Become better as a person. I think it works both ways too. It'll make you feel better about yourself as well.
"Want quality? Be quality."
-Some random chick
Edit - I don't know, I see a general complacent attitude towards this thing around here. "They should like me for me" which is true, but I'm of the opinion that a person can always be better. I don't know. Don't follow my advice lol I don't have a girlfriend
I derped my edit and made a new post