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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-03-23 14:22:41
So what you're saying is it's not a shared contract, each person within the marriage makes their own and their only requirement is to uphold the one they made, they are not to care about their partners?
I told my wife that even if she kicks me out of the house, divorces me (which anyone can legally do) and marries another guy, (which don't even get me started on second marraiges) and/or tries to kill me for the insurance money.
I still wont ever take my ring off.
My side of the agreement isn't dependant on anyone else's actions or inactions. She could fall into a coma ans stay there forty years, die in childbirth, IT DOESN"T MATTER
you can't figure a way out of it. I already thought of every concievable possibility. I'd rather not figure a way out of it. I just want to understand the entire thing. It doesn't feel as clear cut to me as so many others have tried to make it in the past, but I know most of that comes from my need to overthink every last tiny detail and make things as precise as possible for myself.
Marriage is just an enigma to me for weird reasons.
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2017-03-23 14:23:37
Again, this really depends on a person's definition of marriage
mine's a little more psychotic in the pathalogical devotion department... perhaps.....
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-03-23 14:24:36
I have a new found respect for Niko and I'm not sure how I feel about this. Niko's a good guy deep down. He's just also a *** coated *** with *** filling who likes to *** with people.
He's relatable.
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2017-03-23 14:28:35
Marriage is just an enigma to me for weird reasons.
no I get it. It's confusing as ***out there in the real world.
I made up my mind a long time ago to live like a warrior. In the I'm already dead and they just haven't filled the hole in with dirt yet...
kind of thing.... that doesn't make sense to a lot of people
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-23 14:28:38
I should get married. >_>
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-03-23 14:29:21
I should get married. >_> Gonna have to give up the waifus first.
edit: Reading back through everything, I'm reminded Nik is one of those people who makes me feel like I'd be perfectly okay sitting near a fire drinking scotch talking ***with him.
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2017-03-23 14:30:50
Niko's a good guy deep down.
No I'm both a good and evil guy... In the... there is no way to have one without the other... this is getting pretty deep for NI... kind of way
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-03-23 14:35:27
Ni has to get deep every so often, helps keep the balance. Just like sometimes(most times) I need to come in here and be ridiculous and stupid. Balance.
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-03-23 14:38:37
I should get married. >_>
I'm sure we can have that... Arranged
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-03-23 14:40:02
Testing
Spath
Edit:
Still works. I am pleased.
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By Nadleeh Sakurai 2017-03-23 14:44:02
got this yesterday
marriage?
that would mean making an effort to meet soemone who wouldnt set my things on fire
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2017-03-23 14:46:32
don't fault someone else for having a different opinion on how much commitment is required for their marriage
the problem is almost nobody thinks it through first. what marraige is, what it means to them, what it means to their partner etc.
like making a pact with the devil and then acting suprised when he gets your soul at the end.
Kelsy Grammer, great example, if he asked you to marry him would you believe it was going to last forever?
I think he is on wife number eight now I lost count...
Who is dumber? his fourth wife or his third? Or is he just an ***?
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-23 14:48:33
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy.
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By Lakshmi.Zerowone 2017-03-23 14:49:05
Then you throw children into the equation and begin to question everything....EVERYTHING!
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By Lakshmi.Zerowone 2017-03-23 14:50:42
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy.
Thinking about revisiting the deer stop, for some unrequited missed connections?
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-03-23 14:51:29
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy. Sounds like you want a mommy.
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-23 14:51:55
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy.
Thinking about revisiting the deer stop, for some unrequited missed connections? >_> Na
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-03-23 14:52:26
don't fault someone else for having a different opinion on how much commitment is required for their marriage
the problem is almost nobody thinks it through first. what marraige is, what it means to them, what it means to their partner etc.
like making a pact with the devil and then acting suprised when he gets your soul at the end.
Kelsy Grammer, great example, if he asked you to marry him would you believe it was going to last forever?
I think he is on wife number eight now I lost count...
Who is dumber? his fourth wife or his third? Or is he just an ***?
I think a lot of people think it through, but you never really know how a situation is going to end up
A spouse who is perfectly fine at the start might end up being an abusive ***
And I know it is difficult to sometimes give up on a loved one, but sometimes that's just what happens
I for one wouldn't be able to stay in a relationship that ended in the other partner being physically or mentally abusive, and I don't think that abuse is a valid response to abuse either
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-23 14:52:58
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy. Sounds like you want a mommy. You're right. I want someone to do all the ***I avoid doing because I'm lazy.
I want a maid.
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-03-23 14:53:57
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy. Sounds like you want a mommy. You're right. I want someone to do all the ***I avoid doing because I'm lazy.
I want a maid.
A sexy maid?
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2017-03-23 14:54:09
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy. Sounds like you want a mommy. You're right. I want someone to do all the ***I avoid doing because I'm lazy.
I want a maid. You mentioned nothing about doing the stuff, you just wanted someone to nag you to do it.
Mothers, they're not your maids. CLEAN YER OWN DAMN ROOM!
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By Asura.Dameshi 2017-03-23 14:56:42
I should get married. >_> Well you are a girlboy so I suppose you could legally marry yourself...
PARKER look into it. I suggest starting with the most socially conservative area you can find and ask the biggest, meanest looking person you can find. Those people are trustworthy. Bonus points if they're a biker. Free bottle of water if automatic weaponry is legal there.
*walks in to thread*
*reads one sentence*
nope
*walks out* I'm curious as to exactly which sentence it was.
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-23 14:57:22
I just want someone to nag me through all the BS I try to avoid doing because I'm lazy. Sounds like you want a mommy. You're right. I want someone to do all the ***I avoid doing because I'm lazy.
I want a maid.
A sexy maid? You seem to know what's up.
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-23 14:58:19
I'm curious as to exactly which sentence it was.
This one:
I should get married. >_>
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-03-24 07:08:23
Cheesy Breadsticks for Breakfast may have been a bit much :(
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-24 07:11:57
I usually have eggrolls for breakfast. Not big on breakfast food unless it's home made or from a diner or something.
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By Asura.Lolserj 2017-03-24 07:38:06
I don't know if I've ever had eggrolls from a diner
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By Unlimited Breadsticks 2017-03-24 07:43:02
Cheesy Breadsticks for Breakfast may have been a bit much :(
Your problem is you just didn't have enough of them
Don't half *** it, yo, bring the whole ***
Mor ning!
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By Anna Ruthven 2017-03-24 07:43:40
No, no. Eggrolls from QT, I only like breakfast from a diner or something.
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2017-03-24 09:11:50
I think a lot of people think it through,
Well then... I hope you can find some enjoyment in being wrong....
Because you are wrong and you should feel bad! (4spence!)
My statement is based on statistical analysis, not thoughts or feelings. Most people, when they think about the future, do not consider the negative.
Not only do they not want to think about bad things, they don't even want to know about if they could. Using a time machine or some sort of window to look into the future.
"More than 2,000 people from Germany and Spain were asked in face-to-face interviews whether they would want to know about future events in their lives. Nearly all — 85 to 90 percent — would not want to know about upcoming negative events. Up to 70 percent preferred to remain ignorant of positive ones."
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
Pics worth referencing: 
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Fenrir.Scragg said: Code Rowland 29488 2007-06-24 16:06:00
Ludoggy 26597 2009-02-25 22:31:23
Flionheart 22174 2008-11-17 14:28:15
Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
Mabrook 8356 2008-07-01 00:53:38
Marzbarz 7723 2010-01-10 14:12:5
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