd.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2015-01-14 15:10:20
I never let go of anything. Yeah. You're female. We already assumed as much.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-01-14 15:11:01
Not grudges. People and past events, I drag them with me forever.
By Bloodrose 2015-01-14 15:11:32
So much to say to that, Seha, so much.
Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-01-14 15:12:20
What did I do
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2015-01-14 15:12:40
Not grudges. People and past events, I drag them with me forever. So you're yandere? I've seen school days. I know how that works.
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By Anna Ruthven 2015-01-14 15:12:43
I have to let stuff go, more accurately I separate my opinions from my decision making which can, at times, cause an issue in itself.
By Bloodrose 2015-01-14 15:12:55
"I never let go of anything" XD
So many things to say XD
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-01-14 15:13:31
By Bloodrose 2015-01-14 15:16:15
I'm baking some fries for lunch (hate the deep fried *** - too oily for me)
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-01-14 15:18:24
The what
By Bloodrose 2015-01-14 15:18:56
Cheese curds, Josiah wants poutine.
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-01-14 15:20:10
Poutine looks gross
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2015-01-14 15:20:29
/squirts with a water bottle
Stop that. No being Canadian
By Bloodrose 2015-01-14 15:21:15
I don't like the way poutine looks either, but it is delicious.
However, I still prefer baked fries over poutine.
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By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-01-14 15:21:21
I saw that edit Urinal
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.
Inb4thisthreadgetsreallywtf
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