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Burlesque dancer fired for being too curvy
Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-03-06 09:10:05
To each their own. I personally think she is not attractive. Fat is probably the thing that puts me off the most(other than bad hygiene of course..)
By fonewear 2015-03-06 09:11:42
To each their own. I personally think she is not attractive. Fat is probably the thing that puts me off the most(other than bad hygiene of course..)
Well what kind of burlesque dancer tickles your fancy ?
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-03-06 09:12:18
I am afraid my knowledge of burlesque performers is extremely limited.
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By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:12:23
As for the subjective "is she attractive or not", I think so, but I think -- even from a physical standpoint alone -- a lot more goes into what I find attractive than simple proportions. For instance:
If I'm going to nitpick her boobs could be a bit bigger...but we have ways of fixing that !
Breast augmentation generally is a huge turn off for me. HUGE turn off. Especially the blatently ballooned ones. Small and natural > big and fake any day.
Women whose entire appeal is based on make up and whatnot also sort of bother the ***out of me. You see some of these commonly-listed "hottest women in America" without makeup and yeah, some of them are still quite cute, but almost none of them have that same "hotness" without the illusion.
And have you ever seen some of the big-name porn stars without makeup? They can be downright terrifying.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-03-06 09:14:03
And have you ever seen some of the big-name porn stars without makeup? Honestly even with makeup I find many of them not attractive. You see a cute one every 200 dinghies.
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:15:26
To each their own. I personally think she is not attractive. Fat is probably the thing that puts me off the most(other than bad hygiene of course..)
See, I understand this is true for so many people, but I've never been able to make my brain work that way. Skinniness alone is not an attractive trait in and of itself, yet I could be wildly attracted to a very skinny person. Both extremes of the spectrum are admittedly problematic for me, overweight more than underweight, but no matter how you look at it, there's so much more that goes into "being attractive".
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By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:15:50
And have you ever seen some of the big-name porn stars without makeup? Honestly even with makeup I find many of them not attractive. You see a cute one every 200 dinghies.
I tend to agree with you, because they look so obnoxiously fake that it's terrifying.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2015-03-06 09:18:50
The first time my wife wore her womanly war paint I just looked at her and said, "holy ***it's October? Did I miss my birthday?" First and last time she augmented her appearance lol
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:30:21
The first time my wife wore her womanly war paint I just looked at her and said, "holy ***it's October? Did I miss my birthday?" First and last time she augmented her appearance lol
I have worn more far more makeup in the past 17 years than my wife has.
True story.
Granted, it was like 99% because of theater, but still. The fact remains.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-03-06 09:30:53
Ramyrez is a fan of the KISS, confirmed.
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2015-03-06 09:32:29
Granted, it was like 99% because of theater, but still. Rocky Horror Picture Show?
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:32:31
Ramyrez is a fan of the KISS, confirmed.
*SSSSssssssss*
I actually kind of hate KISS. Most of their music is pretty awful. While I respect some of the influence they've had on others from a performance angle, and I really like their current drummer, Eric Singer...overall I'm not a fan.
But Gene Simmons is a *** ***. I really, really hate his money-grubbing ***.
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2015-03-06 09:32:40
Im glad my wife is japanese lol their skin is so flawless why are serial killers not turning them into leather yet
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By Cerberus.Anjisnu 2015-03-06 09:33:58
Gene is a hack he's always been the least talented of the lot
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2015-03-06 09:34:03
Ramyrez is a fan of the KISS, confirmed.
*SSSSssssssss* Your cobra has no fangs
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:36:18
Hey, wow. You're right. I just googled that and found the first one that looked like a good angry cobra.
Fixed!
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:37:04
Gene is a hack he's always been the least talented of the lot
Well, let's be fair.
Peter Criss really isn't a very good drummer.
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By Cecilia Charl 2015-03-06 09:45:06
Im glad my wife is japanese lol their skin is so flawless why are serial killers not turning them into leather yet
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By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:45:18
Anyhow. Enough ranting about KISS.
Let's go back to discussing what we find attractive in people!
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By Cecilia Charl 2015-03-06 09:46:12
Anyhow. Enough ranting about KISS.
Let's go back to discussing what we find attractive in people!
Can I be extremely graphic? I really feeel like I can contribute a great deal to this....
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:46:56
Im glad my wife is japanese lol their skin is so flawless why are serial killers not turning them into leather yet
My wife's a Sweedish/Irish/English mix and her freckles and the like just make her all the cuter.
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 09:47:32
Anyhow. Enough ranting about KISS.
Let's go back to discussing what we find attractive in people!
Can I be extremely graphic? I really feeel like I can contribute a great deal to this....
I'm all about it.
I'm not a mod, however. So...proceed boldly, but carefully!
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By Cecilia Charl 2015-03-06 09:50:22
Anyhow. Enough ranting about KISS.
Let's go back to discussing what we find attractive in people!
Can I be extremely graphic? I really feeel like I can contribute a great deal to this....
I'm all about it.
I'm not a mod, however. So...proceed boldly, but carefully!
I mean I do like guys when they are considerate, but dammit I do like a guy who knows what he wants too. I cannot stand when I message a guy "Hey what do you want for lunch?" and he goes "idk, w/e u want"
I'm like "....Really?" WHAT WAS THE POINT OF ASKING YOU THEN!?
But no in all seriousness, if I gonna be doing the dirty, one thing that better be taken seriously is me pet peeve of some shred of cleanliness. I take the time to clean myself, a guy should have the common courtesy to keep himself clean as well, and no, dabbing a little cologne does not count as cleaning, that's air freshening. It's like dumpinng a can of Febreeze on a landfill annd saying "Look! No trash!"
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 10:06:29
a guy should have the common courtesy to keep himself clean as well
If an adult doesn't keep themself clean, I suggest dropping them on the spot.
That's just a huge red flag to me.
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2015-03-06 10:16:46
Im glad my wife is japanese lol their skin is so flawless why are serial killers not turning them into leather yet
*awaits a local news report*
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2015-03-06 10:21:05
Febreeze on a landfill lol... that was good.
I don't really think stuff like that really even matters because it can usually be solved by simply asking someone to do it. Meshing personalities and being able to stand eachother for more than 5 minutes in a contained area seems to be more important than any of that.
Edit: to comment on the reply for food requirements that ***goes both ways...
you: hey what ya want for lunch?
me: chinese
you: eh, I don't really want chinese.
me: why did you ask me what I wanted then huh?!?!?!
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By Cecilia Charl 2015-03-06 10:22:11
a guy should have the common courtesy to keep himself clean as well
If an adult doesn't keep themself clean, I suggest dropping them on the spot.
That's just a huge red flag to me.
That's typically the make or break for me, people say I'm too nit picky, I just remind them "I'm gonna be in a car with them, hanging out with them, going to movies, out to dinner, etc etc. If I have to sit there and put up with bad odor when it is so easy to just bathe, then no thank you, I will not give them the time of day."
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 10:25:56
people say I'm too nit picky,
To expect someone to be clean is "nit picky"?
That's...yikes.
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By Cecilia Charl 2015-03-06 10:27:04
people say I'm too nit picky,
To expect someone to be clean is "nit picky"?
That's...yikes.
Yeah, people where I live have bottom of the barrel standards...
By Ramyrez 2015-03-06 10:29:25
people say I'm too nit picky,
To expect someone to be clean is "nit picky"?
That's...yikes.
Yeah, people where I live have bottom of the barrel standards...
Where do you live? The seedier side of Wheeling? <_<;
Edit: Seriously, is packing your ***and leaving an option? :x
New Orleans burlesque dancer Ruby Rage fired for being too curvy Seattle PI
The article has pics and a film clip.
Quote: A New Orleans burlesque club's decision to fire one of its more voluptuous dancers, Ruby Rage, has brought a fire storm of reaction.
Last fall, Lucky Pierre's, 753 Bourbon St., told the producer of its main burlesque show that Ruby Rage was too curvy for its new approach, according to The Guardian.
Producer Bella Blue initially stood by her choice to include Ruby Rage due to her artistic contributions to the Blue Book Cabaret but eventually had to let her go when the club insisted, The Guardian reported.
The spurned dancer got in touch with 21st Century Burlesque and told what happened in her own words, published in a Feb. 21 post:
"I have been working at Lucky Pierre's for around a year. About three weeks ago I stopped seeing my name on the schedule, so naturally I asked about this because I thought it was a technical error with my phone/computer on my end.
"I finally had the chance to speak with Bella Blue, and she told me that upper management didn't think that my body type fit in with the burlesque show...."
Lucky Pierre's at first denied the allegations, according to the New York Daily News. The club's initial response on Facebook has apparently been deleted.
The only show listed Tuesday on the club's program schedule for this week was The Real Drag Queens of New Orleans.
After going public with her experience, Ruby told 21st Century Burlesque she's convinced the issue is widespread.
"It doesn't just happen to me but so many more amazing performers down here in New Orleans, and since I made my post public I have had many other full figured women come to me from across the country to tell me that they are body shamed as well. This isn't right."
Dedicated to Fone.
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