The guy has to show some initiative though or else I'd actually get bored and feel turned off by the betaness. I'm willing to do my part in the roleplay but you gotta do yours too.
Totally agree, it is definitely a two way thing. One person trying harder than the other ruins the whole thing regardless of roleplay or not in my opinion.
I'm pretty open to most stuff, and have my moods on what I want and don't want. I'm willing to give pretty much anything a go, because don't know if you like it if you don't try it.
However I do tend to lean to being dominate and getting what I want/making her do what I want or the flip coin pleasing/teasing a girl just for the fun of it (getting her off gets me off type of thing). Didn't know I enjoyed having that "pleasing master" thing until I tried it and it was just super easy and natural to do. And it kinda rolls easy to do the give me what I want and you get a treat.
Girls from my experience very rarely enjoy that though, and sub/dom stuff is more aggressive with them.