Good morning.
So, let's say you find out there's a porn video of a friend of yours and there's a 90% chance it wasn't intended to be on the internet, do you tell her or let her live in blissful ignorance? Also considering the culprit might be her current bf with which she has a serious relationship(I can't know since I only see his *** and have never seen her boyfriends naked to be able to tell 'em apart from just that)
I kinda wanna tell her but also don't wanna drop a potential bomb on her happy life.
It's definetly a tricky situation but I'm with Spath on this one. If there was porn of me on the internet I'd want to know... Then again Spath and I both have penises so not sure if the best way to deal with it would vary between men and women. In the end you know your friend better than us so I'd go with what you think is best.
How close are you with your friend? As in do you ever talk about sex stuff? If you do they you could test the waters by asking if she has ever recorded herself having sex and find out if her and her current boyfriend have ever done that if you really want to know for sure before deciding what to do.