I don't run a parser but I've had some things quoted back to me after fights and I honestly don't know how to interpenetrate what "good DPS" is.
As a Bard before I got my relic I was averaging 115~120 in Titan HM
Yesterday at il85 I was at 150~ for Garuda Ex. (I was also second behind a Blm who was at 170~ ... the other Blm and Smn were closer to 130~)
I have no idea how well this is tracking actual damage however. I've seen things saying that Smn dmg from DoT's is "averaged" and anything from Bane is accounted... For those of you who do run a parse though what do you consider a good number to have in an actual fight, compared to against a test dummy.